Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Wednesday, January 3, 2018 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Crush on mother-in-law’s new husband stirs family tension FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: My son and his wife upset with me because my husband have been together 10 years. They met and I missed an important milestone and fell in love young. They are only because of a family emergency. 25 and have two beautiful children. I am tired of her passive-aggres- I remarried three years ago, and my sive behavior, and I have come to son’s wife was instantly attracted to realize that our lives have taken my 54-year-old husband. It’s always us in different directions. Mine is uncomfortable for the two of us when family-oriented. Hers is not because they come to visit. She stares at him she has no children. Am I wrong to Jeanne throughout the entire visit, tries to Phillips feel this way? — Frustrated In New either sit right next to him or directly Mexico Advice across from him, and expects a hug Dear Frustrated: No, your every time they arrive and leave. (We perception is accurate. Your “bestie” finally put a stop to it because she would wait appears to be unusually high maintenance. to hug him last and then hold him extra long.) Rather than allow her to make you feel guilty, My husband confided that he’s flattered realize that not all friendships last forever, a 25-year-old gives him that much attention. and this one may have run its course. Talk to Three years of this can be very wearing. her and express your feelings about this, but Anything I can do and NOT lose my son? — be prepared for the fact that it will probably Awkward In The East end your relationship. Dear Awkward: Tell your son that it Dear Abby: My wife and I are in our 60s. appears his wife has a crush on your husband, We have been married for some time and are and that while he is flattered that someone so very open-minded. She keeps insisting that young would find him attractive, her behavior she does not remember her first sexual expe- makes both of you uncomfortable. Then let rience. I would be curious to understand why him explain to her that it is time to cool her in the world, unless someone was inebriated, engines. the person would not recall this huge mile- Dear Abby: I have been best friends stone. — Bewildered In The West with a woman for 30 years, but lately our Dear Bewildered: Not every question relationship has become strained. If I do needs an answer. If your wife’s first experi- something that irritates her, she gives me the ence was unpleasant or traumatic, she may cold shoulder and won’t return my phone have repressed the memory. Or she may calls. When she eventually calls back, she’s simply prefer not to discuss it with you. My distant and cold. intuition tells me that you will have nothing I was out of the country for an extended to gain by continuing to push her. If you do, period, and when I returned, she was upset it not only won’t bring you closer; it may do with me for not phoning her. Now she’s the opposite. DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 3, 1918 A new and clever trick in bootlegging camouflage was discovered when the whiskey trunk seized several days ago by Sheriff Taylor was opened. To mislead anyone handling or examining the trunk, four empty cigar boxes had been packed in the trunk and in each was a handful of marbles, which would roll about as the trunk was handled. No telltale splash of liquor could be heard above the roll of the marbles. Though he stoutly denied his guilt, Henry Earl Jefries, arrested and charged with violating the prohibition ordinance, was convicted in justice court this morning and given a sentence of $200 fine or 100 days in jail. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 3, 1968 City and state police Tuesday morning still didn’t know what caused the mysterious lights and explosion near the old Blue Moun- tain highway south of Milton-Freewater last Thursday evening. They suspect it was a bomb, not a noisy visitor from outer space who wanted to celebrate New Year’s in Earthling fashion. Milton-Freewater police reported a small hole near the road was possibly caused by the explosion. Nearby a material resembling black plastic, wrapped with wire, was found. Residents of the area saw lights in the sky, followed by a muffled explosion. The objects fell near a couple parked in a car near the highway. They reported the incident to the police. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 3, 1993 At least four more vehicle hood ornaments were swiped last week in Pendleton, bringing the count to well over 100 taken since the first of October. “This is our most prolific crime in the last three months,” said Pendleton Police chief Ed Taber, who has lost the hood ornament as well as the trunk key cover from his own personal vehicle. Police know the ornaments are being taken as trophies by youngsters, but they don’t know how to stop the spree. Somebody even took the hood ornament off a Pendleton police car. Hood ornaments often end up at the police station when parents find them at home or school officials find them at the junior high. Because the young thieves have an affinity for Cadil- lacs, Taber has suggested to Comrie Motors that all the hood ornaments be removed while the cars are on the lot, and installed only after the vehicles have been purchased. THIS DAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the third day of 2018. There are 362 days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On Jan. 3, 1868, Japan’s Meiji Restoration re-estab- lished the authority of the emperor and heralded the fall of the military rulers known as shoguns; the upheaval paved the way for Japan’s drive toward becoming a modern power. On this date: In 1521, Martin Luther was excommunicated from the Roman Catholic Church by Pope Leo X. In 1777, Gen. George Washington’s army routed the British in the Battle of Princeton, New Jersey. In 1870, groundbreaking took place for the Brooklyn Bridge. In 1911, the first postal savings banks were opened by the U.S. Post Office. (The banks were abolished in 1966.) In 1938, the March of Dimes campaign to fight polio was established by President Franklin D. Roos- evelt, who himself had been afflicted with the crippling disease. In 1946, William Joyce, the pro-Nazi radio propa- gandist known as “Lord Haw-Haw,” was hanged at Wandsworth Prison in London for high treason. In 1958, the first six members of the newly formed U.S. Commission on Civil Rights held their first meeting at the White House. In 1959, Alaska became the 49th state as President Dwight D. Eisenhower signed a proclamation. In 1967, Jack Ruby, the man who shot and killed Lee Harvey Oswald, the accused assassin of President John F. Kennedy, died in a Dallas hospital. In 1977, Apple Computer was incorporated in Cuper- tino, California, by Steve Jobs, Steve Wozniak and Mike Makkula Jr. Today’s Birthdays: Actor Dabney Coleman is 86. Journalist-author Betty Rollin is 82. Hockey Hall of Famer Bobby Hull is 79. Singer-songwriter-producer Van Dyke Parks is 75. Musician Stephen Stills is 73. Rock musician John Paul Jones (Led Zeppelin) is 72. Actress Victoria Prin- cipal is 68. Actor-director Mel Gibson is 62. Actress Shannon Sturges is 50. Actor John Ales is 49. Jazz musician James Carter is 49. Contemporary Christian singer Nichole Nordeman is 46. Musician Thomas Bangalter (Daft Punk) is 43. Actor Jason Marsden is 43. Actress Danica McKellar is 43. Actor Nicholas Gonzalez is 42. Actress Kate Levering is 39. NFL quarterback Eli Manning is 37. Pop musician Mark Pontius (Foster the People) is 33. Thought for Today: “No one asked you to be happy. Get to work.” — Colette, French author (1873-1954). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE