B6 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, January 22, 2019 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Man plans to give girlfriend a ring without a proposal FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: My girlfriend, mentioned? Your husband may have done — or not done — some- “Jane,” and I have been in love thing that upset his parents, and for three years. We’re both in our this may be their passive-aggres- 30s. Jane and her daughter have sive way of punishing him. lived with me long enough to know Do not “remind” them of the that I want to be a part of — and birthday. They are well aware of contribute to — the rest of their when it is. Instead, plan a cele- lives. Jane knows I never want to be bration for him with some of his married, but that I am committed J eanne friends, and make the occasion a to her. I know how to make sure P hilliPs happy one with no mention of his she is taken care of in the event that ADVICE parents. I pass away, and I’m in the process Dear Abby: Please explain of making that a reality. why DJs or bands think it’s appro- I would like to give her a special priate to blast their music at occasions diamond. Is there a way to give her the like weddings, dinners or any gathering, moment she deserves without asking her to for that matter, to the point that the guests marry me? — She Deserves Better have to shout at each other. I thought music Dear She Deserves Better: I doubt it. If was supposed to be in the background, to Jane would like to be married and is open be enjoyed during a meal or conversation, about your relationship, don’t be surprised then raised a little louder for dancing, since if she tells you she would rather have a dancers want to hear the music. proposal and a wedding than a diamond I was at a golf tournament recently, and and a legal document. we asked the DJs to turn the volume down Dear Abby: My husband’s parents because the players were still golfing. They forgot his birthday — again. Last year, he did, but when players started coming in, laughed it off. This year, it wasn’t so funny. the music got louder and louder until it was It’s especially hurtful because they not only blasting. The more people who came in, the remember his other adult siblings’ birth- days, but throw parties or dinners for them louder it got. Abby, how do you feel about this? — Too Loud in New Hampshire to which we are invited. Dear Too Loud: This may happen Would I be out of line to send them a because of the size of the room or the mood reminder next year? I don’t want them to the musicians are attempting to create. think I’m fishing for a party; I just would However, unless music is being played in like them to call their son on his birthday. a dance club, increasing the volume to the — Calendar Girl in Illinois point that attendees cannot comfortably Dear Calendar Girl: Why do I think carry on a conversation is intrusive. there is more to this story than you have DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 21-22, 1919 Because the Umatilla National Forest Reserve by reason of excellent landing facilities is especially adapted to the use of airplanes for fire prevention, Supervisor W.W. Cryder has placed an order with the government asking that if planes come into use, his territory be given one. If planes become a feature of the forest service, they will be used to investigate drought condi- tions and will report upon them, saving time over the old method of telephoning. This would mean no change in plans for extin- guishing fires, but, according to Mr. Cryder, there is a possibility that bombs may be used for this purpose. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 21-22, 1969 With the nine to 12 inch snow cover which fell 10 days ago still on the ground, motorists in the Heppner area seem to be doing all right, but youngsters are getting hurt playing in the snow on innertubes. Sunday Kristi Haguewood, 12, daughter of Mrs. and Mrs. Ron Haguewood, was taken to Pioneer Memorial Hospital for x-rays as result of a fall from such a device. She has an injury to her tail bone, seriousness of the injury is as yet undetermined but the child cannot sit or stand. She shot over a ridge on a diversion ditch at her family ranch five miles from Heppner, and landed on a frozen pond. She was allowed to return home where she is being kept in bed. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 21-22, 1994 A Pendleton native was shot to death last week in his apartment building in Seattle. Lawrence Waite, 40, a resident on the 12th floor of the Bay View Tower, died of a gunshot wound to the head, police said. Police were alerted to the shooting about 4:15 a.m. last Thursday when someone called 911. Police first thought Waite may have committed suicide, but they later learned there had been a scuffle in a stair- well of the building and a witness saw a man and woman fleeing the building about the time of the shooting. There was no known motive, police said. TODAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Jan. 22, 1973, the U.S. Supreme Court, in its Roe v. Wade deci- sion, legalized abortions using a trimester approach. Former President Lyndon B. Johnson died at his Texas ranch at age 64. On this date: In 1901, Britain’s Queen Victoria died at age 81 after a reign of 63 years; she was succeeded by her eldest son, Edward VII. In 1917, President Woodrow Wilson, in an address to Congress, pleaded for an end to the war in Europe, calling for “peace without victory.” In 1968, the fast-paced sketch comedy program “Rowan & Martin’s Laugh-In” premiered as a weekly series on NBC-TV. In 1987, Pennsylvania treasurer R. Budd Dwyer, convicted of defrauding the state, proclaimed his inno- cence at a news conference before pulling out a gun, placing the barrel in his mouth and shooting himself to death in front of horrified onlookers. In 1995, Rose Fitz- gerald Kennedy died at the Kennedy compound at Hyannis Port, Mass., at age 104. In 1997, the Senate confirmed Madeleine Albright as the nation’s first female secretary of state. In 1998, Theodore Kaczynski pleaded guilty in Sacramento, California, to being the Unabomber responsible for three deaths and 29 injuries in return for a sentence of life in prison without parole. In 2008, actor Heath Ledger, 28, was found dead of an accidental prescription overdose in a New York City apartment. Today’s Birthdays: Former Sen. Birch Bayh, D-Ind., is 91. Actress Piper Laurie is 87. Celebrity chef Graham Kerr (TV: “The Galloping Gourmet”) is 85. Actor Seymour Cassel is 84. Author Joseph Wambaugh is 82. Singer Steve Perry is 70. Country singer-mu- sician Teddy Gentry (Alabama) is 67. Hockey Hall of Famer Mike Bossy is 62. Actress Diane Lane is 54. Actor-rap DJ Jazzy Jeff is 54. Country singer Regina Nicks (Regina Regina) is 54. Celebrity chef Guy Fieri is 51. Actress Katie Finneran is 48. Actor Gabriel Macht is 47. Actor Balthazar Getty is 44. Jazz singer Lizz Wright is 39. Pop singer Willa Ford is 38. Rock singer-musician Ben Moody is 38. Actress- singer Phoebe Strole is 36. Rapper Logic is 29. Tennis player Alize Cornet is 29. Actress Sami Gayle is 23. Thought for Today: “Children need models rather than critics.” — Joseph Joubert, French moralist (1754-1824). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE