A12 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Wednesday, July 17, 2019 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Parents unsure how to begin having ‘the talk’ with son FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: I have a young, can get pregnant?” and “How old preteen grandson who is asking must a boy be before he can father a child?” Other topics, including his parents “facts of life” ques- tions. They are bewildered about peer pressure, dating, STDs, drugs how to give him the information. and alcohol, are also covered. My I’d be grateful if you could share booklet has been used to promote discussions by educators and reli- details of the publication you have gious leaders and distributed by for this purpose and how to get it. J eanne doctors’ offices. The more infor- — Grandmom in Clinton Town- P hilliPs mation his parents can provide, the ship, Mich. ADVICE better prepared your grandson will Dear Grandmom: Many par- ents find the subject of sex embar- be to make informed choices in the rassing, so they postpone dis- future. I hope my booklet will be a helpful tool for facilitating the many con- cussing it with their children. They forget versations his parents will have with their that children today mature earlier and son. are exposed to sexual images and refer- ences more often than those of previous Dear Abby: My son recently died in an accident. His death was unexpected and generations. shocking, and we are all heartbroken, espe- When “The Talk” finally happens, it’s cially his girlfriend. I know he was having often too late. It is important that par- ents begin discussing subjects like alco- doubts about their relationship because he told me, but she doesn’t know. hol, smoking, drugs, sex and family val- We have grown very close since the ues well before their children are tempted accident. She says things like, “Danny and to experiment. My booklet “What Every I were meant to be.” It makes me think I Teen Should Know” was written to help should tell her the truth. But I’m afraid if parents break the ice and get the conver- sation going. It can be ordered by sending I do, it will affect our friendship and break your name and mailing address, plus check her heart again. What do you think? Should she know or not? — Treading Lightly or money order for $8 (U.S. funds) to Dear Dear Treading: Please accept my sym- Abby Teen Booklet, P.O. Box 447, Mount pathy for the loss of your son. Because the Morris, IL 61054-0447. Shipping and han- dling are included in the price. His parents tragedy is recent, I see nothing to be gained should review it before starting a discussion by shattering her illusion. If you feel she’s to deal with their son’s questions that might isolating herself, remind her that Danny arise. would want her to go on with her life as do Among the important topics included you. Assure her you will always be there for her if she needs you. are: “How old must a girl be before she DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian July 17, 1919 In an effort to identify the unknown woman recently murdered at Olympia, a complete description of the woman’s teeth was received today by the sheriff’s office to be examined by all the local dentists. A com- plete chart, showing the dental work which was done on her teeth, accompanied by a description of the supposed murderer was sent. It is not generally known that a com- plete description of dental work is supposed to be kept for such identification purposes and the teeth are one of the few features, in this case, which might lead to the identifica- tion of the slain woman. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian July 17, 1969 Richard R. Sherman, 38, of Umatilla, was arrested by U.S. marshals Tuesday on charges of violating postal laws to promote a chain letter scheme. The complaint said Sherman mailed numerous letters promis- ing recipients $8,000. They were asked to send $1 to the top name in the list of four names at the bottom of the letter, send out 20 copies of the letter, delete the top name and put their own in fourth place. The complaint said all four names on the origi- nal letter where Sherman’s aliases. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian July 17, 1994 A woman fights a losing battle to keep from being sucked down a manhole, a young scholar smokes crack and tells off a police officer, and an unemployed man resists the temptation to steal from an undercover cop: It’s all there in the fluorescent pages of the kore, a quarterly literary magazine produced in Pendleton. The upstart alternative maga- zine is the product of karen verba, a writer since age 14 who said she moved to Pend- leton a few years ago to escape an abusive ex-husband. She started working on the pub- lication last August and the first issue was mailed in November. So far, three issues have been completed and verba, who prefers her name written in all lower case, a la e.e. cummings, is working on the fourth. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On July 17, 1996, TWA Flight 800, a Europe-bound Boeing 747, exploded and crashed off Long Island, New York, shortly after departing John F. Kennedy International Airport, kill- ing all 230 people on board. In 1821, Spain ceded Florida to the United States. In 1862, during the Civil War, Congress approved the Second Confiscation Act, which declared that all slaves taking refuge behind Union lines were to be set free. In 1918, Russia’s Czar Nicholas II and his fam- ily were executed by the Bolsheviks. In 1945, following Nazi Germany’s surrender, Pres- ident Harry S. Truman, Soviet leader Josef Sta- lin and British Prime Min- ister Winston S. Churchill began meeting at Potsdam in the final Allied summit of World War II. In 1954, the two-day inaugural Newport Jazz Festival, billed as “The First American Jazz Festival,” opened in Rhode Island; among the performers the first night was Billie Holi- day, who died in New York on this date in 1959 at age 44. In 1955, Disneyland had its opening day in Anaheim, California. In 1961, Baseball Hall- of-Famer Ty Cobb died in Atlanta at age 74. In 1975, an Apollo spaceship docked with a Soyuz spacecraft in orbit in the first superpower link-up of its kind. In 1981, 114 people were killed when a pair of sus- pended walkways above the lobby of the Kansas City Hyatt Regency Hotel col- lapsed during a tea dance. In 1997, Woolworth Corp. announced it was closing its 400 remaining five-and-dime stores across the country, ending 117 years in business. In 2014, all 298 pas- sengers and crew aboard Malaysia Airlines Flight 17 were killed when the Boeing 777 was shot down over reb- el-held eastern Ukraine. Today’s Birthdays: Actor Donald Sutherland is 84. Actress-singer Diahann Carroll is 84. Rock musi- cian Spencer Davis is 80. German Chancellor Angela Merkel is 65. Rock musi- cian Kim Shattuck is 56. Singer JC (PM Dawn) is 48. Rapper Sole’ is 46. Coun- try singer Luke Bryan is 43. Actor Tom Cullen is 34. Actor Brando Eaton is 33. Rhythm-and-blues singer Jeremih is 32. Actress Billie Lourd is 27. Thought for Today: “Modo et modo non habe- bant modum.” (By and by never comes.) — St. Augus- tine (A.D. 354-A.D. 430). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE