A8 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Thursday, May 30, 2019 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Maintaining friend’s website becomes unwelcome burden FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER Dear Abby: Around 12 years each other. He is also a narcissist. Innocent people have been victim- ago, I helped out an old friend I’ll ized by all of this. call Patty by creating an author Now he is moving on to the website for her. I have maintained elderly neighbors and lying to them it for her ever since. She is grateful about family members. Confront- and gives me a gift every once in a ing him will do no good. We have while to show her appreciation. tried. How do we get him to stop Over time, her requests for revi- sions and updates have increased the bullying and lying? His wife is J eanne no help because she has been brain- to the point that I dread receiving P hilliPs washed and can no longer think for them. I’m very busy with a busi- ADVICE herself. Please help. Maybe by pub- ness I own, and I really don’t want lishing this letter it will turn on a to do this for her anymore. lightbulb. — Desperate in New The problem is, I created the England website using an obscure program she has Dear Desperate: Because your broth- no idea how to use (she’s tech-unsavvy to er-in-law is now spreading misinforma- begin with), so if I stop, I would be leav- tion among the elderly neighbors, explain ing her high and dry. Oh, and she has no to them that he has a “personality disorder” money, so I don’t think hiring someone and a problem with the truth. Then give to take over would be an option. The only them some examples and, with luck, you thing I could recommend to her is that she can nip this in the bud. start making a new webpage from scratch, Dear Abby: I have depression and anx- using a free site. iety problems. My dad sometimes forgets I’m dying to let this go, but I think she’ll that I have it. I tried to kill myself a couple be crushed, and I hate to hurt her. Any of times. I asked him if I can have a service advice? — Overworked Friend dog for my mental health problems. He says Dear Overworked: Explain to your I can’t have one. I understand his reasons, friend that you have a business to run and but I think it would help me. I really need you will no longer be able to give her the help. — Going Insane in Washington free services you have been. Then, if you Dear Going Insane: I cannot fathom want to keep the friendship, rebuild her a how the parent of a child who has attempted website on a platform that will be easier for to commit suicide would “forget” it. I will her — or someone else — to manage in the assume that you are under the care of a men- future. tal health professional for your depression Dear Abby: My brother-in-law has and anxiety. If you aren’t, you should be. always been a bully and a chronic liar. It has Your father may be more open to accepting torn our family apart. He’ll tell one family the concept of a therapy dog if he hears it member one thing, and the other another from your therapist. story for the purpose of getting them mad at DAYS GONE BY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian May 30, 1919 Charged with blackmail, Carrie Hill, 34, of Portland was arrested Wednesday after- noon by Inspectors Snow and Tackaberry on a warrant sworn out by A.L. Demaris of Milton. Mr. Demaris alleges that he was visiting Miss Hall when an unknown man entered the room and, drawing a gun on him, threatened to kill him. The woman objected to violence, he says, and suggested he pay them to keep quiet. He claims he paid the stranger $500 and promised to give the woman $5000. Police authorities are search- ing for the woman’s accomplice. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian May 30, 1969 Pendleton city police were search- ing today for a con artist, who Wednesday obtained $3,800 from a Pendleton woman. Similar situations have occurred within the last few days at Ogden, Utah, Pocatello and Boise, Idaho. The victim has always been a woman. The suspect poses as a bank offi- cial and asks the subject to withdraw her money. He tells her a bank employe is under investigation and offers a reward if she will withdraw her money so he can check the employe. He asks her to turn the money over to his “auditor.” Within the last few days in similar situations women have been conned out of $2,800 at Pocatello and $3,100 at Boise. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian May 30, 1994 Jodi Severe’s dramatic stretch run in the 300-meter low hurdles capped the best day ever for the Pendleton Bucks at the state high school Class 4A track and field cham- pionships in Eugene Saturday. To the delight of Pendleton hurdles coach Eldon Lilly, the rest of the Bucks coaches and her team- mates, Severe blasted from sixth place to third place in the final 120 meters of the 300 hurdles. She finished in a dead heat with sec- ond-place Wanjeria Washington of Benson in an electronically timed 46.35 seconds. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On May 30, 1911, the first Indy 500 took place at the Indianapolis Motor Speedway; the winner was Ray Harroun, who drove a Marmon Wasp for more than 6½ hours at an average speed of 74.6 mph and col- lected a prize of $10,000. In 1381, the Peasants’ Revolt against economic injustice erupted in England during the reign of King Richard II; the king and his men, initially caught off- guard, were able to crush the rebellion several weeks later. In 1431, Joan of Arc, condemned as a heretic, was burned at the stake in Rouen, France. In 1883, 12 people were trampled to death in a stam- pede sparked by a rumor that the recently opened Brook- lyn Bridge was in danger of collapsing. In 1935, Babe Ruth played in his last major league baseball game for the Boston Braves, leaving after the first inning of the first game of a double-header against the Philadelphia Phillies, who won both games (Ruth announced his retirement three days later). In 1937, ten people were killed when police fired on steelworkers demonstrating near the Republic Steel plant in South Chicago. In 1958, unidentified American service mem- bers killed in World War II and the Korean War were interred in the Tomb of the Unknowns at Arlington National Cemetery. In 1989, student pro- testers in Beijing erected a “Goddess of Democracy” statue in Tiananmen Square (the statue was destroyed in the Chinese government’s crackdown). In 2008, diplomats from 111 nations meeting in Dublin, Ireland, formally adopted a landmark treaty banning cluster bombs. (The United States and other leading cluster bomb mak- ers — Russia, China, Israel, India and Pakistan — boy- cotted the talks.) Today’s Birthdays: Actress Ruta Lee is 84. Pro and College Football Hall of Famer Gale Sayers is 76. Actor Ralph Carter is 58. Actress Tonya Pinkins is 57. Country singer Wyn- onna Judd is 55. Rock musi- cian Tom Morello (Audio- slave; Rage Against The Machine) is 55. Movie director Antoine Fuqua is 54. Actress Idina Menzel is 48. Actor Trey Parker is 47. Rapper Cee Lo Green is 44. Actor Blake Bashoff is 38. 37. Actress Javicia Leslie is 32. Actor Sean Giambrone is 20. Thought for Today: “For happiness one needs security, but joy can spring like a flower even from the cliffs of despair.” — Anne Morrow Lindbergh, Ameri- can writer (1906-2001). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE