B6 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Thursday, December 5, 2019 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Girlfriend closely attached to son is distant to family FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE Dear Abby: One of my sons is Dear Abby: I am a naturally thin young woman. Oftentimes, espe- dating a young woman who seems cially when I’m working in offices to care deeply for him, but is very with older women, my co-workers cool and distant to our family. He comment on their dissatisfaction goes to nearly all of her family’s with their weight and how they wish events, but she seldom comes to any their body could be more like mine. of ours. To be honest, I don’t equate thin- She has been to one birthday J eanne ness with beauty or fat with ugli- get-together at a restaurant, a wed- P hilliPs ness. But when I try to tell these ding and a play where I bought the ADVICE women I think they are beautiful as tickets for her, myself and all my they are, it’s received with suspicion, daughters-in-law. She has been as if they think I don’t mean what invited to family dinners at one or I say. How can I respond to those who are another of our homes, Christmas celebra- unhappy with their weight without sound- tions, Thanksgivings, birthdays — you name ing insincere? I don’t want to hurt anybody’s it — but has not come to any of them. My feelings. — Thin in Florida husband and I hand-make our gifts to her, Dear Thin: When your co-workers com- which require a lot of time and effort. Last pliment you about your figure, smile and say year, she sent us each a gift for Christmas. thank you. Period. If they express dissatisfac- They have been dating for several years. tion with their appearance, do not allow your- When they are apart, she texts him con- self to be drawn into the conversation. You stantly. I am confused and troubled by her can’t alleviate their insecurities; they haven’t indifference to us. We have been more than believed you when you tried. Because the welcoming to her. Is there anything I or subject makes you uncomfortable, try chang- we could do to help her warm up to us? — ing the topic to another one. Flummoxed Mom in the South Dear Abby: Is there a place where I can Dear Flummoxed: Have you talked with donate puzzles? I always make sure all the your son about this? If not, you should. You pieces are there. I put them in a zip bag inside are already doing everything you can, so a taped box so anyone who gets them would prepare to batten down the hatches. If your be getting something that’s as good as new. son eventually marries this insecure young I have a whole closet full, and I need to find woman, she will continue isolating him from a place to donate them. They are too nice his family and absorb him into her own. to throw away. — Wanting To Share in When the grandchildren come, they will Washington spend the majority of their time with her Dear Wanting: I am sure that if you call family and not yours. around you will discover that senior centers, It is harsh, but it’s the truth. Unless your hospitals, nursing homes, libraries, churches, son is strong enough to put his foot down, schools and rehabilitation facilities could put it’s exactly what will happen. You have those puzzles to good use. It’s worth a try. my sympathy. DAYS GONE BY 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 5, 1919 District Attorney Roscoe I. Keator, of Umatilla County, will appear before the state supreme court at Salem on Dec. 15, to argue for a rehearing of the case of the state of Ore- gon vs. M. Z. Moss, wealthy Lake county stockman. He represents the district attor- neys’ association of eastern Oregon. In 1917, Moss was found guilty of cattle rustling by a jury in the circuit court. The jurymen drew an inference from the presence of nine cattle bearing brands other than Moss’s found in his herd of 300 cattle, that they had been appro- priated. The cattle bore underneath their vari- ous brands the newly-made brand used on his cattle, the testimony showed. When the case was carried to the supreme court on appeal by Moss the lower court’s decision was reversed. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 5, 1969 Residents of Hermiston, for the most part, are taking in stride the news that poi- sonous war gases will be stored at nearby Umatilla Army Depot. Gov. Tom McCall was told earlier this week that nerve gas and other chemical warfare agents from Okinawa would be permanently stored at UAD. Harold Miller, an insurance broker, said, “We’ve been living close to a depot that has enough munitions to blow us all up, so I can’t see that we’re subject to anything worse by storing chemical agents here.” 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 5, 1994 Billy Mills, an Oglala Lakota Indian who stunned the sporting world by winning the 10,000-meter race in the 1964 Tokyo Olym- pics, will give a motivational talk Thursday at Whitman College in Walla Walla. School children from the Confederated Tribes of the Umatilla Indian Reservation will attend the evening talk. Mills serves as national chairman of Running Strong for American Indian Youth, an organization that raises $10 to $20 million each year for projects on Indian reservations. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Dec. 5, 2013, Nelson Mandela, the anti-apartheid leader who became South Africa’s first black presi- dent, died at age 95. In 1791, composer Wolf- gang Amadeus Mozart died in Vienna, Austria, at age 35. In 1848, President James K. Polk triggered the Gold Rush of 1849 by confirming that gold had been discov- ered in California. In 1901, movie producer Walt Disney was born in Chicago. In 1932, German phys- icist Albert Einstein was granted a visa, making it possible for him to travel to the United States. In 1933, national Prohibi- tion came to an end as Utah became the 36th state to rat- ify the 21st Amendment to the Constitution, repealing the 18th Amendment. In 1952, the Great Smog of London descended on the British capital; the unusu- ally thick fog, which con- tained toxic pollutants, lasted five days and was blamed for causing thou- sands of deaths. In 1998, James P. Hoffa claimed the Teamsters pres- idency after challenger Tom Leedham conceded defeat in the union’s presidential election. In 2003, the two mak- ers of flu shots in the United States, Chiron and Aven- tis Pasteur, announced they had run out of vaccine and would not be able to meet a surge in demand. In 2008, the Labor Department reported that an alarming half-million jobs had vanished in Nov. 2008 as unemployment hit a 15-year high of 6.7%. A judge in Las Vegas sen- tenced O.J. Simpson to 33 years in prison (with eligi- bility for parole after nine) for an armed robbery at a hotel room. (Simpson was released to parole on Oct. 1, 2017.) Today’s Birthdays: Author Joan Didion is 85. Actress Morgan Brittany is 68. Comedian-actress Mar- garet Cho is 51. Writer-di- rector Morgan J. Freeman is 50. Actress Kali Rocha is 48. Rock musician Regina Zernay (Cowboy Mouth) is 47. Actress Amy Acker is 43. Actor Adan Canto is 38. Rhythm-and-blues singer Keri Hilson is 37. Actor Gabriel Luna is 37. Thought for Today: “Talent hits a target no one else can hit; Genius hits a target no one else can see.” — Arthur Schopen- hauer, German philosopher (1788-1860). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE