B6 East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Thursday, January 10, 2019 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Friend working three jobs envies man on Easy Street FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER Dear Abby: I am having issues and you will recognize you have with a friend who gets handed most nothing to be jealous about, and you’ll be able to change your everything he wants. I had to grow thinking. up when I was very young, pay my Dear Abby: I have a friend I’ll own way for things and take care of call Layla. Her best friend, “Matt,” myself. I work three jobs to pay my raped her. She doesn’t want to tell rent in a house with four other peo- ple while still pursuing my passion. anyone, but I think she needs to. She told me Matt has done it mul- This friend is unemployed. He J eanne tiple times. I love her, and I don’t lives in an apartment his parents P hilliPs want it to keep happening because ADVICE pay for and goes on frequent road she’s an amazing person. trips. I have reached a point where Her life isn’t going well, either. I have become seriously envious, Her mom has stage 4 colon cancer and is and I’m not sure how to stop feeling frus- trated that he has an easier life than I do. in her final year. Her stepdad isn’t the best I care about our friendship, but it’s physi- person, and Layla has a disease herself. I’m cally painful sometimes when he talks about really worried about her. What should I do? — Standing By in Oregon these luxuries that I can’t afford. Should I Dear Standing By: You should be wor- cut off the relationship? Is this something ried. Encourage Layla to contact the Rape, I should talk about with him or something Abuse and Incest National Network (rainn. I need to work on myself? — Envious in org or 800-656-4673) and tell someone New York there what has been happening. Offer to be Dear Envious: Why not do both? Tell with her for emotional support when she him how his going on and on about his does it. Her “best friend” Matt is a pred- “luxuries” makes you feel. If that doesn’t ator, and for the sake of her own mental increase his sensitivity to the disparity in health she must no longer allow herself to your situations, you have my permission to be victimized. end the relationship. Layla will need your friendship and sup- However, while you are working on your- self, please understand that your friend’s port while her mother spends this final year parents are doing him no favors. “Children” battling her disease. It’s a shame that her raised without an incentive to succeed are stepfather isn’t supportive, but he may be grieving in his own way and unable to. not often successful in life. They don’t have With the amount of stress that your the tools you have. You are independent. He friend is under, it is not surprising that she’s isn’t. Rather than work to build success in a ill. Stress can weaken the immune system. profession, he’s taking road trips. You know If she’s being treated by a doctor for her the value of hard work, and with each of the illness, her doctor should be made aware jobs you work, you are gaining experience of everything that’s going on. She may be and focus. more inclined to reveal it if you accompany From my perspective, if I had to say her to an appointment. which of you is richer, it is you. Step back DAYS GONE BY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 10, 1919 S. Benson, chairman of the Oregon high- way commission will not stand for the spend- ing of money for graveling a hill route road from Pendleton to Echo but insists instead on the river route he selected so as to secure a grade that will make possible the use of the road by motor trucks without shifting to low gear. It will mean an additional expense of over $100,000 to the county. This is the sub- stance of news brought back from Portland this morning by W.L. Thompson, eastern Ore- gon member of the commission and the infor- mation has precipitated a surprising crisis with reference to road affairs in the county. It means, so it seems, that the county will get no improved road from Pendleton to the west end country unless steps are taken to make use of the river route. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 10, 1969 A group of youths intent on marching on Easton’s Cafe in Umatilla set aside their plans about 11 p.m. Tuesday after Sheriff’s Deputy Don McGee talked to them. Umatilla Police Chief Louis Concord told the sheriff’s office the youths were angry because the cafe had refused service to all juveniles after having trouble “with a few rowdies.” Concord asked the sheriff’s office for help in handling the protesters. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 10, 1994 Authorities are seeking clues in the theft of more than $10,000 worth of satellite equip- ment stolen from Cold Springs Reservoir Fri- day night. The telemetry equipment is used by the Bureau of Reclamation to measure water flows and storage at the reservoir east of Hermiston. Ron Morris, the bureau’s Umatilla River manager, said the equipment was taken between 11:30 p.m. and midnight Friday from the gate house. Morris said the equipment would be of no practical use to anyone. The equipment, which must be replaced, is criti- cal now because water in Feed Canal is filling Cold Springs Reservoir. Bureau officials need to continually monitor reservoirs as they fill. THIS DAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 10th day of 2019. There are 355 days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On Jan. 10, 1863, the London Underground had its beginnings as the Metropol- itan, the world’s first under- ground passenger railway, opened to the public with service between Paddington and Farringdon Street. On this date: In 1776, Thomas Paine anonymously published his influential pamphlet, “Com- mon Sense,” which argued for American independence from British rule. In 1860, the Pemberton Mill in Lawrence, Mass., collapsed and caught fire, killing up to 145 people, mostly female workers from Scotland and Ireland. In 1861, Florida became the third state to secede from the Union. In 1870, John D. Rocke- feller incorporated Standard Oil. In 1920, the League of Nations was established as the Treaty of Versailles went into effect. In 1946, the first Gen- eral Assembly of the United Nations convened in Lon- don. The first man-made contact with the moon was made as radar signals trans- mitted by the U.S. Army Signal Corps were bounced off the lunar surface. In 1967, President Lyn- don B. Johnson, in his State of the Union address, asked Congress to impose a sur- charge on both corporate and individual income taxes to help pay for his “Great Soci- ety” programs as well as the war in Vietnam. That same day, Massachusetts Republi- can Edward W. Brooke, the first black person elected to the U.S. Senate by popular vote, took his seat. Today’s Birthdays: Opera singer Sherrill Milnes is 84. Rock singer-musi- cian Ronnie Hawkins is 84. Movie director Walter Hill is 79. Actor William Sander- son is 75. Singer Rod Stew- art is 74. Rock singer-musi- cian Donald Fagen (Steely Dan) is 71. Boxing Hall of Famer and entrepreneur George Foreman is 70. Thought for Today: “You got to look on the bright side, even if there ain’t one.” — Dashiell Hammett, American author (born 1894, died this date in 1961). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE