Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Wednesday, December 20, 2017 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Other woman cheats on man who’s cheating on his wife FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: A year ago, my add questions of your own. husband confessed that he was having Dear Abby: I am a Korean lady an affair at work. Before it started, he whose husband spends a lot of time tried setting “Velma” up with his twin on Facebook. He says it’s to promote brother, but she said she wasn’t inter- his books. (He loves to write.) I think ested. Their affair lasted for months, he does it to get recognition from his until the guilt “ate him up.” When he Facebook “friends.” told me, I was devastated. Well, that may be great for him. We agreed to get counseling and But my problem with him — and Jeanne work on our marriage. Well, it turns Phillips Facebook — is that sometimes he out Velma was also seeing his brother provides too much information about Advice while she was with my husband. Oh! ME. None of it is positive. And she had a baby, and we’re not We had a fight two weeks ago, and sure who the father is. the next thing I knew, I was reading about it on My brother-in-law claims he loves Velma Facebook, all from his point of view. Before and she loves him. I have been asked if I am that, he complained he only got a bowl of willing to sit with her, my husband and broth- cereal for breakfast when he would have liked er-in-law to “clear the air.” I don’t think I can a hot meal instead. Excuse me, but what’s do it. Although I want my brother-in-law to be stopping him from making one for himself happy, at the same time, I don’t want to ever when I have to drop off the kids at school and be near this woman. Please help. — Losing go to work? Myself I feel hurt after reading what he’s posting Dear Losing Yourself: Has your broth- and ashamed for not being a “good enough” er-in-law MARRIED Velma? If not, I see spouse. Am I overly sensitive or should I no reason why you should be forced to clear confront him about this? I could use some anything with her. If the two of them have tied wise advice. — Embarrassed In Korea the knot, then I can see a benefit for you in Dear Embarrassed: By all means talk to having a discussion. Of course, that discus- your husband about what he’s been doing, sion should be in the office of a professional because if he has complaints, they should mediator, and you should first make a list of be directed to you rather than his Facebook all the questions you would like her to answer. buddies. If you feel compelled to defend your- At the top of the list would be why she was self, you can always reply to his posts to set sleeping with your husband and his brother the record straight. If he continues to publicly at the same time. Close to that one would be discuss what should be a private matter, you why she thinks you would ever want to have might be less embarrassed if you read his a relationship with her. Take it from there and posts less often or unfriend him altogether. DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 20, 1917 John R. Beltz, 13 year old carrier of the East Oregonian and son of Mr. and Mrs. P.T. Beltz, is a thrift stamp fan — thereby helping Uncle Sam to win the war. The lad has a brother, Walter Beltz, in Troop D, and young John R. would like to be carrying a gun also. Since he cannot do so he is acting on his father’s advice and is saving his money to buy thrift stamps. He has already saved enough in various ways to buy one $5 certificate and he has three 25 cent thrift stamps towards another certificate. His certificate was No. 2 to be registered at the postoffice. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 20, 1967 A Spokane woman had a frightening expe- rience, and narrowly escaped death in a freak accident Saturday at 5:30 near Juniper Point on Highway 730 near Hermiston. Elaine Mava Leonard, 40, was traveling east, when a large boulder rolled off the top of a hill and struck her vehicle in the center of the windshield. The woman drove the 1967 model car down THIS DAY IN HISTORY BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN into a barrow pit, through two fences, and it came to a stop on a nearby railroad track. Mrs. Leonard was taken to the Good Shepherd Hospital in Hermiston by a passing motorist. Her physician said Monday she is suffering multiple fractures and is in serious condition. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 20, 1992 The end of a 16-year reign is drawing to a close for Pendleton’s longest-serving city father — Mayor Joe McLaughlin. Two years ago McLaughlin said he would end his tenure, which will close at the end of this year. The gavel will be passed Jan. 5 to former coun- cilman and city volunteer Bob Ramig. But this week, as Pendleton residents celebrate the holiday season, many will also be cheering the city’s accomplishments during the tenure of the “tough-minded Irishman.” The Pendleton Convention Center. Colby Plastics. Eastern Oregon Correctional Institution. Continental Mills. While they may be common landmarks to the people of Pendleton, they are bench- marks that highlight the many successes of the city since 1977 — the year McLaughlin was first elected. Today is the 354th day of 2017. There are 11 days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On Dec. 20, 1803, the Louisiana Purchase was completed as ownership of the territory was formally transferred from France to the United States. On this date: In 1790, the first successful cotton mill in the United States began oper- ating at Pawtucket, Rhode Island. In 1812, German authors Jacob and Wilhelm Grimm published the first volume of the first edition of their collection of folk stories, “Children’s and Household Tales.” In 1860, South Carolina became the first state to secede from the Union as all 169 delegates to a special convention in Charleston voted in favor of separation. In 1864, Confederate forces evacuated Savannah, Georgia, as Union Maj. Gen. William T. Sherman nearly completed his “March to the Sea.” In 1924, Adolf Hitler was released from prison after serving nine months for his role in the Beer Hall Putsch. In 1945, the Office of Price Administration announced the end of tire rationing, effective Jan. 1, 1946. In 1946, the Frank Capra film “It’s A Wonderful Life,” starring James Stewart and Donna Reed, had a preview showing for charity in New York, a day before its official world premiere. In 1963, the Berlin Wall was opened for the first time to West Berliners, who were allowed one-day visits to relatives in the Eastern sector for the holidays. In 1976, Richard J. Daley, the mayor of Chicago since 1955, died in office at age 74. In 1987, more than 4,300 people were killed when the Dona Paz, a Philippine passenger ship, collided with the tanker Vector off Mindoro island. In 1989, the United States launched Operation Just Cause, sending troops into Panama to topple the government of Gen. Manuel Noriega. Today’s Birthdays: Orig- inal Mouseketeer Tommy Cole (TV: “The Mickey Mouse Club”) is 76. Rhythm and blues singer-musi- cian Walter “Wolfman” Washington is 74. Rock musician-music producer Bobby Colomby is 73. Rock musician Peter Criss is 72. Agriculture Secretary Sonny Perdue is 71. Psychic/ illusionist Uri Geller is 71. Producer Dick Wolf (“Law & Order”) is 71. Rock musician Alan Parsons is 69. Actress Jenny Agutter is 65. Actor Michael Badalucco is 63. Actress Blanche Baker is 61. Rock singer Billy Bragg is 60. Rock singer-musician Mike Watt (The Secondmen, Minutemen, fIREHOSE) is 60. Actor Joel Gretsch is 54. Country singer Kris Tyler is 53. Rock singer Chris Robinson is 51. Actress Nicole deBoer is 47. Movie director Todd Phillips is 47. Singer David Cook (“Amer- ican Idol”) is 35. Actor Jonah Hill is 34. Thought for Today: “It’s the friends you can call up at 4 a.m. that matter.” — Marlene Dietrich, German- born actress (1901-1992). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE