Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Friday, October 19, 2018 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Grown child keeps meetings with ex-stepfather a secret from mom FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: When I was in my thinks it’s perfectly fine to get in first year of college, my mother them and start playing with them, because “no one’s using them.” The divorced my stepdad. “Charlie” was rest of my family thinks it’s rude to part of my life for 12 years, but since use a wheelchair as a toy. How do their divorce, she insists I have no you view this and how should my contact with him. Charlie visits the parents explain it to him? Thanks. — state where I now live several times Claire In Florida a year to see a friend and invites me Jeanne Dear Claire: Assistive devices to have dinner with him. I do, but because of Mom’s demand, I ask him Phillips are not toys, and they should not be Advice “played with” by those who don’t to keep our time together a secret. If need to use them. That’s how I view she knew we were in contact, I think it. Have your parents actually told your she would cut me out of her life. Growing up, Charlie was a father figure brother “No”? If they have and he does it to me — a very important person in my life. anyway, it’s time for them to act like par- Spending time with him is awkward, but it ents, make clear that there are consequences would feel wrong to never see him again. for disobedience and follow through. Dear Abby: My son recently graduated We were family for many years. I feel that as an adult, I should be able to decide for with a master’s degree. He’s a fine young myself who I stay in contact with. I don’t man, did extremely well all through his know the whole story about their breakup, schooling and has never given his father and honestly, I don’t care to know. Should or me a second of worry. He has not been I honor my mother’s wishes and have no able to find a job. It’s frustrating for him and more contact with him, or go with my gut discouraging, but we know he will, and we and keep him in my life? — Forgive Or encourage him any way we can. My question is how do I deal with the bar- Forget Out West Dear Forgive: Go with your gut. As an rage of inquiries from neighbors, hairstylist, adult, you do have the right to choose with co-workers and friends who constantly ask whom you associate, and your mother should if he has found a job yet? I am sick of it! It’s not be insisting upon it with no explanation. none of their business, and I never ask them Dear Abby: I have an etiquette ques- anything about their families’ employment. tion I can’t find an answer to on the inter- Please help. — Missouri Mom net. My family travels a great deal, and there Dear Mom: Handle it this way. Say, are always unattended wheelchairs parked “When he does, I’ll let you know.” Then around the airport. My teenage brother change the subject. DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Oct. 19, 1918 The Home Card campaign is next. A new food pledge card, which is a most eloquent and forceful document, is to be placed in every household in America between the dates of October 28th and November 2nd by the food administration. A supply of 4,350 of these cards has been shipped to Umatilla county for distribution among the families of the county. The new slogan of the food administration is “Save Food — One Hun- dred Twenty Million Allies Must Eat.” The idea embodied in the slogan is that we are sitting at a common table with the millions of those countries which are fighting on our side. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Oct. 19, 1968 A little fourth grade girl at West Park School had the tip of a finger cut off Tuesday in a door when it slammed shut at school. One of the school boys picked up the fin- ger tip and chased the little girl around the school before he tossed the piece of fin- ger in a wastebasket. When Bertha Mur- phy, daughter of Myrtle Murphy of Herm- iston, was taken to the hospital, Dr. Roy Rasmussen Jr. need the finger tip. Then a teacher searched through a waste paper bas- ket, retrieved the piece of finger, got it to the hospital, and Dr. Rasmussen sewed it back in place. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Oct. 19, 1993 Prison inmate Bryant Woolstenhulme tried to kill Correctional Officer Louis Michaels with a heavy iron weight-lifting bar last May, a Umatilla County Circuit Court jury decided Tuesday. The jury deliberated about 30 minutes before finding Woolsten- hulme guilty of attempted aggravated mur- der and first-degree assault. He will be sen- tenced Nov. 30. Robert Hill, assistant district attorney, called nine witnesses, including the officer who was assaulted and others who saw it happening, plus two inmates who offered no insight, saying their presence in the courtroom put their lives at risk. Wool- stenhulme, sporting a scraggly black mane and beard, offered no defense, other than to say through his public defender Wade Bettis that he was the victim of mistaken identity. BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE THIS DAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Oct. 19, 1789, John Jay was sworn in as the first Chief Justice of the United States. In 1781, British troops under Gen. Lord Cornwal- lis surrendered at Yorktown, Virginia, as the American Revolution neared its end. In 1864, Confeder- ate Lt. Gen. Jubal A. Ear- ly’s soldiers attacked Union forces at Cedar Creek, Vir- ginia; the Union troops were able to rally and defeat the Confederates. In 1944, the U.S. Navy began accepting black women into WAVES (Women Accepted for Vol- unteer Emergency Service). In 1950, during the Korean Conflict, United Nations forces entered the North Korean capital of Pyongyang. In 1953, the Ray Brad- bury novel “Fahrenheit 451,” set in a dystopian future where books are banned and burned by the government, was first published by Bal- lantine Books. In 1967, the U.S. space probe Mariner 5 flew past Venus. In 1977, the supersonic Concorde made its first land- ing in New York City. In 1982, automaker John Z. DeLorean was arrested by federal agents in Los Ange- les, accused of conspiring to sell $24 million of cocaine to salvage his business. (DeLo- rean was acquitted at trial on grounds of entrapment.) In 1987, the stock mar- ket crashed as the Dow Jones Industrial Average plunged 508 points, or 22.6 percent in value (its biggest daily percentage loss), to close at 1,738.74 in what came to be known as “Black Monday.” In 1994, 22 people were killed as a terrorist bomb shattered a bus in the heart of Tel Aviv’s shopping district. In 2001, U.S. special forces began operations on the ground in Afghanistan, opening a significant new phase of the assault against the Taliban and al-Qaida. In 2005, a defiant Saddam Hussein pleaded innocent to charges of premeditated murder and torture as his trial opened under heavy security in the former headquarters of his Baath Party in Baghdad. Today’s Birthdays: Author John le Carre is 87. Artist Peter Max is 81. Author and critic Renata Adler is 81. Actor Michael Gambon is 78. Actor John Lithgow is 73. Former Republican National Com- mittee Chairman Michael Steele is 60. Singer Jenni- fer Holliday is 58. Retired boxer Evander Holyfield is 56. Host Ty Pennington (TV: “Extreme Makeover: Home Edition”) is 54. Actor/Direc- tor Jon Favreau is 52. “South Park” co-creator Trey Parker is 49. Comedian Chris Kat- tan is 48. Thought for Today: “If our country is worth dying for in time of war let us resolve that it is truly worth living for in time of peace.” — Hamilton Fish III, American congressman (1888-1991). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE