A4 East Oregonian Wednesday, January 30, 2019 CHRISTOPHER RUSH Publisher KATHRYN B. BROWN Owner DANIEL WATTENBURGER Managing Editor WYATT HAUPT JR. News Editor Founded October 16, 1875 OUR VIEW State must bring parity to schools E very child in Oregon deserves an excellent education — regardless of where the student lives or attends school, regardless of whether the stu- dent comes from a well-to-do family or an impoverished one, regardless of academic ability, and regardless of ethnicity or race or background. Last week’s Department of Education report on graduation rates shows that is not the case in Oregon. But last week’s report from the Legislature’s Joint Committee on Student Success provides a path forward. Across Oregon, high school graduation rates increased by 2 percentage points last year to almost 79 percent. The improvement is welcome news, but it remains deeply con- cerning that one-fifth of public high school students fail to graduate within four years. There also are vast variations among demographic groups. The graduation rate was 82 percent for girls but 75.6 percent for boys. Graduation rates generally were lower for students of color but higher for former English Language Learners. Only 54 percent of homeless students graduated within four years of high school. As members of the Student Success com- mittee said last week, the public has had enough. Oregon has been grappling with these issues for decades, with too little progress. Insufficient funding has been a major obstacle, especially since voters’ passage of Measure 5 in 1990 put the onus on state gov- ernment to fund public schools. But money EO File Photo A group of Echo fifth-graders hang out in their new classroom on Aug. 22, 2018, during an open house for the new addition of the Echo School. is not the only issue. It’s how the money is spent. On the one hand, the collaborative approach espoused by the nonprofit, non- partisan Chalkboard Project has achieved profound academic gains and higher staff morale in participating school districts. On the other hand, the state’s recent audit report on Portland Public Schools shows “how a school district should not operate,” according to Rep. Greg Smith, R-Heppner. The bipartisan Student Success commit- tee has abundant ideas for reforms — excel- lent ideas — but with a combined price tag of well over $3 billion. Not everything can be done. The Legislature will significantly increase education spending. But PERS’ unfunded actuarial liability will consume a huge chunk of any additional money ear- marked for reducing class sizes, extending the school year or making other improve- ments. The majority Democrats and Gov. Kate Brown must face up to their responsi- OTHER VIEWS Kindness is a skill went into journalism to cover ing backward and assigning blame. If politics, but now I find myself you are having a problem conversation in national marriage therapy. you’re saying that one episode — the Covering American life is like cover- moment the government shut down ing one of those traumatizing Eugene — was the key to this situation, rather O’Neill plays about a family where than all of the causes that actually led everyone screams at each other all up to the episode. Instead, have a pos- sibility conversation. Discuss how you night and then when dawn breaks you D aviD can use the assets you have together to get to leave the theater. B rooks But don’t despair, I’m here to help. create something good. COMMENT I’ve been searching for practical tips Your narrative will never win. In on how we can be less beastly to one many intractable conflicts, like the another, especially when we’re negotiating dis- Israeli-Palestinian conflict, each side wants the agreements. I’ve found some excellent guides other to adopt its narrative and admit it was — like “Negotiating the Nonnegotiable” by wrong the whole time. This will never happen. Daniel Shapiro, “The Rough Patch” by Daphne Get over it. Find a new narrative. de Marneffe and “The Art of Gathering” by Never threaten autonomy. People like to feel Priya Parker — and I’ve compiled some, I that their options are open. If you give them an hope, not entirely useless tips. order — “Calm down” or “Be reasonable” — The rule of how many. When hosting a all that they will hear is that you’re threatening meeting, invite six people to your gathering their freedom of maneuver, and they will shut if you want intimate conversation. Invite 12 if down. Nobody ever grew up because an angry you want diversity of viewpoints. Invite 120 if spouse screamed, “Grow up!” you want to create a larger organism that can Attune to the process. When you’re in the move as one. middle of an emotional disagreement, shift Scramble the chairs. If you invite disagree- attention to the process of how you are having able people over for a conversation, clear the the conversation. In a neutral voice name the meeting room, except jumble the chairs in a emotions people are feeling and the dynamic big pile in the middle. This will force every- that is in play. Treat the hot emotions as cool, body to do a cooperative physical activity, objective facts we all have to deal with. Peo- ple can’t trust you if you don’t show them untangling the chairs, before anything else. you’re aware of how you are contributing to Plus, you’ll scramble the power dynamics the problem. depending on where people choose to place Agree on something. If you’re in the middle their chairs. The best icebreaker. To start such a gather- of an intractable disagreement, find some pre- ing, have all participants go around the room liminary thing you can agree on so you can at and describe how they got their names. That least take a step into a world of shared reality. gets them talking about their family, puts Gratitude. People who are good at relation- ships are always scanning the scene for things them in a long-term frame of mind and illus- trates that most people share the same essen- they can thank somebody for. tial values. Never sulk or withdraw. If somebody Tough conversations are usually about tribal doesn’t understand you, not communicating identity. Most disagreements are not about the with her won’t help her understand you better. subject purportedly at hand. They are over Reject either/or. The human mind has a ten- dency to reduce problems to either we do this issues that make people feel their sense of or we do that. This is narrowcasting. There are self is disrespected and under threat. So when usually many more options neither side has you’re debating some random topic, you are imagined yet. mostly either inflaming or pacifying the other Presume the good. Any disagreement will person’s feeling of tribal identity. You rigidify tribal identity every time you go better if you assume the other person has make a request that contains a hint of blame. good intentions and if you demonstrate how You make that identity less inflamed every much you overall admire him or her. Fake this, time you lead with weakness: “I know I’m a in all but extreme cases. piece of work, but I’m trying to do better, and As you were reading this list, you might I hope you can help me out.” When tribal dif- have thought the real problem was other peo- ferences are intractable, the best solution is to ple’s obnoxiousness, not your own. But take an create a third tribe that encompasses both of honest look at yourself. You just read all the the warring two. way to the end of a piece of emotional advice The all-purpose question. “Tell me about written by a newspaper columnist. the challenges you are facing?” Use it when Sad. there seems to be nothing else to say. ——— Never have a meeting around a problem. If David Brooks is a columnist for the New you have a problem conversation you are look- York Times. I Unsigned editorials are the opinion of the East Oregonian editorial board. Other columns, letters and cartoons on this page express the opinions of the authors and not necessarily that of the East Oregonian. bility to rein in public pension costs, instead of wringing their hands over court decisions that overturned past reforms. School districts must accept that addi- tional funding will come with requirements for accountability in how that money is used. Unlike previous political endeavors that chased the educational flavor of the day, the Student Success committee based its recom- mendations on reality. Lawmakers visited more than 50 schools— from the coast to Eastern and Southern Oregon — and talked with hundreds of students, staff members, parents, businesspeople, civic leaders and others. This week, committee members are starting work on determining which pro- posals would achieve the greatest return on investment and how to pay for them. Their top priorities include the importance of early childhood education and the drastic need for more school counselors, mental health ther- apists and other behavioral health services — throughout the state. In their letter submitting the Student Success report, the committee’s Democratic and Republican leaders wrote: “A student’s achievement should be a result of their own efforts, not their parents’ income or their race, ethnicity, or ZIP Code. Unfortunately, factors entirely outside of a young person’s control too often determine their access to a high-quality education. Oregon’s students deserve a public education system that sets them up for success.” That is the challenge for the 2019 Legis- lature. That is the challenge for Oregon. YOUR VIEWS A nation divided One hundred and fifty years ago, President Abraham Lincoln warned a nation on the edge of civil war, “A nation divided against itself can not stand.” Lincoln referenced Jesus in Matthew, who also warned every king- dom divided against itself will be brought to desolation. The very foundation of America is under a full fledged frontal assault, including our Founding Fathers, our Constitution, our separation of powers, freedom of speech, freedom of religion, and now our border sovereignty. Our duly elected president is attacked and maligned mercilessly by the national press, the media, Hollywood, and the global left both Democrat and establish- ment Republicans. Our nation, the great bastion of freedom for the whole world, is virtually impotent because our Con- gress can not function or pass legisla- tion, our president and any who assist his administration are hounded merci- lessly by the press, and the power of our government (DOJ, FBI, Special Coun- sel Mueller, IRS) has been fraudulently weaponized to destroy a president and a nation that elected him. It matters not whether you love or hate President Trump because this assault will inevitably lead to the des- olation of our liberty, our freedom and our way of life. Despite this incessant attack against our president, the left has failed miserably to win the soul of those that support his pro-God, pro-America agenda. In the process the national lib- eral press has lost all credibility. Our borders are being infiltrated with terrorists, gang members, drugs, and illegal immigrants with the full support of the Democrat-controlled press and media. Our currency boldly declares “In God We Trust” yet the mere mention of the God of our fathers has been erased from our schools, our universities, our government, and our courts. As a frequent critic of the East Ore- gonian editors, I applaud their recent effort to report news forthrightly. I exhort my American brethren to trust in our lord Jesus Christ and stand with- out compromise for our God and our country. Stuart Dick Irrigon A wall too far Not too long ago The Donald, on national television, assured democratic leaders Chuck Schumer and Nancy Pelosi, and the country, that he will take responsibility for a government shut- down, if it occurs. And despite claiming that he has an amazing memory, The Donald quickly and conveniently forgot, stating later that he blames the Democrats for his shutdown. It was laughable when The Donald stated, again on national media, that he can “relate” to the financial hardship of the laid-off and furloughed federal employees who must go without pay- checks because of his shutdown. The Donald manufactured the so-called “crisis” on our southern bor- der to “justify” his demand for $5.7 bil- lion of taxpayer funds for his “beau- tiful,” and racist, wall. Actually, the “crisis” exists only in his imagination. Throughout his presidential campaign rallies, The Donald’s call to arms for the faithful was that Mexico will pay for his wall. What happened to this insis- tent claim? It is a moral crime that 800,000 fed- eral employees, and many more federal contractors, must endure serious finan- cial hardship just because of Trump’s bigotry. It is outrageous that many must turn to food banks, use up their life sav- ings, etc., just to try to make ends meet for their families. Many are on theverge of losing their family homes that they worked hard for. To add insult to injury, Secretary of Commerce Wilbur Ross questions why these employees must turn to food banks, and Trump’s daughter-in-law tut- tuts and downplays the financial ordeal of these employees. This clearly demon- strates that Trump’s inner circle is out of touch, and cannot empathize with average Americans. Worst of all are the phony acts of “compassion” displayed by these super-rich one-percenters. Genuine terrorists are now working on electronic systems that will bring down airliners. So, how will Trump’s wall prevent this? Building walls to keep people out lost its practicality with The Great Wall of China. The Donald put himself in a boxed-in corner of his own making because of his insistence that his wall be built. A current national poll found that 71 percent of Americans do not believe the wall is a valid and legitimate reason for the government shutdown. The Donald’s disapproval rating went up just since December 2018. It is this rising disapproval rating that will get The Donald’s attention, and he will be forced to re-open the government, without his wall. Bob Shippentower Pendleton The East Oregonian welcomes original letters of 400 words or less on public issues and public policies for publication in the newspaper and on our website. The newspaper reserves the right to withhold letters that address concerns about individual services and products or letters that infringe on the rights of private citizens. Letters must be signed by the author and include the city of residence and a daytime phone number. The phone number will not be published. Unsigned letters will not be published. Send letters to managing editor Daniel Wattenburger, 211 S.E. Byers Ave. Pendleton, OR 9780, or email editor@eastoregonian.com.