A12 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Thursday, July 18, 2019 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Revelation at bachelor party throws wedding into question FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER Dear Abby: My sister-in-law commitment, not love. Sometimes “June” is being married soon. I I feel guilty for not going more often. will be the matron of honor. My I guess I’m asking you for per- husband, “Jake,” June’s brother, mission to see him when I have will be a groomsman for her fiance, time but not every day. I also would “Jimmy.” Not only is Jake going to like to encourage people who have be a groomsman, but he’s also sup- posed to officiate. lost faith in their spouse to make Jake went to the bachelor party the break before any serious illness J eanne a couple weeks ago and Jimmy sets in. I have no interest in finding P hilliPs showed all the guys — includ- another man, but I feel tied down ADVICE ing my husband — eight (!) naked with the burden of seeing him through to the end. — Hanging In pictures a girl from work had tex- There in Ohio ted him. He asked my husband if Dear Hanging In: Have a realistic talk he should tell June about it before the wed- ding or after, and Jake said he should tell with that conscience of yours. Surely the her right away. two of you can reach a compromise. This Should my husband tell June or leave it is not the time to punish your husband for his infidelity. up to Jimmy, who may or may not do it? Under the circumstances, because you (We don’t know what his plans may be don’t feel your husband deserves to be vis- about the girl who sent the pictures.) — ited daily, visit a couple of times a week Looking For the Right Thing To Do to ensure that he is being properly looked Dear Looking: Jimmy may or may not after. And if he isn’t, make it your mission have “plans” for a fling with the woman to ensure the situation is remedied, as you who texted him the pictures — or it may would want someone to do for you. have already happened. (He could also be Dear Abby: This is embarrassing. I am an immature braggart, which is why he 30 and don’t drive. I have extreme anxi- shared the photos with the other “stags” at ety and a learning disorder that affects my the party.) Because Jake now has concerns visual spatial perception. I try to hide this about Jimmy’s character, he should reiter- ate to Jimmy that if June isn’t told before as much as possible, but I’m worried the she makes a lifetime commitment, he will truth will come out. Should I disclose it to tell her. He should also refuse to officiate at employers? New friends? Acquaintances? — Panicked in Pennsylvania a wedding he fears may be a huge mistake. Dear Panicked: If there is a medical Dear Abby: My husband has late stage reason for your inability to perform certain dementia and is in a long-term care center. tasks, your employer should be informed. He had several affairs during our marriage, However, I see no reason to reveal this to and if the tables were turned, I’m sure he acquaintances or new friends. Fewer peo- would be involved with other women while ple drive these days, and many of them I was receiving care. I realize I should have don’t because of the expense involved or left him years ago. I visit him several times access to public transportation. a month but not every day. I do it out of DAYS GONE BY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian July 18, 1919 By August 1 the city water supply will be entirely independent of water from the Umatilla River, Manuel Friedly, mem- ber of the city council, declared today. Mr. Friedly made a trip to the head works at Thorn Hollow last evening, accompany- ing Water Superintendent F.B. Hays., Mrs. Hays and City Recorder Thomas Fitz Ger- ald. Virtually all the ditch for the extension to Chaplish springs is dug and pipe laying is not far behind, Mr. Friedly said. About 400 feet remain to be laid and not much more than a week or 10 days should be required. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian July 18, 1969 Business is booming at the Umatilla Toll Bridge with an all-time traffic record set in June at 68,359 vehicles, approximately 10,000 more than a year ago, according to Gene Hiatt, bridge manager. Ten years ago the June count was 36,889 and the first June the bridge was open, in 1955, the number of vehicles crossing the bridge totaled 23,291. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian July 18, 1994 A helicopter trying to take off with a load of logs crashed Sunday in remote, moun- tainous terrain near Pearson Creek, injuring the pilot. Rescuers hiked for about an hour in the hot morning sun up and down ravines and over fallen trees in order to get to Wil- liam J. McClure and the wrecked helicop- ter. “He’s lucky to be alive,” said Dep. Glen Diehl, one of the first rescuers to arrive at the scene. He called the helicopter a “brown, mangled mess.” McClure, 50, of Seattle, was airlifted to St. Anthony Hospital in Pendleton approximately two hours after the 10:36 a.m. crash. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On July 18, 1969, Sen. Edward M. Kennedy, D-Mass., left a party on Chap- paquiddick Island near Mar- tha’s Vineyard with Mary Jo Kopechne, 28; some time later, Kennedy’s car went off a bridge into the water. Ken- nedy was able to escape, but Kopechne drowned. In A.D. 64, the Great Fire of Rome began, consuming most of the city for about a week. (Some blamed the fire on Emperor Nero, who in turn blamed Christians.) In 1918, South African anti-apartheid leader and president Nelson Mandela was born in the village of Mvezo. In 1940, the Democratic National Convention at Chi- cago Stadium nominated President Franklin D. Roo- sevelt (who was monitoring the proceedings at the White House) for an unprecedented third term in office; earlier in the day, Eleanor Roos- evelt spoke to the convention, becoming the first presiden- tial spouse to address such a gathering. In 1944, Hideki Tojo was removed as Japanese premier and war minister because of setbacks suffered by his country in World War II. American forces in France captured the Normandy town of St. Lo. In 1984, gunman James Huberty opened fire at a McDonald’s in San Ysidro, California, killing 21 peo- ple before being shot dead by police. Walter F. Mondale won the Democratic pres- idential nomination in San Francisco. In 1989, actress Rebecca Schaeffer, 21, was shot to death at her Los Angeles home by obsessed fan Rob- ert Bardo, who was later sen- tenced to life in prison. In 1990, Dr. Karl Men- ninger, the dominant figure in American psychiatry for six decades, died in Topeka, Kansas, four days short of his 97th birthday. In 1994, a bomb hidden in a van destroyed a Jewish cul- tural center in Buenos Aires, Argentina, killing 85. Tutsi rebels declared an end to Rwanda’s 14-week-old civil war. Today’s Birthdays: Movie director Paul Verho- even is 81. Singer Martha Reeves is 78. Singer Ricky Skaggs is 65. Rock musician John Hermann (Widespread Panic) is 57. Actor Vin Die- sel is 52. Dance music sing- er-songwriter M.I.A. is 44. Movie director Jared Hess is 40. Actor Jason Weaver is 40. Actress Kristen Bell is 39. Actress Priyanka Chopra is 37. Actor James Norton is 34. Actor Travis Milne is 33. Thought for Today: “Kindnesses are easily for- gotten; but injuries! what worthy man does not keep those in mind?” — Wil- liam Makepeace Thackeray, English author (born this date in 1811, died 1863). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE