B6 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, February 12, 2019 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Second wife-to-be wants man’s name all to herself FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE Dear Abby: My boyfriend and Please keep in mind that after I both got divorced about the same your wedding you will — if you time, but his took much longer to wish — become “Mrs. John become final. It is finally over, so Smith.” The ex can use the last we have begun talking seriously name, but will have to use her own about marriage and starting a first name with it (Ms. Jane Smith) family. without reference to your husband. During one of our conversa- Of course, if you wish to keep J eanne tions, he mentioned that his ex-wife your maiden name, you are free P hilliPs doesn’t intend to change back to to do it — many women do. But if ADVICE her maiden name. I was shocked you make that decision, please do it because she took advantage of for any other reason than because him financially and was emotion- of the one you put in your letter to me. ally abusive all during their marriage. They Dear Abby: My mother used to go nuts had no kids, so it has nothing to do with her anytime the cameras came out. No matter wanting to share the same name with them. the setting, the celebration or how lovely They were married only a few years, so she looked, Mom would fling her hand up she isn’t well established under that name, and yell, “Get that thing out of my face!” either. even when other family members were in When I asked him why she wasn’t the shot. changing it, he told me she said his fam- One day, in exasperation, I finally told ily was always nicer to her than her own. I her, “Ya know, Mom, someday the only suggested he ask her to adopt another last pictures your descendants will have of you name of her choosing if she doesn’t want will be of an angry, scowling woman.” to go back to her maiden name rather than Abby, please remind your readers we be falsely associated with a family she is aren’t trying to persecute them when we no longer a part of (or welcome in). He want a picture. We just want to hold, share won’t consider taking on my last name, and save photos of the people we love the so I’m thinking about keeping my own most, and the kindness and love in their maiden name after our marriage until she eyes shouldn’t be obscured by their hands. changes hers. Am I overreacting, or are two — Finally Got Through to Mom “Mrs.” too many? — Soon To Marry in Dear Finally: Although we live in a California self-promoting and selfie culture, many Dear Soon To Marry: You are overre- acting. When a man has divorced, his ex individuals feel the way your mother does — like a deer in the headlights when a cam- can retain his last name if she wishes. Some era is aimed their way. That said, the point do it because they think it may be to their you made was valid, and I am pleased that advantage socially to be associated with she listened. It is for that reason I’m print- the family. I have heard of others doing it ing your letter. because they didn’t like their maiden name. DAYS GONE BY 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Feb. 11-12, 1919 M.B. Moon, a brakeman of The Dalles, and Mrs. W.F. Wedekind, wife of an O.-W.R.& N. fireman of The Dalles, were arrested early this morning by Chief Al Roberts, and Policeman Charles Myers in a room of Hotel St. George, where they reg- istered early Monday morning as man and wife, having arrived on train No. 4. The cou- ple were followed here by W. F. Wedekind, husband of the woman, who made complaint to the officers, with the result that both were placed under arrest. Wedekind later swore to a complaint before F. E. Schmidt, deputy district attorney, and the prisoners have been turned over to the custody of Sheriff Taylor, charged with adultery. Moon is reported to have a wife and child at The Dalles. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Feb. 11-12, 1969 The Port of Umatilla added 640 acres, a section of land, to its industrial park east of its present site, by accepting an offer from the Bureau of Land Management at the Port’s monthly meeting Monday. The Port Commission gave approval to a purchase price of $19,200 for section 18. This is $30 an acre for the land that has no waterfront on the Columbia River, and its terrain is dotted with rock outcroppings. The tract has High- way 730 frontage. The Port Commission has been negotiating with BLM for the land for several years. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Feb. 11-12, 1994 Marty Campbell makes his car payments from the money he earns as a public speaker. So it wasn’t a surprise when the 20-year- old sophomore switched his major at Blue Mountain Community College from agri- culture education to communications. And now Campbell has an extra nudge in the direction of fulfilling his new goal to put his voice to work in television or radio — a pos- sible $2,500 award for being named BMCC Scholar. With a 3.3 grade point average and a seat in the college’s student government as vice president, Campbell has been included among a group of scholars from other com- munity colleges and technical schools throughout Oregon — and the rest of the U.S. One or two scholars are picked from every school so Campbell acknowledges the competition is stiff. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Feb. 12, 1999, the Senate voted to acquit Pres- ident Bill Clinton of perjury and obstruction of justice. In 1809, Abraham Lin- coln, the 16th president of the United States, was born in a log cabin in Kentucky. In 1909, the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People was founded. In 1912, Pu Yi, the last emperor of China, abdi- cated, marking the end of the Qing Dynasty. In 1924, George Gersh- win’s “Rhapsody in Blue” premiered in New York. In 1959, the redesigned Lincoln penny — with an image of the Lincoln Memo- rial replacing two ears of wheat on the reverse side — went into circulation. In 1963, a Northwest Orient Airlines Boeing 720 broke up during severe tur- bulence and crashed into the Florida Everglades, killing all 43 people aboard. In 1980, the FBI announced that about $5,800 of the $200,000 ransom paid to hijacker “D.B. Cooper” before he parachuted from a Northwest Orient jetliner in 1971 had been found by an 8-year-old boy on a river- bank of the Columbia River in Washington state. In 1993, in a crime that shocked and outraged Brit- ons, two 10-year-old boys lured James Bulger, 2, from his mother at a mall near Liverpool, England, and beat him to death. In 2000, Charles M. Schulz, creator of the “Pea- nuts” comic strip, died in Santa Rosa, Calif. at age 77. In 2008, General Motors reported losing $38.7 billion in 2007, a record annual loss in automotive history, and offered buyouts to 74,000 hourly workers. Today’s Birthdays: Movie director Franco Zef- firelli is 96. Movie director Costa-Gavras is 86. Bas- ketball Hall of Famer Bill Russell is 85. Author Judy Blume is 81. Actor-talk show host Arsenio Hall is 63. Actress Christina Ricci is 39. NFL quarterback Rob- ert Griffin III is 29. Thought for Today: “Determine that the thing can and shall be done, and then we shall find the way.” — Abraham Lincoln (1809-1865). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE