Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, March 27, 2018 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Only child senses time has come to leave widowed mom FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE have been conflicted about how to act Dear Abby: I am an only child who has lived at home all her life — 44 around the ex, whom I considered to be years. My father recently passed away, a good friend until this happened. I am so now it is just Mom and me. She tempted to lash out at him for hurting has become extremely clingy. She is someone we care about, but I don’t jealous of my friends and feels I must want to add more drama. be with her for almost everything. We all are in undergrad together, What can I do? so we see each other every day. It’s I think I should move out, but she getting harder not to stick up for my Jeanne will take it badly. Also, I’m concerned Phillips friend at this point. How do I suppress about her health. She’s 71, diabetic and my anger in order to be a friend to both Advice has a heart condition. Is this a lost cause of them, even if the ex may not deserve or is there hope? — Hoping In Florida it? — Angry In The South Dear Hoping: I agree that you should Dear Angry: A way to do that would be to move. It would have been better had you cut remind yourself that there are usually two sides the umbilical cord while your father was still to a story. Bide your time and wait to see what alive, but better late than never. happens. Whether you want to remain friends Are there relatives or friends who can with the “cad” will become apparent with time. look in on your mother regularly? If there are, Remaining quiet may be the better choice, enlist their help. She should not be allowed to particularly if the “ideal couple” decides to become isolated and solely dependent on one reunite. person. Look into grief support groups and Dear Abby: I am a 60-year-old widow who other programs for seniors in your community. wants to begin dating. I have some health prob- If your mother needs a companion and your lems, although they are neither fatal nor limit family finances allow it, hire someone to stay my energy. I have excellent insurance and the with her. It’s time you had a life of your own. monetary resources for the needed treatment. Consider it the price of your freedom. I’m concerned that these conditions might Dear Abby: A few months ago, one of my scare off any suitors. How upfront must I be best friends was dumped by his long-term about them? I don’t intend to lie, but must I boyfriend. I was shocked because everyone give an extensive medical disclosure on the thought they were an ideal couple, and theirs first few dates? — Wants To Be Upfront was a relationship to model all of ours after. Dear Wants: I don’t think your first conver- A few days ago, my friend finally felt sations should include an “organ recital.” comfortable enough to confide that his ex However, if a relationship appears to be blos- had cheated on him with another friend of soming into something more than social, the ours, which was another shock. Since then, I honest thing to do would be to disclose. DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian March 26-27, 1918 Reaching their decision after two hours of discussion, members of the Commercial Asso- ciation last evening voted by a big majority to accept the offer of the Elks Club for the merging of the club rooms of the two organizations for the duration of the war. The offer was made and accepted solely as a means of economy and conservation, the general attitude being that it is sinful waste for the city to maintain two club headquarters in times when the great cry is to save. Some opposition was voiced on the grounds that such a move might rob the Commercial Association of some of its prestige and cloud its identity but the greater number present were of the opinion that the association was losing nothing but gaining much. It was made plain that the Elks had not fathered the plan but that the years-old desire for better quarters coupled with the pleas for economy during the war had resulted in a suggestion that had borne fruit. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian March 26-27, 1968 A spring snowstorm, heavily laden with the white stuff, deposited 20 inches at Tollgate, 14 inches at Spout Springs and four inches at Meacham the last 24 hours — and it still was snowing at Tollgate at mid-morning today. A Morganhill, Calif., woman suffered broken teeth and a lacerated mouth in a two-car accident near Deadman’s Pass on Highway 30 about 2:40 a.m. Colin K. Kough, 19, was driver of a car that passed a tractor-truck, slid on ice and slush, turned 180 degrees and hit the truck she had passed head-on. Her passenger, Robert T. Cox, 18, was not injured. And three Missouri people escaped injury when the car in which they were riding slid and overturned about 12:50 a.m. near Deadman’s Pass. Charles D. Sears Sr., 22, Dora Ava Sears, 22, and Charles D. Sears Jr. were the occupants. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian March 26-27, 1993 Jeanine Rieff took piano lessons as a child from her mother, a teacher and church musi- cian. She held on for two years. “It was my idea to study piano, but I got tired of it,” Rieff says. Tears dropped onto her hands while she practiced, because she wanted to go outdoors and play with her friends. Despite that melan- choly introduction, Rieff continued playing piano. She never studied voice, but has been singing in church since age 4. And her musi- cianship earned the $600 overall grand prize Saturday at the Kiwanis Kapers talent show in Pendleton. Rieff clearly impressed the judges and audience with “I Will Always Love You,” a Whitney Houston song from the movie “The Bodyguard.” THIS DAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 86th day of 2018. There are 279 days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On March 27, 1968, Soviet cosmonaut Yuri Gagarin, the first man to orbit the Earth in 1961, died when his MiG-15 jet crashed during a routine training flight near Moscow; he was 34. On this date: In 1513, Spanish explorer Juan Ponce de Leon sighted present-day Florida. In 1625, Charles I acceded to the English throne upon the death of James I. In 1794, Congress approved “An Act to provide a Naval Armament” of six armed ships. In 1884, the first telephone line between Boston and New York was inaugurated. In 1912, first lady Helen Herron Taft and the wife of Japan’s ambassador to the United States, Viscountess Chinda, planted the first two of 3,000 cherry trees given to the U.S. as a gift by the mayor of Tokyo. In 1933, Japan officially withdrew from the League of Nations. In 1942, during World War II, Congress granted American servicemen free first-class mailing privileges. In 1958, Nikita Khrush- chev became Soviet premier in addition to First Secretary of the Communist Party. In 1964, Alaska was hit by a magnitude 9.2 earthquake (the strongest on record in North America) and tsunamis that together claimed about 130 lives. In 1977, in aviation’s worst disaster, 583 people were killed when a KLM Boeing 747, attempting to take off in heavy fog, crashed into a Pan Am 747 on an airport runway on the Canary Island of Tenerife. In 1980, 123 workers died when a North Sea floating oil field platform, the Alexander Kielland, capsized during a storm. In 1998, the Food and Drug Administration approved the drug Viagra, made by Pfizer, saying it had helped about two-thirds of impotent men improve their sexual function. Ten years ago: The Pentagon said Defense Secretary Robert Gates had ordered a full inventory of all nuclear weapons and related materials after the mistaken delivery of ballistic missile fuses to Taiwan. Five years ago: Lawyers for Colorado theater shooting suspect James Holmes said he would plead guilty to the attack that killed 12 people and serve the rest of his life in prison to avoid the death penalty. Thought for Today: “A sheltered life can be a daring life as well. For all serious daring starts from within.” — Eudora Welty, American author (1909-2001). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE