Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, March 6, 2018 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Hubby’s work-life balance isn’t working for overburdened wife FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER Dear Abby: I have been married feel the need to get everything two years, but my husband and I settled. But every time I sit down have been together for more than to write thank-you cards, I become 10. We have a 3-year-old daughter so anxious I find it hard to breathe. who has needed a few extra doctor Some family members have told me appointments and therapy. My thank-you cards are not expected for husband makes it to none of these bereavement. Can you tell me what extra appointments, some of which the proper etiquette and time frame are crucial to her future. We both is in this matter? — Has To Settle Jeanne work full-time, but he works six days Phillips Everything a week. Dear Has: Please accept my Advice I have started to regard him differ- sympathy for the loss of your son. ently because I’m doing everything There are two ways to handle the task for our daughter. Sometimes I feel like a of thanking those who sent flowers, food or single parent. I don’t want my marriage to condolence letters. The first is to ask a friend fail, but we aren’t connecting anymore. I take or another family member to help you. The off work or switch my hours around because other is as simple as having cards printed that I know that’s what you do for your child. He say, “The family of ____________ want to never takes off work, yet he doesn’t think thank you for reaching out to us at this sad twice about going golfing with his boss like time,” and signing your name. I hope this is it’s no big deal. What do you think I should helpful for you. do? — Wisconsin Mommy Dear Abby: I have a close friend with Dear Mommy: Talk to your husband. whom I often travel and attend events. She’s You won’t be able to achieve a more equal a lovely person, but she has the odd habit balance until you make your feelings known of singing in public — in gift shops, restau- and discuss this with him. rants, or any public place where music is I’m sorry you didn’t mention what playing (and sometimes even when it’s not). kind of job your husband has, because it’s I can’t have the radio on in the car without an important omission. He may be doing her singing along. She has an OK voice, but everything he can for you and his daughter. A her style is a bit operatic. How can I gently six-day-a-week schedule doesn’t offer much tell her that her spontaneous performances flexibility. And please don’t judge him for are inappropriate and excessive? — Not playing golf with his boss. A lot of business is Karaoke In The East discussed on the links, and his presence may Dear Not Karaoke: I suspect your friend be more compulsory than you realize. craves attention, which is why she does it. Dear Abby: My adult child recently Pay her the compliment she’s looking for passed away. Although he didn’t live with by telling her how nice her voice is, but you me, I handled the arrangements and held the would prefer she not sing when you’re out in visitation in my home. public together because you find it embar- It has been only a few months, but I rassing. DAYS GONE BY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian March 5-6, 1918 Miss Graves’ class in English at the high school took a lesson in criminology this morning to see how this method of detecting criminals would work out. After the first test, the students were able to tell what crime the criminal had committed. A list of words were given the students relating to the crime. A student was sent out of the room to steal a pocketbook from the principal’s office. When these words were given him he was to tell the first word that came into his mind. Naturally, he would tell something concerning the theft, and from what he said the students, who did not know what he had done, were able to tell exactly what the crime was. His method is often used by detectives on criminals and is taught in many of the higher institutions. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian March 5-6, 1968 The exclusive Leap Year Birthday Club had two additions in Pendleton last week. St. Anthony and Community hospitals shared the distinction of greeting babies on Feb. 29. Community’s birthday baby enjoys even more status. For the little girl, Jodi Corinne, is the hospital birthday baby. Since Community Hospital opened its doors on Feb. 28, 1961, the hospital auxiliary has observed the anni- versary by presenting a gift to the baby born on Feb. 28, or the closest date following. This 5-pound, 9-ounce infant is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Daniel Snow of Hermiston. St. Anthony Hospital recorded the birth of a girl to Mr. and Mrs. George W. Benzel of Weston at 10:50 a.m. Feb. 29. She weighed 8 pounds, 9 ounces, and has been named Katherine Jo. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian March 5-6, 1993 A 4,100-foot bike path connecting the city of Hermiston with the new Diagonal Road athletic complex will be built this spring with a $54,000 state grant. The bike path will become the city’s first project devoted solely to bicyclists or pedestrians, city engineer Pat Napolitano said. Safety concerns presented by the location of athletic fields along a state highway prompted the city to seek the funds, he said. Without the path, children and others traveling to the site would be forced to ride or walk along a section of Diagonal Road in which cars can legally drive 55 mph. THIS DAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN On March 6, 1836, the Alamo in San Antonio, Texas, fell as Mexican forces led by General Antonio Lopez de Santa Anna stormed the fortress after a 13-day siege; the battle claimed the lives of all the Texan defenders, nearly 200 strong, including William Travis, James Bowie and Davy Crockett. On this date: In 1475, Italian artist and poet Michelangelo was born in Caprese in the Republic of Florence. In 1853, Verdi’s opera “La Traviata” premiered in Venice, Italy. In 1857, the U.S. Supreme Court, in Dred Scott v. Sandford, ruled 7-2 that Scott, a slave, was not an American citizen and therefore could not sue for his freedom in federal court. In 1933, a national bank holiday declared by Presi- dent Franklin D. Roosevelt aimed at calming panicked depositors went into effect. Chicago Mayor Anton Cermak, wounded in an attempt on Roosevelt’s life the previous month, died at a Miami hospital at age 59. In 1944, U.S. heavy bombers staged the first full-scale American raid on Berlin during World War II. In 1953, Georgy Malenkov was named premier of the Soviet Union a day after the death of Josef Stalin. In 1967, the daughter of Josef Stalin, Svetlana Alliluyeva, appeared at the U.S. Embassy in New Delhi and declared her intention to defect to the West. Singer-actor Nelson Eddy, 65, died in Palm Beach, Florida. In 1970, a bomb being built inside a Greenwich Village townhouse by the radical Weathermen acciden- tally went off, destroying the house and killing three group members. Today’s Birthdays: Former Federal Reserve Chairman Alan Greenspan is 92. Rock singer-musician David Gilmour (Pink Floyd) is 72. Actress Anna Maria Horsford is 71. Actor-di- rector Rob Reiner is 71. Fox News reporter John Stossel is 71. Sports correspondent Armen Keteyian is 65. Actor Tom Arnold is 59. Actor D.L. Hughley is 54. Country songwriter Skip Ewing is 54. Actor Shuler Hensley is 51. Actress Connie Britton is 51. Actress Moira Kelly is 50. Actress Amy Pietz is 49. Rock musician Chris Broderick (Megadeth) is 48. Basketball Hall of Famer Shaquille O’Neal is 46. Thought for Today: “Best be yourself, imperial, plain and true!” — Elizabeth Barrett Browning, English poet (1806-1861). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE