A6 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Wednesday, July 3, 2019 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Husband with a secret past feels compelled to share it with wife FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE Dear Abby: I have been mar- don’t think he’s being fair. — Look- ried 36 years to a woman who has ing For Relief in Florida saved my life and soul. We are both Dear Looking: This is not a question of fairness. It’s a question faithful to God and to our marriage, of quality of life. Many women have sharing the love of our family. We had breast reduction surgery for are blessed in many ways — includ- ing a great son who is self-sufficient the reason you are contemplating and prospering, and a daughter who it. Your husband may have a breast is married and takes on any chal- fetish or possibly regard them as his J eanne lenge with confidence. “property.” P hilliPs I recommend he accompany you I have one guilt-filled issue I have ADVICE to your next doctor’s appointment never shared with my wife. Prior so the doctor can help him under- to meeting her, for nearly 12 years stand why the procedure is neces- through my military service and sary and what the result will be afterward. college years, I was actively bisexual. I’m not However, in the final analysis, your breasts proud of this fact but learned it was more out are yours, not his, and you should be able to of loneliness and experimentation than need. do with them whatever you like. This is the only thing I have never shared Dear Abby: What does one do in the with my love, and I wonder if I should, as it case of lending out DVDs and never see- weighs heavy on my heart. It melts me when ing them again? This happened to me at the she says “I love you” and thanks me for shar- start of the year. The perpetrators are mem- ing my life with her. I have prayed to God bers of the church I attend. One is the assis- about this. Should I share this with my wife? tant pastor. — Different Person Now When I have asked about my DVDs, the Dear Different: I see nothing positive to borrowers have been very vague. I think be gained by opening this long-closed chap- ter of your life with your wife at this late date. those who attend one’s church should be Because you feel the need to talk about this, trustworthy. What do you think I should do besides refuse to lend anything? — Miffed do it with your spiritual adviser. in Missouri Dear Abby: I am a big-breasted woman Dear Miffed: Your DVDs may have been who is suffering because of them. My doc- tor told me I’m a good candidate for a breast lost, damaged or loaned to someone else who didn’t return them. In any of those scenar- reduction, which I am thrilled about. My ios, the person(s) who failed to return the problem is my husband is 100% against my items should have offered to repay you for having the procedure. He gets mad when I them. That no one did reflects badly on the bring it up and refuses to budge. borrowers. I’m a 65-year-old woman with arthri- tis, which makes my back and neck pain That said, there is nothing you can do now even worse. How can I get him to change besides be less generous in the future. In the his mind? I’m the one who’s suffering, and I meantime, continue hounding the borrowers. DAYS GONE BY 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian July 3-4, 1919 Miss Stasia P. Walsh, only Pendleton woman who saw service overseas as a mem- ber of a hospital unit, returned today with two gold stripes for service as a nurse with Base Hospital 46. This hospital unit returned some time ago but Miss Walsh was retained for fur- ther service. Miss Walsh was met at the train by Pendleton friends and by a delegation of nurses from St. Anthony’s hospital. “I can’t tell you how happy I am to see these familiar faces and to be back in Pendleton again,” said Miss Walsh. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian July 3-4, 1969 Thirty-nine five-yard loads of dirt and silt have been removed from the bed of Shobe Creek so far, Heppner City Supt. Vic Gros- hens said Wednesday. The amount was taken from the creek above the Chase Street bridge and one block down on Cannon Street, a dis- tance of approximately one and one-half blocks. There are, he said, several loads left to be removed. Crews worked at the job Friday and Saturday. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian July 3-4, 1994 The Eastern Oregon Alcoholism Founda- tion has announced a five-year, $500,000 plan to upgrade facilities at the Southwest Pendle- ton location. The plans calls for the replace- ment of aging facilities with new construction under a four-phase plan. The foundation cur- rently operates out of the 100-year-old Mar- tin Gish House at 304 Southwest Hailey. The final phase of the plan calls for the destruc- tion of that home. Construction began in April on a new building across the street from the Gish House at 216 Southwest Hailey. The new building, representing the first phase of the upgrade plan, will house a kitchen, food stor- age area and more office space. Foundation officials hope the new building will be fin- ished and usable by September. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On July 3, 1976, Israel launched its daring mission to rescue 106 passengers and Air France crew members being held at Entebbe Air- port in Uganda by pro-Pal- estinian hijackers; the commandos succeeded in rescuing all but four of the hostages. In 1775, Gen. George Washington took command of the Continental Army at Cambridge, Massachusetts. In 1863, the three-day Civil War Battle of Gettys- burg in Pennsylvania ended in a major victory for the North as Confederate troops failed to breach Union posi- tions during an assault known as Pickett’s Charge. In 1890, Idaho became the 43rd state of the Union. In 1950, the first carrier strikes of the Korean War took place as the USS Valley Forge and the HMS Triumph sent fighter planes against North Korean targets. In 1971, singer Jim Mor- rison of The Doors died in Paris at age 27. In 1979, Dan White, con- victed of voluntary man- slaughter in the shooting deaths of San Francisco Mayor George Moscone and Supervisor Harvey Milk, was sentenced to seven years and eight months in prison. (He ended up serving five years.) In 1987, British million- aire Richard Branson and Per Lindstrand became the first hot-air balloon trav- elers to cross the Atlantic, parachuting into the sea as their craft went down off the Scottish coast. In 1988, the USS Vin- cennes shot down an Iran Air jetliner over the Persian Gulf, killing all 290 people aboard. In 1996, Russians went to the polls to re-elect Boris Yeltsin president over his Communist challenger, Gennady Zyuganov, in a runoff. In 2013, Egypt’s first democratically elected pres- ident, Mohammed Morsi, was overthrown by the mili- tary after just one year by the same kind of Arab Spring uprising that had brought the Islamist leader to power. Today’s Birthdays: Play- wright Tom Stoppard is 82. Attorney Gloria Allred is 78. Folk singer Judith Durham (The Seekers) is 76. Rock musician Vince Clarke (Erasure) is 59. Actor Tom Cruise is 57. Singer Ishmael Butler is 50. WikiLeaks founder Julian Assange is 48. Actor Ian Anthony Dale is 41. Actress/comedian Jule Klausner is 41. Actress Olivia Munn is 39. Actress Kelsey Batelaan is 24. Thought for Today: “I suppose it can be truth- fully said that Hope is the only universal liar who never loses his reputation for veracity.” — Robert G. Ingersoll, American lawyer, politician (1833-1899). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE