Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Thursday, January 11, 2018 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Runaway granddaughter avoids grandma’s attempts to connect FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: My 18-year-old something, there are better ways to granddaughter ran away twice last go about acquiring it than shoplifting. year. She’s now living with her You should also encourage her to boyfriend and refuses to have any find a job. If she does, it will increase contact with her dad. I know my son her independence, not only from her is very strict, and I’m pretty sure she father, but also her boyfriend, if it could just no longer live by his rules. becomes necessary. Her mom passed away eight months Dear Abby: I was recently diag- ago, and my son is all she has besides nosed with a stage four cancer. My Jeanne her sister. Phillips surgeon has offered me an opportu- She opened a Facebook page. I nity to be part of a clinical trial, which Advice was able to write to her a couple of my family is aware of. They do not, times and she responded. She isn’t however, know the details of how far answering my messages now. I suspect her the cancer has spread. boyfriend is controlling and is preventing her The prognosis for patients in this trial is from contacting her family. I’m also afraid about two more years. My wife thinks I should she may be involved with drugs now. She share this information with my extended and the boyfriend were recently arrested for family and friends immediately (although shoplifting, and this just isn’t typical of my there are few signs that I’m ill). I prefer to granddaughter. remain silent until the disease catches up with I have trouble sleeping at night worrying me and my time gets closer. Your advice or about her. I know she’s an adult, but I don’t reader response would be greatly appreciated want her to give up on her family who loves regarding this very emotional decision. — her. Do you have any suggestions? Should I Keeping It To Myself go to the house and try and see her, or must Dear Keeping It To Yourself: I’m sorry we just sit back and wait for her to grow up? about your diagnosis. I’m sure when your Any advice will be appreciated. — Worried letter is published there will be a tsunami Nana of reactions — both pro and con — from Dear Worried Nana: Do not just sit back. readers. By all means, visit your granddaughter! Of course your wishes should be She needs to know you love her and will be respected, but since you asked, I am inclined supportive if things don’t work out with her to agree with your wife. Your illness affects boyfriend. not only you but also the rest of your family Because she’s 18 and now considered an and friends. If you reveal your prognosis adult, you can’t force her to reunite with her now, it will give the people who love you an father, whose heavy-handed parenting may opportunity to step up to the plate and offer or may not be the reason she left home. But emotional support, not only to you, but also you can, however, point out that if she needs to her and your family. DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 11, 1918 Plans for a parish house for the Church of the Redeemer, to be known as the Potwine Memorial House, were launched in a tentative way last evening at the annual parish meeting held following a dinner given in the basement of the Christian church. The suggestion for a parish house to answer social and club needs of the church and to serve the community in much the same way as a Y.M.C.A. building was made by the Rev. Alfred Lockwood, new rector of the church. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 11, 1968 The Sisters of St. Francis in Pendleton have a new look about them. They are a wee bit self-conscious about it. But they are delighted, too, the way all women feel when they get something new to wear. In keeping with the trend in religious orders to update their apparel, the local nuns have adopted a simplified headdress. Gone are the starched headbands and wide bertha-type starched collars. In their place is a simple white cap, to which a veil is pinned. The neckline is soft, and the bodice is covered by a half-scap- ular — “in drip-dry material!” said Sister Lawrence, administrator of St. Anthony Hospital, exultantly. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 11, 1993 Neighbors helped save household posses- sions and tried to extinguish a fire with snow and garden hoses in sub-zero temperatures Sunday at a residence on Southwest Jay. Firefighters were unable to respond promptly because the home of Pat and Cathy Costello is about a quarter mile outside the city limits — and outside of the city’s fire protection area — on the west side of McKay Creek. However, about a half hour after the Costello children called 911, Fire Chief Dick Hopper authorized the use of the pumper truck and allowed four firemen to cross the district line and defend neighborhood homes in the event the blaze spread. “Our formal policy is we just don’t go at all, but it would not have been within my own ethics to allow an entire block to burn, and the potential was there,” said Hopper. The fire started Sunday morning after the Costellos used a heat lamp and hair dryer in an effort to thaw frozen water pipes. BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE THIS DAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 11th day of 2018. There are 354 days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On Jan. 11, 1964, U.S. Surgeon General Luther Terry issued “Smoking and Health,” a report which concluded that “cigarette smoking contributes substantially to mortality from certain specific diseases and to the overall death rate.” On this date: In 1861, Alabama became the fourth state to withdraw from the Union. In 1908, President Theo- dore Roosevelt proclaimed the Grand Canyon National Monument (it became a national park in 1919). In 1913, the first enclosed sedan-type automobile, a Hudson, went on display at the 13th National Automo- bile Show in New York. In 1927, the creation of the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences was proposed during a dinner of Hollywood lumi- naries at the Ambassador Hotel in Los Angeles. In 1935, aviator Amelia Earhart began an 18-hour trip from Honolulu to Oakland, California, that made her the first person to fly solo across any part of the Pacific Ocean. In 1942, Japan declared war against the Netherlands, the same day that Imperial Japanese forces invaded the Dutch East Indies. In 1977, France set off an international uproar by releasing Abu Daoud, a PLO official behind the massacre of Israeli athletes at the 1972 Munich Olympics. In 1978, two Soviet cosmonauts aboard the Soyuz 27 capsule linked up with the Salyut 6 orbiting space station, where the Soyuz 26 capsule was already docked. In 1989, nine days before leaving the White House, President Ronald Reagan bade the nation farewell in a prime-time address, saying of his eight years in office: “We meant to change a nation and instead we changed a world.” Today’s Birthdays: Former Canadian Prime Minister Jean Chretien is 84. Actor Mitchell Ryan is 84. Actor Felix Silla is 81. Movie director Joel Zwick is 76. Country singer Naomi Judd is 72. World Golf Hall of Famer Ben Crenshaw is 66. Singer Robert Earl Keen is 62. Actress Phyllis Logan is 62. Musician Vicki Peterson (The Bangles) is 60. Actress Kim Coles is 56. Actor Jason Connery is 55. Former child actress Dawn Lyn (TV: “My Three Sons”) is 55. Contem- porary Christian musician Jim Bryson (MercyMe) is 50. Rock musician Tom Dumont (No Doubt) is 50. Movie director Malcolm D. Lee is 48. Singer Mary J. Blige is 47. Musician Tom Rowlands (The Chemical Brothers) is 47. Actor Marc Blucas is 46. Actress Amanda Peet is 46. Thought for Today: “Teach us that wealth is not elegance, that profusion is not magnificence, that splendor is not beauty.” — Benjamin Disraeli, British statesman (1804-1881). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE