Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, September 18, 2018 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Wife on the verge of divorce calls for a one-year reprieve FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE Dear Abby: My husband has less Dear Abby: New neighbors and less interest in me. It started with moved in a few doors down from the last presidential election. Since us. A few weeks later, they hosted then, I have cut way back on poli- an open house and invited about 15 tics because he doesn’t want to hear families from the homes closest to any of it. Being an activist on sev- theirs. They served food and gave eral fronts, including politics and everyone a tour of the home, which had been completely renovated. other areas, this is a big, emotional Jeanne My husband and I arrived about part of who I am. I get so upset by his silences that I stop talking to him Phillips the same time as another neighbor, Advice and the three of us visited with our completely. hostess. As she rolled out the red I’m spent from feeling so lonely, carpet, the other neighbor proceeded so unworthy of love, helpless, hope- less and powerless. I can’t take this much to talk about the history of the home. She longer. He says he wants to be with me, and then announced that the man who owned the he has just started private therapy. I, too, am home years ago had committed suicide — in in therapy. the home. The hostess maintained a gracious I was ready to draw up divorce papers stance, but my husband and I were horrified. Should the neighbor be told that her com- when I suddenly changed my mind. I told him I’d wait a year for him to have his ther- ment was inappropriate? — Horrified apy, and then we’d review everything we Dear Horrified: Because the comment may have cast a pall over the housewarm- had learned and proceed from there. Have I made a mistake? Right now, I ing, it was inappropriate. However, it may can’t stand to be around him. He can be the not have come as a surprise to the new own- world’s greatest giver, but other times he’s ers. In the state where I reside, real estate a selfish, insensitive, arrogant know-it-all. agents are required by law to disclose that I don’t know if I’m still in love with him. there had been a death in the house (suicide, Does this proposed one-year respite have murder), which might affect the value of the any chance of working? — Sad Wife In property. If you feel the need to say some- thing to the neighbor who made that taste- Buffalo Dear Wife: Yes, it does. It appears that less comment, by all means do so. To My Jewish Readers: Yom Kippur, in the midst of your pain and turmoil you experienced a brief moment of clarity. Your the day of atonement, begins at sundown. decision to give your husband — and your- During this 24-hour period, observant Jew- self — a year of therapy and then revisit the ish people fast, engage in reflection and issue of divorce was both wise and brilliant. prayer, and repent for any sin that might You married each other for a reason; now have been committed during the previous give yourselves a chance to remember what Hebrew year. To all of you - may your fast be an easy, but meaningful, one. it was. DAYS GONE BY 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Sept. 17-18, 1918 C.W. Stewart, a member of the same regiment as Captain Lee Caldwell, passed through Pendleton today on his way from France to his home in Portland and said that Captain Caldwell is in the best of health at present but was slightly wounded recently. The injury was not great enough to be reported in the casualties. Stewart is recovering from the effects of mustard gas and was sent home to recuperate. He is of the opinion that the war will last for another year, and says that this opinion is general among the allies. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Sept. 17-18, 1968 Marine Corps Pfc. Bruce Carter, 18, was killed in action Sept. 11 at Quang Nam Prov- ince in Vietnam. He was married to Glenda Aichele in June and had been in Vietnam for just one month. The death was reported Monday by the Defense Department. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Sept. 17-18, 1993 A herd of cowboys rode into town this week. They came in “dualie” pickups, sedans and vans. They came for the Pendle- ton Round-Up, and to a man they wear boots and a big ol’ hat. It’s unlikely, however, that there is a cow- boy in town wearing more hats this week that Paul Rice Jr. President of the Round-Up Association and father of 1993 Round-Up Queen Jodi Rice, he’s still managed to find time to compete in steer roping. Rice was ranked 15th in the world last year in steer roping; he’s gone to the national finals four times. But his presidential duties this year have prevented him from traveling to as many events as he has in other years. That’s just fine with Rice, who says he was ready for a break from non-stop travel that comes with a full season of rodeo competition. THIS DAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On Sept. 18, 1975, news- paper heiress Patricia Hearst was captured by the FBI in San Francisco, 19 months after being kidnapped by the Symbionese Liberation Army. In 1759, the French for- mally surrendered Quebec to the British. In 1793, President George Washington laid the corner- stone of the U.S. Capitol. In 1850, Congress passed the Fugitive Slave Act, which created a force of fed- eral commissioners charged with returning escaped slaves to their owners. In 1851, the first edition of The New York Times was published. In 1959, during his U.S. tour, Soviet leader Nikita Khrushchev visited Wall Street, the Empire State Building and the grave of President Franklin D. Roo- sevelt; in a speech at the U.N., Khrushchev called on all countries to disarm. In 1970, rock star Jimi Hendrix died in London at age 27. In 1987, the psycholog- ical thriller “Fatal Attrac- tion,” starring Michael Douglas and Glenn Close, was released by Paramount Pictures. In 1994, tennis star Vitas Gerulaitis, 40, was found dead in the guest cottage of a friend’s home in Southamp- ton, New York, of accidental carbon monoxide poisoning. In 2001, a week after the- Sept. 11 attack, President George W. Bush said he hoped to “rally the world” in the battle against ter- rorism and predicted that all “people who love free- dom” would join. Letters postmarked Trenton, N.J., that later tested positive for anthrax were sent to the New York Post and NBC anchor- man Tom Brokaw. In 2007, O.J. Simpson was charged with seven fel- onies, including kidnapping, in the alleged armed robbery of sports memorabilia col- lectors in a Las Vegas casi- no-hotel room. Today’s Birthdays: Singer Jimmie Rodgers is 85. Actor Robert Blake is 85. Singer Frankie Avalon is 78. Basketball Hall of Fame coach Rick Pitino is 66. Col- lege Football Hall of Famer and retired NFL player Billy Sims is 63. Singer Joanne Catherall (Human League) is 56. Actress Aisha Tyler is 48. Former racing cyclist Lance Armstrong is 47. Comedi- an-actor Jason Sudeikis is 43. Thought for Today: “We want the facts to fit the pre- conceptions. When they don’t it is easier to ignore the facts than to change the pre- conceptions.” — Jessamyn West, author (1902-1984). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE