B6 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Wednesday, January 30, 2019 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Man seeking commitment finds casual sex instead FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: What are your shave and wax jobs. They say their boyfriends and nearly all guys pre- thoughts about having a sex-only fer it. arrangement with an ex? Most of I have a boyfriend, but we aren’t the women I’ve dated have con- tacted me after the relationship was to that point. However, someday over hoping to have “no-strings-at- that day will come. Does it really tached” sex on a regular basis. I matter to guys if a girl shaves and have always refused because I fig- waxes? Also, how do I deal with J eanne my stepsisters? — Natural in the ured it would make it more difficult P hilliPs West to move on and to meet someone ADVICE Dear Natural: Deal with your new. stepsisters by continuing to ignore That said, I’m an attractive guy their advice and following your in my early 30s, and I’d hate to own path. The idea that women should be continue to waste my prime sexual years. hairless from the eyelids down is one that I’d love to be married and have a family, but Madison Avenue and the porn industry I’m struggling to find a woman who is hon- est, loyal, a good communicator and inde- have foisted on the public. I can’t predict pendent. That leaves me with either having how “guys” will react to you in your natural no sex while hoping for a miracle, or a lot state, but I can say this: A man who cares of sex with women I don’t really like. — about you will be only too glad to accept the entire package — fur and all. Searching in Oregon Dear Abby: I have a close friend who Dear Searching: Dating may look like visits me often. Recently I discovered that fun, but at a certain point it becomes seri- ous business. You have reached an age at in addition to eating snacks I put out, he has which you know what you are looking for. been sneaking food and things like canned However, you will never find it as long as beverages from my home when I’m not looking. you tie yourself to women who don’t fit He has money. In fact, he is a very gen- the bill. This does not mean you must live erous person. I can’t get over his behavior. like a monk, only that you direct your sex- ual (and emotional) energies forward rather Is it right that this bothers me, and if so, what should I say? — Missing My Food than backward if your goal is marriage and in California a family. Dear Missing: It should bother you, Dear Abby: I’m 16 and unlike most girls because as petty as it is, it’s still theft. What I know, I prefer to be natural. I don’t shave you should say is, “Why are you taking food or wax my body hair. My friends accept this from my home without asking me first?” as my business. But my stepsisters, whom It’s a legitimate question. If he denies it, I share a room with every other weekend, your buddy may be a bit of a kleptomaniac. say I look gross and proudly display their DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 30, 1919 As a result of negotiations completed last evening the newly incorporated Inland Empire Bank of Pendleton secures as a location the Miller building, occupied by the Leader store, at the corner of Main and Court streets. The stock of the Leader store has been purchased by Bond Bros. and will be disposed of on sale. It was announced today by men in charge of the new bank that the bank has a 20 year lease on the property and that as soon as the store stock can be disposed of will begin the remodeling of the building. The bank will use the entire first floor, excepting a certain space in the rear which, with a frontage on Court street, will be rented for office purposes. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 30, 1969 If you have been using the excuse of “no shovel” to put off the job of clearing walks and driveway, you can retreat to your easy chair and stay there. You couldn’t buy a show shovel today in Pendleton if you wanted to. Not a store in town has a snow shovel left. Shovels that had for years col- lected dust in basements and store rooms went like hotcakes. “I sold more snow shov- els this winter than in five years,” said Ted Johnson at Coast-to-Coast. No used shov- els are available, either. Barnum’s Trading Post reported they couldn’t even help out two men down on their luck who planned to buy a shovel and make a grubstake shov- eling snow. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 30, 1994 Pendleton musician Rob Roy doesn’t hide his enthusiasm for area history, espe- cially when it comes to the heyday of gold mining in the Blue Mountains. This zeal has blossomed into “The Ghosts of Granite,” an original musical production that soon will be ready to tour. Roy assumes the role of play- wright, lyricist and composer. Eighty-five volunteer researchers helped base the script on historical fact, Roy says. He assembled a preview cast to build support. The full pro- duction will involve 35 actors and 15 musi- cians. Eight to 12 performances are planned on a fifth-wheel trailer that folds out into a mobile stage. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Jan. 30, 1948, Indian political and spiritual leader Mohandas K. Gandhi, 78, was shot and killed in New Delhi by a Hindu extremist who was later executed. In 1933, Adolf Hitler became chancellor of Ger- many. The first episode of the “Lone Ranger” radio program was broadcast on station WXYZ in Detroit. In 1945, during World War II, a Soviet submarine torpedoed the German ship MV Wilhelm Gustloff in the Baltic Sea with the loss of more than 9,000 lives, most of them war refugees; roughly 1,000 people sur- vived. Adolf Hitler marked the 12th anniversary of his appointment as Germany’s chancellor with his last pub- lic speech in which he called on Germans to keep resist- ing until victory. In 1948, aviation pioneer Orville Wright, 76, died in Dayton, Ohio. In 1962, two members of “The Flying Wallendas” high-wire act were killed when their seven-person pyramid collapsed during a performance in Detroit. In 1968, the Tet Offen- sive began during the Viet- nam War as Communist forces launched surprise attacks against South Viet- namese towns and cities; although the Communists were beaten back, the offen- sive was seen as a major setback for the U.S. and its allies. In 1972, 13 Roman Cath- olic civil rights marchers were shot to death by Brit- ish soldiers in Northern Ire- land on what became known as “Bloody Sunday.” In 1981, an estimated 2 million New Yorkers turned out for a ticker-tape parade honoring the American hos- tages freed from Iran. In 2006, Coretta Scott King, widow of the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr., died in Mexico at age 78. Today’s Birthdays: Producer-director Harold Prince is 91. Actor Gene Hackman is 89. Actress Vanessa Redgrave is 82. Country singer Jeanne Pru- ett is 82. Chess grandmaster Boris Spassky is 82. Coun- try singer Norma Jean is 81. Former Vice President Dick Cheney is 78. Singer Phil Collins is 68. Actor Charles S. Dutton is 68. Actor Chris- tian Bale is 45. Thought for Today: “Only when we are no lon- ger afraid do we begin to live.” — Dorothy Thomp- son, American author, jour- nalist and radio commen- tator (born 1893, died this date in 1961). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE