Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Wednesday, September 6, 2017 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Expectant mother hasn’t told husband he’s not the father FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: I am a mother of three a family meeting to discuss the possi- and happily married to my kids’ father. bility. We’re all in our 50s or older, and I am now seven months pregnant with some of us have health issues. my fourth baby, but this child is not There has always been a lot my husband’s. My husband is a loving of bickering between some of us man and a good father. My problem is, because of control issues. I explained I don’t know how to tell him I’m not to everyone that we can make our carrying his baby. The man I slept with requests for locations, activities, etc., is married and always saying he wants but we all need to be willing to give a Jeanne to marry me. He has one son with his Phillips little. The bickering is continuing, and wife. I love my kids, and I still love my some unkind things were said about Advice husband. How can I tell him the truth others. without tearing my family apart? — I just want to plan a fun vacation Big Mistake and have a good time, but I’m worried the Dear Big Mistake: Not knowing your negativity will carry over to the vacation. We husband, I can’t guess at how he will react are all we have left in this world. Our parents when you break the news. I’m sure he won’t died years ago, and since then, one of our be pleased to hear it. Regardless, he must be siblings has passed away, too. I worry that told, so do it at a time when it’s calm and quiet this may be a last chance for all of us to be and you can discuss it without your children together. All but one live within 10 miles of running in and out. I am sure he will have each other, and I’m sad to say we get together many questions — among them, whether you only a few times a year. Any suggestions on plan to continue a relationship with the child’s how to handle this sticky situation? — In father. (Does the man plan to be part of the Vacation Mode baby’s life in years to come?) Dear Vacation Mode: Taking into Because this may have legal ramifications, consideration the family dynamics you have discuss this with an attorney, who can guide described, it’s wishful thinking to believe you you in case there may be visitation issues, can control the way your siblings relate to custody problems, etc. lurking just beyond the each other. The reason they see each other so horizon. infrequently may have something to do with Dear Abby: I talked with one of my siblings the fact that some of them are petty, immature about having a joint vacation. He suggested all and nasty. My suggestion would be to invite of us get together with our spouses and go on only those siblings who can get along with one together. We discussed locations and had each other and see the other ones separately. DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Sept. 6, 1917 Did some mystic power give J.C. Hoskins warning of the wreck Sunday night in which Brakeman Walter Fuller of Train No. 255 was killed and then cremated? Though the run down the mountain was made at night- time and it was very cold Hoskins refused to go into the caboose to rest nor would he let his men do so. Instead they remained out on top of the train all night, getting down and watching the sheep when the train stopped. According to Hoskins he had a sense of impending danger and at times tried to look back up the track but owing to the curves he could see nothing. Owing to the coldness of the night the other men were at first disposed to criticize their employer for keeping them up but after the wreck they were free in thanking him for having saved their lives because if they had been in the caboose at the time of the smash they would doubtless have been killed as was Fuller. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Sept. 6, 1967 Pendleton’s all-time drought record reached 75 consecutive days without measurable rain Monday midnight, and was working on the 76th this morning — but the local station of the U.S. Weather Bureau figured it had only a 50-50 chance of making it. The forecast is for light showers today and tonight with isolated thunderstorm over the Blues, and the chance of rain is 50 percent today dropping to 20 percent tonight and Wednesday. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Sept. 6, 1992 Alfred L. Lovgren, an 81-year-old Heppner man accused of trying to kill his son over a water-rights dispute, pleaded not guilty Friday morning in district court. Lovgren was given permission by the court to return to his home. However, he was ordered to stay away from his son, Stacey Lovgren, 56, and daughter-in-law Darlene Lovgren, 52, who live a few hundred yards away from him on a rural route south of Heppner. The charges stem from an incident July 18 in which Lovgren allegedly drove to his son’s home and fired three shots from a .30-caliber rifle at his son and his son’s wife. Alfred Lovgen allegedly commented about the long-standing water rights dispute when he pointed the rifle at his son. THIS DAY IN HISTORY BLONDIE DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 249th day of 2017. There are 116 days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On September 6, 1901, President William McKinley was shot and mortally wounded by anarchist Leon Czolgosz at the Pan-Amer- ican Exposition in Buffalo, New York. (McKinley died eight days later; Czolgosz was executed on October 29.) On this date: In 1861, Union forces led by Gen. Ulysses S. Grant occupied Paducah, Kentucky, during the Civil War. In 1916, the first self- serve grocery store, Piggly Wiggly, was opened in Memphis, Tennessee, by Clarence Saunders. In 1925, the silent film horror classic “The Phantom of the Opera,” starring Lon Chaney, had its world premiere at the Astor Theater in New York. In 1939, the Union of South Africa declared war on Germany. In 1943, 79 people were killed when a New York- bound Pennsylvania Railroad train derailed and crashed in Philadelphia. In 1954, groundbreaking took place for the Shipping- port Atomic Power Station in western Pennsylvania. In 1966, birth control advocate Margaret Sanger died in Tucson, Arizona, at age 86, eight days before her birthday. South African Prime Minister Hendrik Verwoerd was stabbed to death by an apparently deranged page during a parliamentary session in Cape Town. In 1970, Palestinian guerrillas seized control of three U.S.-bound jetliners. (Two were later blown up on the ground in Jordan, along with a London-bound plane hijacked on Sept. 9; the fourth plane was destroyed on the ground in Egypt. No hostages were harmed.) In 1975, 18-year-old tennis star Martina Navrati- lova of Czechoslovakia, in New York for the U.S. Open, requested political asylum in the United States. In 1997, a public funeral was held for Princess Diana at Westminster Abbey in London, six days after her death in a car crash in Paris. Today’s Birthdays: Comedian JoAnne Worley is 82. Country singer David Allan Coe is 78. Rock singer-musician Roger Waters (Pink Floyd) is 74. Actress Swoosie Kurtz is 73. Comedian-actress Jane Curtin is 70. Rock musician Mick Mashbir is 69. Country singer-songwriter Buddy Miller is 65. Actor James Martin Kelly is 63. Country musician Joe Smyth (Sawyer Brown) is 60. Actor-come- dian Jeff Foxworthy is 59. Actor-comedian Michael Winslow is 59. Rock musi- cian Perry Bamonte is 57. Actor Steven Eckholdt is 56. Rock musician Scott Travis (Judas Priest) is 56. Pop musician Pal Waaktaar (a-ha) is 56. New Jersey Gov. Chris Christie is 55. Rock musician Kevin Miller is 55. Actress Rosie Perez is 53. Rock singer Dolores O’Riordan (The Cranberries) is 46. Actor Idris Elba is 45. Thought for Today: “We live in a fantasy world, a world of illusion. The great task in life is to find reality.” — Iris Murdoch, Anglo-Irish author and philosopher (1919-1999). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE