A14 East Oregonian PEANUTS FOR BETTER OR WORSE COFFEE BREAK BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS Wednesday, May 22, 2019 DEAR ABBY Man who flirts online brushes aside his girlfriend’s concerns Dear Abby: My boyfriend know, but that’s it. Mom doesn’t and I have been a couple for three know, and neither do my gramma years. We live together and have or papa. I’m afraid if I tell them an incredible relationship and an they’ll be disappointed in their amazing sex life. A while ago, little girl. Also, I’m growing up he was approached by a strange without a father, so that may have woman on social media. Through something to do with it. I wonder Hangouts he told her she was beau- if not having a male role model is why I’m driven to like girls. tiful and that he was looking for the J eanne It took me a while to figure out right woman to be with. Their com- P hilliPs munication lasted about a week. that I was bisexual. It was at the ADVICE It has now happened again. He beginning of seventh grade, when handed out his phone number, and people were talking about being bi. this one has sent him videos of her So I guess I need to find out who I am as a person. dancing wearing next to nothing. He tells When I told my friend I was bi and I her she has an amazing body and made liked her, she was shocked and surprised. I comments to the effect that she must be think she took it the wrong way and thought wild in bed and he thinks only of her. When I was asking her out. That afternoon she he talks to these other women, he tells them came up to me and said, “I like you, but he lives alone. only as a friend. I hope this doesn’t damage When I tell him this bothers me, he our friendship.” For me it did, and I haven’t doesn’t get upset. He swears he has feel- ings for only me and no one else, and that gotten the courage to go talk to her about it he’s just having a little fun. I want to believe again. I was only saying that to tell her how I feel, not to ask her out. — Insecure and him, but I feel hurt and disrespected when I Confused read what he’s saying to these women. My Dear Insecure and Confused: You are heart is heavy because he used to talk to me right that you need to find out who you are like that and no longer does. Should I be as a person. You are very young and still worried? — Sharing Him in Ohio discovering. People do not become gay or Dear Sharing Him: You should not bisexual because of conversations they hear only be worried, you should be out of there. in the seventh grade or because their fathers You may have invested three years in this are absent. Sexual orientation is simply a person, but the sooner you divest your- part of who we are. self of him the better it will be for you. You were clumsy about the way you His actions show that his word cannot be “outed” yourself to your friend. Put aside trusted. He’s not only lying to these women, your fears, talk to her again and explain that he is also lying to you. Men who love and you weren’t asking her out, and the feelings respect women do not treat them the way he you were describing were not directed at is treating you. her. If she’s truly a friend, everything will Dear Abby: I’m a 13-year-old girl, and be all right. I’m bisexual. Some of my closest friends DAYS GONE BY 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian May 22, 1919 One of the biggest attractions at the Round-Up this year, September 18, 19 and 20, will be Tom Mix, cowboy film star, with his company of moving picture artists. Tom Mix, himself, will give exhibition bucking and bulldogging while his men and women will enter the regular contests. This feature was endorsed Monday by the Round-Up directors. The William Fox Film company, starring Tom Mix and his company, asked permission to appear at the Round-Up to work Mr. Mix into a Round-Up feature story. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian May 22, 1969 Bob Stoddard, talented young local pia- nist, will represent the senior division of the Northeast Oregon district at the Oregon Music Teachers’ Convention recital next month at Salem. Bob was selected for the honor at auditions held at Whitman Con- servatory of Music last week. Bob is the 16-year-old son of Mrs. and Mrs. Henry Stoddard. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian May 22, 1994 Steve Magnuson, a graduate of Pendle- ton High School and Blue Mountain Com- munity College, sings the lead in Benjamin Britten’s opera “Noye’s Fludde” (Noah’s Flood), opening at 8 tonight at Portland State University. Currently a senior at PSU, 24-year-old Magnuson is an honors student majoring in biology and music. His par- ents are Bill and Donna Magnuson of Mil- ton-Freewater. Magnuson expects to pursue pre-dentistry after graduation, but he also plans to continue performing. He wants to travel to Europe — “the mecca for opera.” BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On May 22, 1992, after a reign lasting nearly 30 years, Johnny Carson hosted NBC’s “Tonight Show” for the final time (Jay Leno took over as host three days later). In 1939, the foreign min- isters of Germany and Italy, Joachim von Ribbentrop and Galeazzo Ciano, signed a “Pact of Steel” committing the two countries to a mili- tary alliance. In 1960, an earthquake of magnitude 9.5, the strongest ever measured, struck south- ern Chile, claiming some 1,655 lives. In 1964, President Lyn- don B. Johnson, speaking at the University of Michi- gan, outlined the goals of his “Great Society,” saying that it “rests on abundance and liberty for all” and “demands an end to poverty and racial injustice.” In 1968, the nuclear-pow- ered submarine USS Scor- pion, with 99 men aboard, sank in the Atlantic Ocean. (The remains of the sub were later found on the ocean floor 400 miles southwest of the Azores.) In 1969, the lunar module of Apollo 10, with Thomas P. Stafford and Eugene Cernan aboard, flew to within nine miles of the moon’s surface in a dress rehearsal for the first lunar landing. In 1981, “Yorkshire Rip- per” Peter Sutcliffe was con- victed in London of mur- dering 13 women and was sentenced to life in prison. In 2011, a tornado dev- astated Joplin, Missouri, with winds up to 250 mph, claiming at least 159 lives and destroying about 8,000 homes and businesses. In 2017, a suicide bomber set off an improvised explo- sive device that killed 22 people at the end of an Ari- ana Grande concert in Man- chester, England. Today’s Birthdays: Actor Michael Constantine is 92. Conductor Peter Nero is 85. Actor-director Richard Ben- jamin is 81. Retired MLB All- Star pitcher Tommy John is 76. Songwriter Bernie Taupin is 69. Singer Morrissey is 60. Actress Ann Cusack is 58. Rock musician Jesse Valenzuela is 57. Actor Mark Christopher Lawrence is 55. Rhythm-and-blues singer Johnny Gill (New Edition) is 53. Actor Michael Kelly is 50. Model Naomi Campbell is 49. Actress A.J. Langer is 45. Actress Ginnifer Good- win is 41. Rhythm-and- blues singer Vivian Green is 40. Actress Maggie Q is 40. Olympic gold medal speed skater Apolo Anton Ohno is 37. Tennis player Novak Djokovic is 32. Actress Anna Baryshnikov (TV: “Superior Donuts”) is 27. Actress Cam- ren Bicondova is 20. Thought for Today: “We have all, at one time or another, been perform- ers, and many of us still are — politicians, playboys, car- dinals and kings.” — Lau- rence Olivier, British actor (born this date in 1907, died in 1989). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE