Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Friday, February 24, 2017 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Daughters blame mom’s fiancé for breaking up her marriage FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: My fiancée and I plan the guy who rebuilt an antique truck to be married next year. I met her after from the ground up, if you go to any she left her husband because he had car show featuring restored cars, you cheated on her twice. She refuses to can’t help but admire the time, energy, tell her daughters that she left their dad skill and commitment some men put because he cheated, so I am doomed into a restoration. These can be works to be the “bad guy” for eternity. They of art. think I’m “the man who stole Mama Balance is very important to a from Daddy.” Her youngest (age 25) successful marriage. Before a wife Jeanne thinks I’m the devil incarnate and is Phillips complains about too much time unbelievably rude to me, no matter spent in the “cave” (and not all do Advice who is around. I’m thinking marriage complain), she should consider the will be hell because she and her upside. He is safe, he’s not blowing mother interact every day. What am I to do? family money in a bar or at a blackjack table, — Blameless In The South and he’s not chasing other women. And he Dear Blameless: This is not a question just may be creating something unique that of what “you” should do. It’s a question of will give him great pride and satisfaction. — what you and your fiancée should do together. Paul In Wisconsin Dear Paul: When I put the question about While it may not be necessary for her to tell her adult daughters that their father was a “garaged husbands” out to my readers, they cheater, and that’s the reason she left him, she were forthcoming with their views. The should definitely call a family meeting and responses — predominantly from men, but clear the air by telling them that you were not also some of their wives — were overwhelm- the reason the marriage ended. She should ingly positive. also insist that you be treated with respect — While the theory of spending too much if not affection. time in the garage as a result of being “frozen However, if she’s unwilling to do that, out of the bedroom” was raised, most readers then you should seriously consider calling off affirmed the value of having separate time the wedding because a marriage under those from a spouse — as long as it is only “spare” conditions would be miserable for you. Her time. Wives wrote that it enables them to daughters would guarantee it. catch up on reading, shopping, a project with Dear Abby: This is in response to the kids or grandkids, or watch a favorite TV “Another Husband in Oregon” (Sept. 3) who show or movie. wondered about the “man cave” behavior he Both spouses extolled the results produced had observed in his neighbors. I can tell you in the “cave” — restored vintage cars, wood- from personal experience that the appeal of working items and various repairs. Visiting spending long hours working on mechanical is permitted, and there’s learning to be had things in a garage or workshop in total for the kids. And, as a number of readers solitude is strong for many men. Regarding reminded us, “At least you know where he is.” DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Feb. 24, 1917 The first case brought in Umatilla county under the provision of the new bone-dry law which makes drunkenness a state offense punishable in the state courts was filed this morning when Chief of Police Gurdane swore to a complaint in the justice court against Herman Peters, former saloonman. His fine was $10 and costs, making a total of $16.20. Peters was arrested yesterday afternoon on Main street by the chief as he got into an auto. According to the officer he was too drunk to be permitted to drive a car. As he got into the car, he turned toward Chief Gurdane who was standing near by and contemptuously wiggled his fingers from his nose, according to the chief. This provoked the latter to place him under arrest and escort him to the police station. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Feb. 24, 1967 A planned switchover of electrical service in a large area east of Pendleton ran into trouble last night and early this morning causing people in that region to be without power for a total of about two hours. Affected were people in the Mt. Hebron, Riverside, Umatilla River, Meacham and Reservation areas serviced by Umatilla Electric Coop. Dave Boothman, line superintendent for Umatilla Electric, said the trouble occurred when a bypass switch on a set of regulators failed to open and a set of circuit breakers failed to stay closed. The power switch was part of a normal switching proce- dure to de-energize the Pendleton Bonneville substation to allow the BPA crews to perform maintenance work at the substation. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Feb. 24, 1992 Sharon Gwenevere Byers of Hermiston was among winners in the recent Miss Oregon National Teen-Ager Pageant at Umpqua Community College, Roseburg. Byers, 17, received the pageant’s top citizenship award. She is the daughter of Kim M. Richardson of Hermiston. She earned a trophy and a $20,000 tuition scholarship to Eckerd College in St. Petersburg, Fla. Byers also will be considered for one of 15 regional tuition scholarships, $16,000 each, and two $24,000 national awards. She was among top 10 finalists in the senior division, ages 16-18. THIS DAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 55th day of 2017. There are 310 days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On Feb. 24, 1942, the SS Struma, a charter ship attempting to carry nearly 800 Jewish refugees from Romania to British-man- dated Palestine during World War II, sank in the Black Sea off Turkey after it was torpe- doed by a Soviet submarine; all but one of the refugees on board perished. On this date: In 1582, Pope Gregory XIII issued an edict outlining his calendar reforms. (The Gregorian Calendar is the calendar in general use today.) In 1868, the U.S. House of Representatives impeached President Andrew Johnson following his attempted dismissal of Secretary of War Edwin M. Stanton; Johnson was later acquitted by the Senate. In 1912, the American Jewish women’s organiza- tion Hadassah was founded in New York City. In 1920, the German Workers Party, which later became the Nazi Party, met in Munich to adopt its platform. In 1938, the first nylon bristle toothbrush, manufac- tured by DuPont under the name “Dr. West’s Miracle Toothbrush,” went on sale. In 1955, the Cole Porter musical “Silk Stockings” opened at the Imperial Theater on Broadway. In 1966, Kwame Nkrumah, the first president of Ghana, was overthrown in a military coup while he was visiting Beijing; he was replaced by Joseph Arthur Ankrah. In 1975, the Congres- sional Budget Office, charged with providing independent analyses of budgetary and economic issues, began oper- ating under its first director, Alice Rivlin. In 1992, Nirvana lead singer Kurt Cobain married Hole lead vocalist Courtney Love in Hawaii. Today’s Birthdays: Actor-singer Dominic Chianese is 86. Movie composer Michel Legrand is 85. Opera singer-director Renata Scotto is 83. Singer Joanie Sommers is 76. Former Sen. Joseph Lieb- erman, I-Conn., is 75. Actor Barry Bostwick is 72. Actor Edward James Olmos is 70. Singer-writer-producer Rupert Holmes is 70. Rock singer-musician George Thorogood is 67. Actress Debra Jo Rupp is 66. Actress Helen Shaver is 66. News anchor Paula Zahn is 61. Baseball Hall of Famer Eddie Murray is 61. Country singer Sammy Kershaw is 59. Actor Mark Moses is 59. Actress Beth Broderick is 58. Singer Michelle Shocked is 55. Actor Billy Zane is 51. Rock musician Matt McGinley (Gym Class Heroes) is 34. Thought for Today: “Be kind to unkind people — they need it the most.” — Ashleigh Brilliant, English- born American writer. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE