A12 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Wednesday, July 24, 2019 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Recent revelation of affair threatens to break up family FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE Dear Abby: I just found out better off and less complicated that my boyfriend of 12 years slept without your needy sibling, and that you have no desire to contact with my stepmother last year. She her. OK. doesn’t know I know, and now that So what exactly is your ques- I do, I struggle with it. Should I tell tion? Are you waiting for me to my dad what I found out, confront “order” you to call her and apol- her or let sleeping dogs lie? I am ogize? The price for that will be deeply hurt. I feel like my heart J eanne shouldering again the burden of has been torn out. How can I for- P hilliPs give and forget this? — Wounded her neediness. If you’re worried ADVICE about how she’s doing, ask some- in Utah one who is in touch with her. But Dear Wounded: How did you hold a good thought. If you have happen upon this news? Did your heard nothing, she’s probably fine. Bad boyfriend tell you? Unless you are abso- news has a way of traveling fast. lutely certain it’s true, do nothing. If you Dear Abby: When we got married, I are certain, get rid of this poor excuse for a thought even though he told “everyone” “boyfriend.” And tell your father and step- mother what you know and how hurt you he did it because he had to, that he truly are. did love me. But as the years have passed, Dear Abby: You always tell us to con- I have realized that maybe he was telling the truth and he did marry me for that rea- sider whether we would be better off with son rather than for love. I feel unloved most or without somebody. What if it’s your sis- ter? My sister and I are of retirement age of the time. Lately, I have been thinking and had a falling out. I felt she had become maybe it’s time to just move on. What’s your advice? — Feeling Torn too needy, and she was very hurt when I Dear Feeling Torn: Rather than dwell told her so. She is awaiting my apology, on something your husband said in the past, which has been the pattern of our lives. raise the subject again. And when you do, Although we live 30 miles apart, I have no tell him you are doing it because you feel desire to contact her. unloved most of the time. If he tells you he Because I was usually the one she went meant it then and still feels that way, my to for advice and companionship, I feel advice is to ask yourself if this is the kind of guilty for “abandoning” her and often won- der if she’s OK. We are both healthy and marriage you want for the rest of your life. self-sufficient. I love her because she’s my Some women are so afraid of the unknown that they would stay in this kind of mar- sister, but I can truly say my life is eas- ier and less complicated without her. The riage, regardless of the pain. Because I assume you have a child, you and your hus- thought of contacting her is too much to band need to figure out if you can improve bear. On the other hand, she’s my sister. — your relationship. If not, then it may be time Better Off in Colorado to move on. Dear Better Off: You say your life is DAYS GONE BY 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian July 24, 1919 Wool grown in Umatilla county, cleaned and woven by Pendleton Woolen Mills and made into men’s clothing in the east is now being placed on the market in Pendleton with Bond Bros. agents for the goods here. The finished product is known as Bish- op’s Fabrics and is pronounced the finest of clothing fabrics now manufactured. The Pendleton Woolen Mills has woven suiting goods in small quantities for some little time but only this year has it gone into the busi- ness on a large scale. Contracts have been made with some of the east’s leading cloth- ing manufacturers it is said, for quantities of Bishop’s Fabrics. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian July 24, 1969 Herbert R. Hilde paid the final install- ment last week on a costly curve his car missed taking near Adams last March 3. Hilde, who pleaded innocent to a charge of reckless driving in Justice of the Peace Sam K. Dodds’ court July 6, was fined $255. Dodds commented Hilde was lucky to be alive to pay it. One of three witnesses testi- fied Hilde’s car was traveling about 90 mph when they saw it touch a guard rail near Ath- ena. Minutes later the car went out of control at the curve on Highway 11 at Adams, left the road, swerved across the highway and crossed a railroad track before spinning to a stop, another witness said. Hilde was injured but able to walk away from the wrecked car, said arresting officer Frank C. Gardner. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian July 24, 1994 From a distance, the pond nestled among the Boardman region’s irrigation cir- cles looks inviting, especially during the recent hot spell. But would-be swimmers are warded off quickly by the smell. The 42-acre pond at the Port of Morrow is filled with effluent from neighboring food pro- cessors. The Port built the pond to reduce the smell of the effluent used to irrigate the fields. To dispose of the effluent, it’s used as irrigation water rather than simply flushed away. Neighbors living near some of the Port’s effluent-irrigated fields had com- plained about the smell the irrigation gen- erated. The pond will help reduce the prob- lem by letting solids settle before it’s used on the fields. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On July 24, 1969, the Apollo 11 astronauts — two of whom had been the first men to set foot on the moon — splashed down safely in the Pacific. In 1862, Martin Van Buren, the eighth president of the United States, and the first to have been born a U.S. citizen, died at age 79 in New York. In 1866, Tennessee became the first state to be readmitted to the Union after the Civil War. In 1937, the state of Alabama dropped charges against four of the nine young black men accused of raping two white women in the “Scottsboro Case.” In 1959, during a visit to Moscow, Vice President Richard Nixon engaged in his famous “Kitchen Debate” with Soviet leader Nikita Khrushchev. In 1974, the U.S. Supreme Court unanimously ruled that President Richard Nixon had to turn over sub- poenaed White House tape recordings to the Watergate special prosecutor. In 1975, an Apollo spacecraft splashed down in the Pacific, completing a mission which included the first-ever docking with a Soyuz capsule from the Soviet Union. In 2002, nine coal min- ers became trapped in a flooded tunnel of the Quec- reek Mine in western Penn- sylvania; the story ended happily 77 hours later with the rescue of all nine. In 2005, Lance Arm- strong won his seventh con- secutive Tour de France. (Those wins were stripped away after Armstrong’s 2013 confession to using ste- roids and other banned per- formance-enhancing drugs and methods.) Today’s Birthdays: Actor John Aniston is 86. Political cartoonist Pat Oli- phant is 84. Comedian Ruth Buzzi is 83. Movie direc- tor Gus Van Sant is 67. Bas- ketball Hall of Famer Karl Malone is 56. Retired MLB All-Star Barry Bonds is 55. Actress-singer Jennifer Lopez is 50. NHL center Patrice Bergeron is 34. Thought for Today: “People who jump to con- clusions rarely alight on them.” — Philip Guedalla, British writer (1889-1944). 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