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Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, October 30, 2018 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Man says he wants divorce, but doesn’t leave the house FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE portive and understanding. How- Dear Abby: My husband and ever, I’m a private person and don’t I have been married for 20 years. like talking about it with new people. We’ve had our share of ups and It’s hard to make friends and go downs, but always managed to work on dates when I know I might have our way through them. Last year, to flake out at the last minute due to he decided he no longer wanted to a migraine. What’s a good way to be married, saying the last 20 years gracefully bow out of plans without “were not all that pleasant” and “we Jeanne seeming like a flake? Or should I just have never really gotten along.” (As far as I know, there isn’t another Phillips tell new people about my migraines? Advice — Hurting In New York woman.) Dear Hurting: Suffering from My problem is, for the most part, he still acts like he wants to be married. He migraines is nothing to be ashamed of. has made no attempt to leave, tells me his More than 12 percent of people in the U.S. comings and goings, asks me to have din- share your problem. While I don’t think it’s ner together, etc. However, he sleeps on the necessary to make an announcement about couch and there’s no sex. He says he does it when you meet someone, I do think you this because he hopes we can stay friends should tell the truth if you must cancel an engagement. after the divorce. Dear Abby: I am the youngest of four I have yet to be served with divorce papers, so I’m thinking it may be a midlife children. Every Sunday, our family gets crisis. Am I misreading his signals and he’ll together for Sunday dinner, a tradition I snap out of it, or am I being strung along? — have loved since I was a kid, although lately, I have grown less fond of Sundays. Here is Anonymous In The USA Dear Anonymous: You are confused why: I am now 30 and the tallest sibling in because your husband is sending you mixed my family, yet I am made to feel as though I messages. Could he be having performance am the smallest. No one listens to me; no one asks my issues? Do you still love him? I ask because nowhere in your letter did you mention it. advice. I could be at the table with my fin- The two of you are overdue for an honest ger up my nose and I don’t think any- discussion about whether your marriage is one would even notice. I say things and no salvageable. If it isn’t, ask him when and one acknowledges me. Sometimes I feel as if he plans to file for the divorce, because though I don’t even exist. It’s as if because this situation has left you in limbo, which I’m the youngest, I have no importance. is unfair to you. Then consult an attorney to What can I do to change this? — Patience Running Thin ensure you get a fair shake. Dear Patience: Allow me to suggest that Dear Abby: I am a young adult who suf- fers from migraines, which make it difficult at the next Sunday dinner you speak up loud to have much of a social life. My family and and clear and say exactly that. And if noth- close friends know about them and are sup- ing changes, make other plans for Sunday. DAYS GONE BY 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Oct. 29-30, 1918 Did you know that there is a mill down near Hermiston that manufactures molas- ses from sugar corn raised on the project and that it has been in operation this fall? Did you know that the molasses made from sugar corn raised on one acre amounted to 100 gallons and sold for $175? John A. Prior of Umatilla is the molasses king. Last year he told a number of farmers on the project that he would buy a portable molasses mak- ing mill if they would agree to raise a certain acreage of sugar corn. They agreed and he got the mill, which is now in operation. The corn grew well this year and a larger acreage is promised for next year. The molasses is of a splendid quality. A sample is now on dis- play at the office of the Pendleton Abstract Co. under the American National bank. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Oct. 29-30, 1968 Cmdr. James W. Cornwell, Pendleton High School graduate and nephew of Mrs. Percy Dickerson of Pendleton, assumed charge of Patrol Squadron 22 at the U.S. Naval Air Facility at Naha, Okinawa, during a change of command ceremony Oct. 19. After graduation from PHS, he enlisted in the Navy in 1945. He returned to civilian life from 1946-50, when he re-enlisted as a naval aviation cadet. As a result of his aerial mapping missions while he was stationed in the Antarctic, Cmdr. Cornwell had a moun- tain named for him. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Oct. 29-30, 1993 If his rate of improvement remains con- stant, Tony Hilde’s career as a college foot- ball quarterback is destined to rise mete- orically. That’s the word from Boise State University offensive coordinator Al Borges, who is overseeing Hilde this fall as the fresh- man from Pendleton directs BSU’s quar- terback-friendly offense in the quarter- back-friendly Big Sky Conference. After BSU’s No. 1 and No. 2 quarterbacks were injured in the Broncos’ final pre-confer- ence game, Hilde took center stage in the Oct. 2 conference opener against the Mon- tana Grizzlies in Missoula. Facing an intim- idating Grizzly blitz and a record crowd of 15,696 at Grizzly Stadium, Hilde passed for 388 yards, the third-highest single-game total in BSU history. THIS DAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 303rd day of 2018. There are 62 days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On Oct. 30, 1735 (New Style calendar), the sec- ond president of the United States, John Adams, was born in Braintree, Massachusetts. On this date: In 1944, the Martha Gra- ham ballet “Appalachian Spring,” with music by Aaron Copland, premiered at the Library of Congress in Washington, D.C., with Gra- ham in a leading role. In 1945, the U.S. govern- ment announced the end of shoe rationing, effective at midnight. In 1961, the Soviet Union tested a hydrogen bomb, the “Tsar Bomba,” with a force estimated at about 50 mega- tons. The Soviet Party Con- gress unanimously approved a resolution ordering the removal of Josef Stalin’s body from Lenin’s tomb. In 1979, President Car- ter announced his choice of federal appeals judge Shir- ley Hufstedler to head the newly created Department of Education. In 1985, schoolteach- er-astronaut Christa McAu- liffe witnessed the launch of the space shuttle Challenger, the same craft that would carry her and six other crew members to their deaths in Jan. 1986. Today’s Birthdays: Movie director Claude Lelouch is 81. Rock singer Grace Slick is 79. Song- writer Eddie Holland is 79. Rhythm-and-blues singer Otis Williams (The Tempta- tions) is 77. Actress Joanna Shimkus is 75. Actor Henry Winkler is 73. Broadcast journalist Andrea Mitchell is 72. Country/rock musi- cian Timothy B. Schmit (The Eagles) is 71. Actor Harry Hamlin is 67. Country singer T. Graham Brown is 64. Actor Kevin Pollak is 61. Rock singer-musician Jerry De Borg (Jesus Jones) is 58. Actor Michael Beach is 55. Country singer Kassidy Osborn (SHeDAISY) is 42. Actor Gael Garcia Bernal is 40. Business executive and presidential adviser Ivanka Trump is 37. Actress Fiona Dourif is 37. Actor Shaun Sipos is 37. Thought for Today: “All men are almost led to believe not of proof, but by attraction.” — Blaise Pascal, French philosopher (1623-1662). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE