Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Thursday, June 8, 2017 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Man gets needed health care in a marriage of convenience FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: I’m in a second I know time will make it easier, marriage, which was only for the but in the short term, how do we help benefit of insurance so my husband him tap into his inner strength and be could get insurance through my an adult about this? He goes to work, employer’s plan. We were together for so that’s a blessing. How do people many years before getting married. make it through breakups and cope He received the health care he with the grief? — Sad For Him needed, and I’m ready to move Dear Sad: They depend upon forward with my life as a single their friends and family to listen to Jeanne person. However, he now says he’s Phillips them while they vent. And if that happy being married. THAT WAS doesn’t work, they do it in the office Advice NOT OUR AGREEMENT. I am not of a licensed therapist. Because interested in spending any more time what you’re telling your son hasn’t being dissatisfied with this relationship. What helped, please suggest it. he brought to it was not all that I wanted, and Dear Abby: When I was 7, my mother he knew this. hosted a birthday party for me. When we I’m ready to move forward, but don’t made out the guest list, there was a girl who want to lose his friendship. What’s the best wasn’t popular who I didn’t want to invite. way to approach this? I have spoken to him Mom told me to invite her or I wouldn’t have about another procedure he needs, but he is a party. I invited her, but she didn’t come. stalling. — Marriage Of Convenience That lesson of inclusiveness made a Dear M.O.C.: You have devoted enough big impression on me. Later, in school, I to this man’s welfare. In a marriage, both became an unpopular girl. I missed many of parties are supposed to be happy, and he my classmates’ parties because of it, but the already knows you’re not. It may not be lesson stayed with me. possible to move forward and keep his In high school and beyond I have friendship. If he needs another procedure, befriended people who were unpopular give him a deadline to have it done. If he or who are seen as misfits. And you know hasn’t had it by then, feel free to file. what? My life has been richer from these Dear Abby: My grown son has broken experiences. So I would like to offer a up with his girlfriend. They were together belated thank-you to my mother for making for five months. He feels his life is over. His me invite that little girl years ago, because it dad and I have been helping him get over it. shaped my life. — Kathy In Pennsylvania He has a 7-year-old son who lives with him Dear Kathy: Your mother is a wise and and we want him to be strong. He calls us compassionate woman. The lesson here every day and he’s beginning to sound like a is, popularity can be fleeting. But having broken record, repeating the same story again compassion for people who need it is and again. forever. DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian June 8, 1917 High price of sacks and the prospective shortage of farm labor this summer are proving effective arguments for the bulk method of handling grain and not a few farmers are already making plans to equip themselves to use this method. Quite a number of others are seriously considering the change from the more cumbersome and expensive sack method. The price of sacks has been steadily soaring until the sack bill for a harvest will be a very considerable item. One farmer who has already made provisions to handle his grain in bulk estimates that he can equip his harvester, construct wooden bins and wagons at a cost less than his sack bill would be. At the same time the change will enable him to dispense with three men on his machine and to store this grain as soon as he harvests it. The building of the elevator in this city has given an impetus to the bulk method. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian June 8, 1967 It just wasn’t a good trip for Robert Earl Harvey, 20. He was driving on NW 10th at 11:45 p.m., city police reported, when he reportedly collided with the side of a house owned by James Brotherton, 312 NW 10th. At the impact tires in the back end of his pickup bounced out, rolled down to the resi- dence of Jack Kehoe, 914 NW Despain, and smashed his front door. Officer Dale Huise arrested Harvey in the 1100 block of NW Furnish and charged him with driving while intoxicated and failure to stop and leave name and address at the scene of an accident. He was taken to the police station and a little later arrested on a charge of having a fraudulent operator license. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian June 8, 1992 A 17-year-old Idaho youth was arrested on the shore of the Columbia River after fleeing from state police in a boat. An officer began chasing Ronnie K. Harris of St. Anthony, Idaho, on Highway 730 from Hat Rock State Park to Weyerhouse Beach and concluded the chase in the Columbia River, according to police. Harris reportedly sped off the highway to Weyerhouse Beach where he attempted to lose police by driving his Ford pickup over sand dunes to the river’s edge. Harris then jumped into a boat and was transported out into the river, police said. A marine boat police officer brought Harris back to shore, where he was arrested for DUII, attempting to elude a police officer and no operator’s permit. THIS DAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 159th day of 2017. There are 206 days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On June 8, 1967, during the six-day Middle East war, 34 American servicemen were killed when Israel attacked the USS Liberty, a Navy intelligence-gathering ship in the Mediterranean Sea. (Israel later said the Liberty had been mistaken for an Egyptian vessel.) On this date: In A.D. 632, the prophet Muhammad died in Medina. In 1042, Edward the Confessor became King of England, beginning a reign of 23 ½ years. In 1845, Andrew Jackson, seventh president of the United States, died in Nash- ville, Tennessee. In 1867, modern Amer- ican architect Frank Lloyd Wright was born in Richland Center, Wisconsin. In 1917, during World War I, Maj. Gen. John J. Pershing, commander of the American Expeditionary Force, arrived in Liverpool, England, while en route to France; also, the 1st Expeditionary Division was organized at Fort Jay in New York. In 1920, the Republican National Convention opened in Chicago; its delegates would end up nominating Warren G. Harding for president. In 1939, Britain’s King George VI and his consort, Queen Elizabeth, arrived in Washington, D.C., where they were received at the White House by President Franklin D. Roosevelt. In 1972, during the Vietnam War, an Associated Press photographer took a picture of a screaming 9-year-old girl, Phan Thi Kim Phuc, as she ran naked and severely burned from the scene of a South Vietnamese napalm attack. Today’s Birthdays: Former first lady Barbara Bush is 92. Actor-comedian Jerry Stiller is 90. Actress Millicent Martin is 83. Actor James Darren is 81. Actor Bernie Casey is 78. Singer Nancy Sinatra is 77. Singer Chuck Negron is 75. Musician Boz Scaggs is 73. Author Sara Paretsky is 70. Actress Sonia Braga is 67. Actress Kathy Baker is 67. Country musician Tony Rice is 66. Rock singer Bonnie Tyler is 66. “Dilbert” creator Scott Adams is 60. Actor-di- rector Keenen Ivory Wayans is 59. Musician Nick Rhodes (Duran Duran) is 55. Rapper Kanye West is 40. Country singer/songwriter Sturgill Simpson is 39. Thought for Today: “When we begin to take our failures non-seriously, it means we are ceasing to be afraid of them.” — Katherine Mansfield, New Zealander author (1888-1923). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE