Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Friday, May 5, 2017 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ For mom rewriting her will, time with her kids is money FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: I divorced my narcis- Please help me, Abby. I’m at a loss sistic husband after our children were about what to do. — Self-Esteem raised. Over the years, I have tried Issues In Ohio to have a relationship with all of my Dear Issues: I’m glad you wrote. children and their families. The seeds of low self-esteem were When I asked one of them for a planted when you were so young you three-day weekend with her children, didn’t understand what was being she texted me saying they all had a lot done was a form of abuse. Because going on. Then she added, “Maybe it continued for so long, you should Jeanne next year.” I may not BE here next Phillips seek professional help to overcome year! it. It is important that you get it from Advice I know she may never read this, but a licensed therapist. Your physician or it doesn’t matter to me if it will help your insurance company can refer you someone who does read it. I have decided to to qualified people. Please don’t wait. change my will. If I’m not worth my children’s Dear Abby: Prior to meeting me, my time, they don’t deserve my money. Your husband was in a long-term relationship with a thoughts? — Worthless Up North woman, “Karen,” who was also a close friend Dear Worthless: Could it be possible that of his sisters. Their relationship and the friend- your daughter and her family are actually ships ended due to Karen’s behavior. Years busy? Not knowing how you raised your chil- passed, and then my husband met me. dren, it’s hard to render an opinion, but from Now, 10 years later, the sisters have decided your reaction, you appear to have a troubled to befriend Karen again. This would normally relationship with this daughter. Rather than not be an issue, but Karen is invited to all family disinherit her, try to find out what motivated her parties and weddings. It is very uncomfortable to text what she did so fences can be mended. for my husband and me, as we feel we don’t If that’s not possible, then you have every right have the option to skip these events. I have to reallocate your assets as you wish. tried to quietly object, but I’m being painted as Dear Abby: I have a huge problem with “immature.” Please help. — Uncomfortable low self-esteem. For most of my life I was In Illinois ridiculed, teased and bullied, not only by my Dear Uncomfortable: If you and your classmates and co-workers, but also by my husband prefer not to socialize regularly with own family. It started when I was very young Karen, you certainly don’t have to. However, and continued well into my early 30s. (I am your discomfort with her does not entitle you 35 now.) Because of this, I find it incredibly to insist your sisters-in-law exclude her from difficult to date anyone. all of their parties. Attend the ones you must, I always seem to find it easier to talk down make the best of them, and send your regrets about myself than to make myself happy. for the rest. DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian May 5, 1917 “Too fat to fly,” reads a message received this morning by friends from Hal Corby, who recently enlisted in the aviation corps of the navy. He has, therefore, gone into the wireless service and expects to leave soon for California. A card from Ray Finnell, who enlisted at the same time, brings word that he successfully passed the examinations. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian May 5, 1967 Almost 4,000 youngsters have been immu- nized against red measles since a county-wide campaign to stamp out an epidemic started Monday. Dr. Alton Alderman, Umatilla County health officer, said 490 shots were given in Pendleton Wednesday and 307 at Pilot Rock, for a total so far of 3,947. Some of the inoculations were by needle, when a shortage developed of the 50-dose vials that fit on a new jet injector gun used for most of the shots. The mass immunization program moved today to Helix. The free shots are now limited to the 1-10 age group. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian May 5, 1992 Increased demand for low-fat beef and an expanded export market to Japan have prompted Ron and Jane Baker to move Western Meat Producers Inc. from an outdated plant in Pasco to a new building to be constructed near Hinkle. The Bakers, owners of C&B Livestock in Hermiston, will need at least 50 employees to start up the new facility in April of 1993. Ron Baker said a more realistic employment goal, with expected expansion over the next few years, is 75 full-time, family-wage jobs, although many of the skilled meat cutters working at Pasco are expected to transfer to the plant south of Hermiston. THIS DAY IN HISTORY BLONDIE DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 125th day of 2017. There are 240 days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On May 5, 1862, Mexican troops defeated French occupying forces in the Battle of Puebla. On this date: In 1494, during his second voyage to the Western Hemisphere, Chris- topher Columbus landed in Jamaica. In 1821, Napoleon Bonaparte, 51, died in exile on the island of St. Helena. In 1892, Congress passed the Geary Act, which required Chinese in the United States to carry a certificate of residence at all times, or face deportation. In 1927, “To the Light- house,” Virginia Woolf’s fifth novel, was published in London. In 1942, wartime sugar rationing began in the United States. In 1945, in the only fatal attack of its kind during World War II, a Japanese balloon bomb exploded on Gearhart Mountain in Oregon, killing the pregnant wife of a minister and five children. Denmark and the Netherlands were liberated as a German surrender went into effect. In 1955, West Germany became a fully sovereign state. The baseball musical “Damn Yankees” opened on Broadway. In 1961, astronaut Alan B. Shepard Jr. became America’s first space trav- eler as he made a 15-minute suborbital flight aboard Mercury capsule Freedom 7. In 1973, Secretariat won the Kentucky Derby, the first of his Triple Crown victories. In 1981, Irish Republican Army hunger-striker Bobby Sands died at the Maze Prison in Northern Ireland in his 66th day without food. In 1987, the congres- sional Iran-Contra hearings opened with former Air Force Maj. Gen. Richard V. Secord the lead-off witness. In 1994, Singapore caned American teenager Michael Fay for vandalism, a day after the sentence was reduced from six lashes to four in response to an appeal by President Bill Clinton. In 2007: Floyd Mayweather Jr. beat Oscar De La Hoya to win the WBC 154-pound title at the MGM Grand Garden in Las Vegas. Today’s Birthdays: Actress Pat Carroll is 90. Former AFL-CIO president John J. Sweeney is 83. Saxophonist Ace Cannon is 83. Country singer-musician Roni Stoneman is 79. Actor Michael Murphy is 79. Actor Lance Henriksen is 77. Comedian-actor Michael Palin is 74. Actor John Rhys-Davies is 73. Rock correspondent Kurt Loder is 72. Rock musician Bill Ward (Black Sabbath) is 69. Actress Melinda Culea is 62. Actress Lisa Eilbacher is 60. Actor Richard E. Grant is 60. Former broadcast journalist John Miller is 59. Rock singer Ian McCulloch (Echo and the Bunnymen) is 58. NBC newsman Brian Williams is 58. Rock musician Shawn Drover (Megadeth) is 51. TV personality Kyan Douglas is 47. Actor Henry Cavill is 34. Soul singer Adele is 29. Rhythm-and-blues singer Chris Brown is 28. Thought for Today: “It is quite true what philos- ophers say: that Life must be understood backwards. But that makes one forget the other assumption: that it must be lived forwards.” — Soren Kierkegaard, Danish philosopher (born this date in 1813, died 1855). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE