A12 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, June 18, 2019 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Single man falls off friends’ radar after they get married FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE Dear Abby: I’m a 26-year- explanation or apology. My hus- band is supportive, so our house- old single man. Most of my good hold is calm and reassuring. He friends are getting married, and says I should stop communicat- when they do, they stop speak- ing with these relatives because ing to me. I have a hard time not the negativity is depressing and resenting them for it. It makes me demoralizing. How can I get them feel my company was a place- holder until they got married, and to accept me as I am? — Anony- mous in America I’m not worth keeping around now J eanne Dear Anonymous: You can’t that they have what they really P hilliPs force people who have no empathy want. It makes me feel like a sec- ADVICE ond-class citizen. to have it. For whatever reason, it isn’t in their DNA. You can, how- Is this typical behavior or am I ever, take care of yourself. If see- right to feel slighted? If you have ing or talking with your relatives leaves any advice for someone in my situation, I’d you feeling worse, it would make sense to appreciate it. — Placeholder in the East follow your husband’s advice. Dear Placeholder: You may be taking Dear Abby: I’m a woman with a situa- this too personally. When people marry, tion I’ve never seen addressed in your col- their interests and their social schedules umn. Most adult identical twins do not go change. They tend to socialize with other out of their way to look 100% alike. They’ll newlyweds, which may be why you see style their hair differently, groom facial less of them. hair differently or dress differently. There could be many reasons why you I attend a church where two mid- are no longer included — among them that dle-aged women appear to have missed they don’t want you to feel like the odd that memo. They wear the same hair- man out. Make sure they know that won’t style, the same glasses and nearly identi- be the case, you still value their friendship cal clothes. This makes me tend to avoid and you would love to get together with them because I’m embarrassed to admit I them. That may prompt them to include have no clue as to which one I’m talking to. you more often. Also, make a point of stay- Please give me your input. — Seeing Dou- ing active and putting yourself in social sit- uations where you can meet some new sin- ble in California gle friends. Dear Seeing Double: Rather than allow Dear Abby: I have had a chronic illness the inability to distinguish between the for 15 years. It has a myriad of symptoms twins cause you to shun them, why not that are very painful. While some of them explain your problem? If you do, perhaps are fleeting, others last for weeks. they can suggest a way you can identify My family is angry with me because them as individuals. As you interact with they say I am not dependable. It seems like them, you may also notice characteristics that will help you tell who’s who. every conversation requires some sort of DAYS GONE BY 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian June 18, 1919 “You should have heard Jock Coleman sing!” says a letter from Will Warren, Port- land man who is in welfare work in France, and who was present at Le Mans, France, when the Pendleton Scotch comedian sang at an entertainment given for General Pershing. Jock is appearing in a soldier show known as “Hello, Broadway,” which is said to be one of the best ever produced by the A.E.F. It formed one of the main features of Pershing’s entertainment when he visited Le Mans. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian June 18, 1969 No objections to establishment of sce- nic areas along state highways in five East- ern Oregon counties was voiced in Heppner Monday. Request for the creation the new scenic areas was made earlier to the Scenic Area Board of the State of Oregon by the Oregon Roadside Council. Monday’s meet- ing at the courthouse was the formal hear- ing on these requests. Possibly because of last week’s flood, the hearing drew little local interest, with only Morrow County Judge Paul Jones and reporters attending from Morrow County. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian June 18, 1994 A state audit of the Umatilla/Morrow pub- lic defender’s office uncovered improper use of public funds and sloppy or non-existent record keeping. The audit recommends the public defender’s office repay the state more than $80,000 and that a team of state attor- neys investigate the quality of legal counsel given to clients. The financial audit, dated June 10, 1994, was conducted by the office of the State Court Administrator. It exam- ines a 16-month period from July 1, 1992, through last October. It was initiated by alle- gations made last fall of misuse of UMPDS contract funds. It does not say who made the allegations. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On June 18, 1979, Pres- ident Jimmy Carter and Soviet President Leonid I. Brezhnev signed the SALT II strategic arms limitation treaty in Vienna. In 1778, American forces entered Philadelphia as the British withdrew during the Revolutionary War. In 1812, the War of 1812 began as the United States Congress approved, and President James Madison signed, a declaration of war against Britain. In 1815, Napoleon Bona- parte met defeat at Water- loo as British and Prussian troops defeated the French in Belgium. In 1945, William Joyce, known as “Lord Haw- Haw,” was charged in Lon- don with high treason for his English-language wartime broadcasts on German radio. (He was hanged in January 1946.) In 1948, Columbia Records publicly unveiled its new long-playing phono- graph record in New York. In 1953, a U.S. Air Force Douglas C-124 Globemas- ter II crashed near Tokyo, killing all 129 people on board. Egypt’s 148-year-old Muhammad Ali Dynasty came to an end with the overthrow of the monarchy and the proclamation of a republic. In 1964, President Lyn- don B. Johnson and Japanese Prime Minister Hayato Ikeda spoke to each other by tele- phone as they inaugurated the first trans-Pacific cable completed by AT&T between Japan and Hawaii. In 1983, astronaut Sally K. Ride became America’s first woman in space as she and four colleagues blasted off aboard the space shut- tle Challenger on a six-day mission. In 1992, the U.S. Supreme Court, in Georgia v. McCol- lum, ruled that criminal defendants could not use race as a basis for excluding potential jurors from their trials. In 1996, Richard Allen Davis was convicted in San Jose, California, of the 1993 kidnap-murder of 12-year- old Polly Klaas of Petaluma. (Davis remains on death row.) Today’s Birthdays: Sir Paul McCartney is 77. Actress Isabella Rossellini is 67. Actress Carol Kane is 67. Rock musician Dizzy Reed (Guns N’ Roses) is 56. Figure skater Kurt Brown- ing is 53. Rhythm and blues singer Nathan Morris (Boyz II Men) is 48. Actress Alana de la Garza is 43. Country singer Blake Shelton is 43. Rock musician Steven Chen (Airborne Toxic Event) is 41. Actor David Giuntoli is 39. Actor Jacob Anderson is 29. Actress Willa Holland is 28. Thought for Today: “Frailty, thy name is no lon- ger woman.” — Victor Rie- sel, American labor journal- ist (1913-1995). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE