Tuesday, March 14, 2017 PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK East Oregonian Page 9A DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Daughter’s efforts are never good enough for her family FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: I’m a 15-year-old girl, better. No rule of etiquette dictates and I’m struggling with abuse. I’m that she is obligated to send a plate of mentally and physically abused by my her food home with her son for you. family constantly, yet they make me Perhaps if your relationship with her out to be the abusive one. I could do was warmer, or your husband was amazing on a test, and they yell at me thoughtful enough to suggest it, she for something that happened on the would. However, since you asked, my last one. They’re always pushing me opinion is that rather than complain, so hard to do better that it’s making you should pick up some take-out on Jeanne me do worse. Phillips your way home from work. How can I make my family see that Dear Abby: I’m a 22-year-old Advice I’m not them, and I can do good if they college student on the verge of grad- just give me the chance to learn from uating this May. I’ve been dating my my mistakes? — Struggling In Wisconsin boyfriend for more than five years, and I am Dear Struggling: Parents always want extremely close with his family, especially his their children to perform to their level of sister “Claudia” and her three children (ages capacity. Because you say you are being 6, 3 and 6 months). abused physically and emotionally for My parents are throwing me a graduation your inability to live up to your family’s party at their home, and they don’t want any expectations, discuss what’s going on with a guests under the age of 10. How do I tell counselor at your school. It’s possible there Claudia — a dear friend — that her children needs to be an intervention by someone they won’t be invited without upsetting her? (I will listen to. Please don’t wait to do it. have small cousins who won’t be attending Dear Abby: My husband of three years either.) has visits with his son every Tuesday and It truly is nothing personal, but I know Thursday evening. My mother-in-law picks she will probably take it personally. I don’t up her grandson, takes him to her home and want to cause drama, but I do want to honor makes dinner for the three of them. I work my parents’ wishes that no small children be 10-hour days Monday through Friday and am present. How do I tell her? Help! — Soon- not able to attend these dinners. To-Be Graduate My question is, isn’t it proper etiquette that Dear Soon-To-Be Graduate: You are my mother-in-law should send a plate of food not hosting the party; your parents are. As home for me with my husband? She never the hosts, it is their privilege to decide whom has, and I think this is rude and inconsiderate to invite — or not. When Claudia is invited, of her. What is your opinion? — Hungry In your parents should explain that they prefer El Paso children under the age of 10 not be present, Dear Hungry: Although brief, your letter and soften it if necessary by explaining there speaks volumes about your relationship with are small nieces and nephews who will not be your mother-in-law, which appears could be attending as well. DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian March 13-14, 1917 Last Sunday a heavy wind and snow storm raged causing three freight trains to become stalled in the canyon one and one-half miles west of Meacham. However, the snow plow soon cleared the tracks for them, without any delay to regular trains. The snow and wind storm still raged Monday and every day during the past week snow has fallen and is still falling. Fences have been out of sight for so long residents confess they don’t know what one looks like and can walk over them. Small buildings not attended to have been caving in under the weight of snow and ice. The snow depth is six and seven feet everywhere. There have been very few thawing days this winter and it is feared when spring comes the snow will melt in a rush. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian March 13-14, 1967 A quarter-mile of Union Pacific Railroad’s main line across the Blue Mountains was torn up Sunday when 17 empty freight cards derailed near Gibbon. Dean Nagele, Pendleton UP agent, said today the tracks were repaired and the line reopened at 5:10 p.m. Sunday. The derailment occurred at 7:30 a.m. A railroader at the scene said “a track turned over” as the 112-car train headed up the slight grade and around curve a mile past Gibbon. No one was injured in the derailment. But a short time later, as the first of a work crew of 150 men arrived, a rock rolled down the cliff above the tracks and struck Fred Thomas, Rieth, on the leg. He was taken by ambulance to St. Anthony Hospital where his leg was x-rayed. No break was found and he was released. The only other casualty of the roaring crash was a raccoon. The animal was crushed by a toppling box car. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian March 13-14, 1992 Nathan Locke of Enterprise capped the opening round state Class 2A high school boys championship basketball action by tying a 35-year-old tournament scoring record Thursday night. Locke scored 45 points, grabbed 16 rebounds and blocked 10 shots to lead the Enterprise Savages to an 84-62 first- round victory over the Gervais Cougars. He tied the tournament single-game scoring record set by Pudgy Hunt of Knappa in 1957. Locke’s 19 baskets from the field broke the old field- goal record of 18 held jointly by Jeff Lavender of Pilot Rock and Russ Harper of St. Mary’s. THIS DAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 73rd day of 2017. There are 292 days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On March 14, 1967, the body of President John F. Kennedy was moved from a temporary grave to a permanent memorial site at Arlington National Cemetery in Virginia. On this date: In 1794, Eli Whitney received a patent for his cotton gin, an invention that revolutionized America’s cotton industry. In 1885, the Gilbert and Sullivan comic opera “The Mikado” premiered at the Savoy Theatre in London. In 1900, Congress ratified the Gold Standard Act. In 1907, President Theo- dore Roosevelt signed an executive order designed to prevent Japanese laborers from immigrating to the United States as part of a “gentlemen’s agreement” with Japan. In 1923, President Warren G. Harding became the first chief executive to file an income tax return, paying a levy of $17,990 on his $75,000 salary. In 1939, the republic of Czechoslovakia was dissolved, opening the way for Nazi occupation of Czech areas and the separation of Slovakia. In 1951, during the Korean War, United Nations forces recaptured Seoul. In 1964, a jury in Dallas found Jack Ruby guilty of murdering Lee Harvey Oswald, the accused assassin of President John F. Kennedy, and sentenced him to death. (Both the conviction and death sentence were over- turned, but Ruby died before he could be retried.) In 1975, “Monty Python and the Holy Grail,” a sendup of the legend of King Arthur, had its world premiere in Los Angeles. Today’s Birthdays: Singer Phil Phillips (Song: “Sea of Love”) is 91. Former astronaut Frank Borman is 89. Actor Michael Caine is 84. Composer-conductor Quincy Jones is 84. Actor Raymond J. Barry is 78. Movie director Wolfgang Petersen is 76. Country singer Michael Martin Murphey is 72. Rock musician Walt Parazaider (Chicago) is 72. Actor Steve Kanaly is 71. Comedian Billy Crystal is 69. Actor-writer-co- median-radio personality Rick Dees is 66. Prince Albert II, the ruler of Monaco, is 59. Singer-musician Taylor Hanson (Hanson) is 34. Actor Jamie Bell is 31. Rock musi- cian Este Haim (Haim) is 31. Olympic gold medal gymnast Simone Biles is 20. Thought for Today: “The man who does his work, any work, conscientiously, must always be in one sense a great man.” — Dinah Maria Mulock Craik, English novelist (1826-1887). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE