Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, January 2, 2018 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Both patience and pocketbook are worn thin by grandkids FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: I recently moved And last, because this unpleasant back home to help take care of my family dynamic is taking a toll on mom. We get along well, but there’s you, you must decide if you want to one major issue. She has to care for remain in that household under those my brother’s four kids every day conditions, or if coming home to take and is pretty much raising them. care of your mother was a mistake Because they are loud, whiny, rude you should rectify. and demanding, my mother snaps and Dear Abby: We are a couple in yells at them constantly. It makes life our 70s living in drought-stricken Jeanne miserable for everyone. Phillips Southern California. Our dearest My brother refuses to accept the friends moved to Nevada three years Advice fact that he’s taking advantage of our ago, and we visit them often. mom financially and emotionally. What drives me crazy when we He has plenty to say about me moving back visit is the way they use water. When we home, though, even though I help to pay bills finish a meal, my hostess will go to the sink and contribute. Never once has he offered and rinse the dishes before putting them into to make a dent in the huge grocery bill his the dishwasher. I mentioned to her that it was children ring up, and he complains about how only necessary to scrape the plates, that the much gas Mom uses toting them to the half- dishwasher is designed to wash dirty dishes, dozen or so programs he has them in. and she agreed — temporarily. The last time I have PTSD, and the situation is taking its we visited, she was back to her old habits. toll on me to the point that I can no longer be Also, she runs the dishwasher when it’s only around the kids or my mom. Is there anything half-full, instead of waiting until there’s a full I can do? Or must I just accept that this is load. how life will be if I choose to stay home? — I realize that Nevada is not having a Taking A Toll In North Carolina drought, but I find her water waste very Dear Taking A Toll: Have a talk with upsetting. I’m aware that it’s her house and your mother about her short fuse with her water and she can do what she wants, but the grandchildren, and figure out why it’s is there anything you can suggest that I can happening. If she is so stressed or sick that say or do to get her to cut down on her water she can’t manage them, correct them and give usage? — Parched In So-Cal them positive reinforcement, they should not Dear Parched: I have news for you. Cali- be under her supervision. fornia is not the only state that has suffered Your brother should not expect his mother through drought problems. Nevada has to foot the bill for feeding and transporting plenty of them, too. Make the speech you’re them. If your mother can’t make him under- dying to make once and get it off your chest. stand that, then the two of you should make After that, be a gracious guest and keep your clear that if he doesn’t pony up, his children mouth shut. You are not the drought police, will have to go to day care rather than Grand- and if you keep harping on this, you may no ma’s. longer be a welcome houseguest. DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 1-2, 1918 The new year was born in Pendleton amid noise and plenty of it. Bells rang, whistles blew, guns popped and many other noise- making devices were in evidence to greet the infant 1918 at midnight last night. It was not such a hilarious greeting as other years have had in the past when John Barleycorn was among the celebrants, but still the peace and quiet was sadly shattered in spots. The nois- iest spot, perhaps, was the Alta Theater where a special midnight matinée drew a crowd to watch the old year out. Every kind of a noise device was present and pandemonium broke loose when the hands of the clock indicated the advent of the new year. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 1-2, 1968 A state policeman, wounded and down on the ground, killed one man and wounded another Sunday after stopping a car on U.S. 30 near Baker. State police said John A. Duggan, 25, killed Daniel Clyde Death Jr., 24, with a shot in the head and wounded Paul Clipston, 23, in the neck. Duggan lost a finger and was wounded in the hip. The incident started when Duggan stopped a car to check a stolen car report. The two men jumped from the car and fired with a shotgun and a revolver. Police said Death and Clipston were former convicts, living in Baker. The car they were driving was identified later as one stolen in Caldwell, Idaho. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 1-2, 1993 The Maryland-based U.S. Generating Company has submitted an application to the Oregon Energy Facility Siting Council for a site certificate to build a $440 million natural gas cogeneration plant near Hermiston. The site under review is on the grounds of the Lamb-Weston potato processing plant on Westland Road west of Hermiston. The application for siting is the first for a major energy-producing facility in Oregon in more than 10 years. Preparation of the application has cost U.S. Generating more than $500,000, which includes a $150,000 processing fee. The siting council has nine months to approve or deny certification of the site. THIS DAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today’s Highlight in History: On Jan. 2, 1893, the U.S. Postal Service issued its first-ever set of commemorative stamps to honor the upcoming World’s Columbian Expedition in Chicago as well as the quad- ricentennial of Christopher Columbus’ voyage. On this date: In 1788, Georgia became the fourth state to ratify the U.S. Constitution. In 1792, the first classes began at Georgetown Univer- sity in Washington, D.C. In 1900, U.S. Secretary of State John Hay announced the “Open Door Policy” to facilitate trade with China. In 1921, religious services were broadcast on radio for the first time as KDKA in Pittsburgh aired the regular Sunday service of the city’s Calvary Episcopal Church. In 1935, Bruno Haupt- mann went on trial in Flemington, New Jersey, on charges of kidnapping and murdering the 20-month-old son of Charles and Anne Lindbergh. (Hauptmann was found guilty, and executed.) In 1942, the Philippine capital of Manila was captured by Japanese forces during World War II. In 1955, the president of Panama, Jose Antonio Remon Cantera, was assassi- nated at a racetrack. In 1967, Republican Ronald Reagan took the oath of office as the new governor of California in a ceremony that took place in Sacramento shortly just after midnight. In 1974, President Richard Nixon signed legislation requiring states to limit highway speeds to 55 miles an hour as a way of conserving gasoline in the face of an OPEC oil embargo. (The 55 mph limit was effec- tively phased out in 1987; federal speed limits were abolished in 1995.) “Singing cowboy” star Tex Ritter died in Nashville at age 68. In 1983, the original Broadway production of the musical “Annie” closed after a run of 2,377 performances. In 1991, Sharon Pratt was sworn in as mayor of Wash- ington, D.C., becoming the first black woman to head a city of Washington’s size and prominence. In 2006, a methane gas explosion at the Sago Mine in West Virginia claimed the lives of 12 miners, but one miner, Randal McCloy, Jr., was eventually rescued. The roof of a skating rink collapsed in the German town of Bad Reichenhall, killing 15 people. Today’s Birthdays: Country musician Harold Bradley is 92. Former House Speaker Dennis Hastert is 76. TV host Jack Hanna is 71. Actress Tia Carrere is 51. Actor Cuba Gooding Jr. is 50. Actor Taye Diggs is 47. Actor Dax Shepard is 43. 42. Country musician Chris Hartman is 40. Thought for Today: “It is good to have an end to journey towards; but it is the journey that matters, in the end.” — Ursula K. Le Guin, American author. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE