B6 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Friday, July 5, 2019 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Matriarch uses inheritance to keep her family in line FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER Dear Abby: For the last 12 years, this poor woman lives, or the closest we have been traveling 7½ hours to Area Agency on Aging and ask what see my husband’s grandparents. This can be done to help her. If not you, happens several times a year. Each then your husband’s parents, aunts time I pray it will be the last visit. and uncles should do this. Ignoring Invariably, when we return home, her condition could be considered elder abuse. I am sick for about a week, and it’s Dear Abby: I have never seen this getting worse. At 96, Grandma isn’t issue discussed anywhere but can- cleaning the house (Grandpa died J eanne not believe I’m the only person who four years ago). She lives on her own P hilliPs is dismayed by the tradition of bring- in the country. Grandma has fallen, ADVICE ing casseroles to the homes of the can’t cook for herself and still drives. bereaved. The closest family member lives When my father died, my mother seven hours away. and I hosted a post-memorial get-together at Grandma has always been a manipulator, her home. Each of my parents’ many friends and I’m tired of how she treats her family. She and acquaintances brought a casserole. uses the “financial inheritance” for leverage. Mom’s refrigerator was always full, so there My family has things planned out in advance was no room after the seventh casserole. My about what to do when someone has reached mother told me to take the rest to the base- a certain age. ment and say it was put in the freezer. My I’m tired of subjecting myself to this, let parents never owned a freezer, so after every- alone facing Grandma’s wrath. The rest of the one left, we put 17 casseroles down the gar- family accepts it for what it is. They don’t want bage disposal. to upset her, so they give in and accommodate. Please make your readers aware that Do I have the right to back out? — Wants To post-funeral food is often inconvenient even Run Away if the thought is appreciated. A restaurant gift Dear Wants: Before backing out, may I card accomplishes the same thing and assures recommend that you and your husband dis- cuss this with all of the relatives involved? the family will end up with something they actually like. — Enough Is Too Much It seems to me that a group intervention for Dear Enough: That the love, effort and Granny may be in order. expense your parents’ friends went to ended up If she has enough money that she’s success- fully holding it over everyone’s heads, she has down the drain is a shame. I am printing your enough to hire someone to clean her house for letter because your suggestion makes sense her on a weekly or monthly basis. Rather than and readers may appreciate it. If this happens pray for her demise, ask yourself, “If she’s not to other readers, it would not be ungracious to cleaning and cooking, how is she taking care be honest. Explain there is no more room in of herself?” the fridge or freezer and suggest the food be taken with the mourners when they leave. Contact the senior center nearest to where DAYS GONE BY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian July 5, 1919 Until 9 a.m. today the presentation of “The Spirit of ‘76” in the Victory parade hung in the balance because of the non-arrival of the cos- tumes. Bob Fletcher finally made a personal tour to the post office and discovered that the package which had been addressed in care of the East Oregonian had been, because of illeg- ible writing, mistaken for a package for the Eastern Oregon State Hospital. The cocked hats, coats, etc., were rescued and the day was saved. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian July 5, 1969 The wheat-growing world may beat a path to B.E. Hill’s door soon. The Pendleton man has invented a new type of combine. Hill says his machine will sell for 40 per cent less than conventional machines, or a saving to the farmers of $8,000 a machine. Although he is 67 — “I’m good for another 20 years” — the inventor did all his own design work and much of the actual construction of the prototype. Hill is the owner of Hill’s Furniture Warehouse, a factory and salesroom on Airport Road. The machine is far enough along that Hill will test it in a Pendleton wheat field this summer. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian July 5, 1994 Pendleton firefighters battled blazes all over town as flying fireworks lit into dry grass, trees — and a homeowner’s roof — this Fourth of July. Fireworks ignited the hillside near the Seventh-day Adventist Church along the 1400 block of Southwest Goodwin Place at around 9:20 p.m. Like the night’s four other fires, it was apparently started by illegal fireworks, which in Oregon include those that fly and explode. Firefight- ers rushed up the hill with three fire trucks and were able to douse the fire within 10 min- utes. But not before another blaze had begun on the other side of town. A tree burst into flames at Round-Up Park at around 9:30 p.m. when fireworks struck an evergreen, catch- ing its branches on fire. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On July 5, 1954, Elvis Presley’s first commercial recording session took place at Sun Records in Mem- phis, Tennessee; the song he recorded was “That’s All Right.” In 1811, Venezuela became the first South American country to declare independence from Spain. In 1865, the Secret Ser- vice Division of the U.S. Treasury Department was founded in Washington, D.C., with the mission of suppressing counterfeit currency. In 1935, President Frank- lin D. Roosevelt signed the National Labor Relations Act. In 1947, Larry Doby made his debut with the Cleveland Indians, becom- ing the first black player in the American League three months after Jackie Robin- son broke the color barrier in the National League. In the game against the Chi- cago White Sox at Comis- key Park, Doby, pinch-hit- ting for Bryan Stephens, struck out in his first at-bat during the seventh inning; Chicago won 6-5. In 1971, President Rich- ard Nixon certified the 26th Amendment to the U.S. Constitution, which lowered the minimum voting age from 21 to 18. In 1975, Arthur Ashe became the first black man to win a Wimbledon singles title as he defeated Jimmy Connors, 6-1, 6-1, 5-7, 6-4. In 1989, “The Seinfeld Chronicles,” the pilot to the situation comedy “Sein- feld,” aired on NBC-TV. In 2011, a jury in Orlando, Florida, found Casey Anthony, 25, not guilty of murder, man- slaughter and child abuse in the 2008 disappearance and death of her 2-year-old daughter, Caylee. In 2013, Pope Fran- cis cleared two of the 20th century’s most influential popes to become saints in the Roman Catholic church, approving a miracle needed to canonize Pope John Paul II and waiving Vatican rules to honor Pope John XXIII. Today’s Birthdays: Actress Shirley Knight is 83. Rock star Huey Lewis is 69. Actress Edie Falco is 56. Rapper RZA is 50. Rock singer Jason Wade (Lifehouse) is 39. Actor Ryan Hansen is 38. Coun- try musician Dave Hay- wood (Lady Antebellum) is 37. Rock musician Nick O’Malley (Arctic Monkeys) is 34. Actor Jason Dolley is 28. California Angels player Shohei Ohtani is 25. Thought for Today: “Never let your sense of morals prevent you from doing what is right.” — Isaac Asimov, American author (1920-1992). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE