Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, December 12, 2017 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Husband’s luddite attitude puts a heavy burden on wife FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: My husband and I P.S. Consider asking your husband have been together for 40 years. Like what he would do in the case of most people, we’ve had our good YOUR sudden death. He, too, would times and bad, but we’ve both been be left completely adrift. It couldn’t committed to the marriage, and so hurt to warn him. we’ve made it work. Dear Abby: I am a widow, and Now I’m faced with a problem for I often dine out with my youngest which I see no solution. My husband son. Invariably, because I have a refuses to learn to use a computer. He 25-year-old man with me and no Jeanne knows nothing about computers, not Phillips husband, we are shown to an undesir- even how to turn one on! able table in the restaurant. Usually, I Advice As you know, computers are now say nothing. key to even the most fundamental This evening, we were escorted to tasks. That means, as the only computer user a room way in the back of a large restaurant in the house, all tasks are MY responsibility. (two-thirds full). The only other occupants Banking, bill paying, communication with were a couple with two small children who family, friends, lawyers, financial advisers, looked to be about 2 or 3. When I requested arrangements for social events, business a different table, my son was furious. He said meetings, medical appointments, travel and what I had done was rude. other activities are totally up to me. He does We were moved to another table. It was NONE of it! He washes the dishes and takes between the hostess station and the kitchen out the trash, but any function that requires door. I sat there and said nothing. This was an brains and technology are totally left to me. expensive restaurant, and our bill was more I’m tired! Is this fair? I’ve asked many than $100. Was I rude? I would appreciate times for him to go to our public library your opinion. — New Seat In Florida and take lessons on computer use, but he Dear New Seat: Your son was mistaken. adamantly refuses. How do I handle this? — To ask to be seated at a table in a different It’s All On Me In New York part of the restaurant was not rude; it was your Dear All On You: After 40 years you are prerogative. If you preferred a location in the not going to change your husband, so appre- front of the place rather than near the kitchen ciate the things he does do. I know you’re or a family with small children, you should tired and it may not seem fair, but grit your have repeated your request. And if the host teeth and forge ahead. or hostess had a problem with it, you should You have no idea how lucky you really have left and enjoyed dinner at a restaurant are. Many wives know little or nothing about more accommodating than that one. the family finances. If something unforeseen To My Jewish Readers: The eight days happens to their husbands, they are left of Hanukkah begin at sundown. Happy scrambling to learn about realities for which Hanukkah, everyone! May we all enjoy a they are not equipped. joyous festival of lights. DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 11-12, 1917 With the time for voluntary enlistment closing on Saturday of this week, dozens of young men are hurrying to enlist in their favorite branch of the service. The navy is proving the most attractive branch and Recruiting Officer Swartz is kept busy signing men up and answering inquiries. During the past two and a half days 14 men have joined the navy here, making a total of 23 since Dec. 1 and 53 since Nov. 1. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 11-12, 1967 A Columbia River landmark, the Pend- leton Grain Growers elevator in Umatilla, burned to the ground Friday night. The fire was set to clear the land for Lake Umatilla, which will be formed next spring with the closure of the gates at John Day Dam. For years the Umatilla Fire Department had mapped plans on how they would fight a fire at the big PGG elevator. When it did go up BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN in a big burst of flames they were on hand to protect the Tidewater-Shaver tank farm to the southeast. A breeze from the southeast about 9:30 p.m. eliminated any fire hazard and the huge elevator burned to the ground without incident. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 11-12, 1992 The Baha’i Faith often is misunderstood, according to Pendleton believers who attended the recent World Congress in New York. Vafa Aflatooni, from the local Baha’i governing body, says people mistakenly believe it’s a cult or sect. But Baha’i is a worldwide, independent religion that encompasses all religious revelations (including Christianity and Judaism). Vafa was among more than 30,000 Baha’is from 187 countries who gathered in New York City from Nov. 23-26. He was joined by his wife, Leslie, along with Ken and Billie Robbins, Katherine Young and Amin Mansuri, all of Pendleton; brothers Keith and Andrew Lavadour of Adams; and Farahmand Ziari of Hermiston. THIS DAY IN HISTORY Today is the 346th day of 2017. There are 19 days left in the year. Hanukkah, the Jewish Festival of Lights, begins at sunset. Today’s Highlights in History: On Dec. 12, 1917, during World War I, a train carrying some 1,000 French troops from the Italian front derailed while descending a steep hill in Modane; at least half of the soldiers were killed in France’s greatest rail disaster. Father Edward Flanagan founded Boys Town outside Omaha, Nebraska. On this date: In 1787, Pennsylvania became the second state to ratify the U.S. Constitution. In 1897, “The Katzenjammer Kids,” the pioneering comic strip created by Rudolph Dirks, made its debut in the New York Journal. In 1906, President Theo- dore Roosevelt nominated Oscar Straus to be Secretary of Commerce and Labor; Straus became the first Jewish Cabinet member. In 1925, the first motel — the Motel Inn — opened in San Luis Obispo, California. In 1937, Japanese aircraft sank the U.S. gunboat Panay on China’s Yangtze River. In 1946, a United Nations committee voted to accept a six-block tract of Manhattan real estate offered as a gift by John D. Rockefeller, Jr. to be the site of the U.N.’s headquarters. In 1947, the United Mine Workers union disaffiliated from the American Federa- tion of Labor. In 1963, Kenya became independent of Britain. In 1977, the dance movie “Saturday Night Fever,” a Paramount Pictures release starring John Travolta, premiered in New York. In 1985, 248 American soldiers and eight crew members were killed when an Arrow Air charter crashed after takeoff from Gander, Newfoundland. In 2000, George W. Bush became president-elect as a divided U.S. Supreme Court reversed a state court deci- sion for recounts in Florida’s contested election. Today’s Birthdays: Former TV host Bob Barker is 94. Basketball Hall of Famer Bob Pettit is 85. Singer Connie Francis is 80. Singer Dionne Warwick is 77. Rock singer-musician Dickey Betts is 74. Hall of Fame race car driver Emerson Fittipaldi is 71. Actor Wings Hauser is 70. Actor Bill Nighy is 68. Actor Duane Chase (Film: “The Sound of Music”) is 67. Country singer LaCosta is 67. Gymnast-turned- actress Cathy Rigby is 65. Author Lorna Landvik is 63. Singer-musician Sheila E. is 60. Actress Sheree J. Wilson is 59. International Tennis Hall of Famer Tracy Austin is 55. Rock musician Eric Schenkman (Spin Doctors) is 54. Rock musician Nicholas Dimichino (Nine Days) is 50. Country singer Hank Williams III is 45. Thought for Today: “Experience has taught me that the only cruelties people condemn are those with which they do not happen to be familiar.” — Ellen Glasgow, American author (1874-1945). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE