Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Wednesday, December 27, 2017 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Husband’s threat of divorce compels wife to lose weight FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE Dear Abby: I have been married your image of yourself. Then, once for 18 years and have two wonderful you have achieved your goal and feel kids, ages 14 and 12. Ten months better about yourself, decide whether ago, my husband said to me, “I told you want to remain married to a man you I would divorce you if you ever who has such poor “muscle tone” got fat.” I was shocked! Yes, I have between the ears. gained some weight over the years, Dear Abby: I am a 63-year-old but at 5 feet 5 inches tall and 150 widow. I have not been with a man pounds, I was not exactly obese. since my husband died 10 years Jeanne I was frightened by what he said, so Phillips ago. I am now dating a 31-year-old I took off 25 pounds. He didn’t appear man. I am deeply in love with him. Advice to notice, so I asked him, “Now what He says he’s in love with me, too, do you think?” He said, “You have no but his family says he doesn’t know muscle tone!” what love is. He was previously in a four-year Abby, nothing I do is good enough. I work relationship with someone his own age. part-time and take care of our kids and the Am I crazy for dating a man who is 31? house. I go out of my way to cook and bake He’s everything I have always wanted, and interesting things for them. Any appreciation? what I would consider the perfect man for me. He claims his only problem with dating His praise is, “Not bad.” Abby, what should I do? — Biggest Loser me is that I will probably pass away in 20 years, and he will be alone and devastated. In New York Dear “Loser”: Before I answer your My concern is I feel I am preventing him question, I should point out that the way some from future children and a possible wife his abusers maintain control is by withholding own age. He says he doesn’t want kids, but I’m not so sure. Please tell me what to do. I approval, love, money, etc. According to the National Institutes of have never been in this situation before. — Health, a woman who is 5 feet 5 inches tall Help, Please, In Pennsylvania should weigh between 114 and 144 pounds Dear Help, Please: As relationships to be considered a normal weight. For your evolve, couples learn more about each other. husband to threaten you with divorce if you You didn’t mention how long you and this didn’t lose weight was brutal. Nothing you do man have been involved with each other, is good enough because keeping you insecure but if it has been less than a year, you would and always trying to gain his approval is how be wise to slow things down. It would be in he maintains the upper hand in your marriage. your interest to know why his family thinks Losing weight is not easy. You should have he doesn’t know what love is. The answer to been praised for your success. that question could be enlightening. Since you asked what to do, I’ll tell you: As to your not being certain that he doesn’t Take him at his word. Your husband may want to be a father, in spite of the fact that he have said your muscle tone is flabby, but from says he doesn’t, not everyone wants children. where I sit, what’s sagging is your self-esteem. If you aren’t sure that everything he’s telling Go to the gym. Get into a training program. you is the truth, I suggest you wait a few more Improve that muscle tone, and along with it innings before swinging for a home run. DAYS GONE BY 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 27, 1917 John McCourt, former Pendleton lawyer and now a member of the commission on training camp activities, would have Pend- leton declare a quarantine against social diseases both as a protection of soldiers passing through this city and for the residents of the community. Such an ordinance has been passed by Portland and many other cities in the country in response to a request from the military authorities. Mr. McCourt proposes that the city should have the power to isolate persons afflicted with social diseases whenever necessary for the protec- tion of others. He declares that the British and French armies have found these diseases a real menace against efficiency and he quotes some alarming statistics as to the prevalence and effects of the diseases. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 27, 1967 A pair of Pendleton High School gradu- ates are the big winners on the Seattle Pacific College wrestling team. Bill Lemm, team captain and two-year letterman, has a 7-2-1 mark and Drake Lemm, a freshman, is 7-2. Bill, 32-4 when the season started, was the first outstanding wrestler to enter Seattle Pacific, now in its third full year of wrestling. Bill’s championship performance in the University of Washington invitational last weekend was his second in that tournament. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 27, 1992 The Elks Club will re-open its kitchen Tuesday after a 12-day voluntary closure — but health officials have yet to draw an official conclusion on the wave of viral illness that swept the community in early December. The Umatilla County Health Department linked the fraternal restaurant with an outbreak of vomiting and diarrhea among those who ate there. But health department director Sharon Kline said the restaurant’s re-opening would pose few health problems. “As soon as you eliminate the infected people — they’re well. They’re not going to be a continuing source of transmission of that virus,” she explained. THIS DAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 361st day of 2017. There are four days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On Dec. 27, 1927, the musical play “Show Boat,” with music by Jerome Kern and libretto by Oscar Hammerstein II, opened at the Ziegfeld Theater in New York, beginning a run of 572 performances. On this date: In 1831, naturalist Charles Darwin set out on a round- the-world voyage aboard the HMS Beagle. In 1892, the cornerstone was laid for the Cathedral of Saint John the Divine in New York City. In 1904, James Barrie’s play “Peter Pan: The Boy Who Wouldn’t Grow Up” opened at the Duke of York’s Theater in London. In 1932, New York City’s Radio City Music Hall first opened. In 1945, the World Bank and the International Mone- tary Fund were formally established. In 1947, the original version of the puppet char- acter Howdy Doody made his TV debut on NBC’s “Puppet Playhouse.” In 1949, Queen Juliana of the Netherlands signed an act recognizing Indonesia’s sovereignty after more than three centuries of Dutch rule. In 1968, Apollo 8 and its three astronauts made a safe, nighttime splashdown in the Pacific. In 1979, Soviet forces seized control of Afghani- stan. President Hafizullah Amin, who was overthrown and executed, was replaced by Babrak Karmal. In 1995, Israeli jeeps sped out of the West Bank town of Ramallah, capping a seven- week pullout giving Yasser Arafat control over 90 percent of the West Bank’s one million Palestinian residents and one-third of its land. Today’s Birthdays: Actor John Amos is 78. ABC News correspondent Cokie Roberts is 74. Rock musician Mick Jones (Foreigner) is 73. Singer Tracy Nelson is 73. Actor Gerard Depardieu is 69. Jazz singer-musician T.S. Monk is 68. Sing- er-songwriter Karla Bonoff is 66. Rock musician David Knopfler (Dire Straits) is 65. Actress Tovah Feldshuh is 64. Journalist-turned-pol- itician Arthur Kent is 64. Actress Maryam D’Abo is 57. Country musician Jeff Bryant is 55. Actor Ian Gomez is 53. Actress Theresa Randle is 53. Actress Eva LaRue is 51. Wrestler and actor Bill Goldberg is 51. Rock singer Hayley Williams (Paramore) is 29. Thought for Today: “Everybody gets so much information all day long that they lose their common sense.” — Gertrude Stein, American author (1874- 1946). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE