Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Friday, December 30, 2016 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Couple feels ignored by parents tending to wayward siblings FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: My husband and I are weeks gestation. While term gestation in our 30s. We do well for ourselves is still defined as 37 weeks, current and are generally happy. We both terminology distinguishes early term have siblings who have various prob- (37 to 38 weeks), from term (39 to lems — drug abuse, emotional issues, 40 weeks). Data show that not only is broken relationships. Our parents pick the rate of acute complications higher up and travel to support them during for babies born even at 36 weeks, but their various dramas, but visit my each week less than 39 is associated husband and me only if they need a with increasingly lower develop- Jeanne place to stay and don’t want to pay for Phillips mental scores. a hotel. In a collaborative effort, organi- Advice My parents have cited fear of flying zations dedicated to children’s health as a reason they don’t visit us much, have spent the last decade trying to and my husband’s parents claim they don’t reduce the rate of late preterm births, those have the money. However, their travel itiner- from 34 to 37 weeks. We have made great aries to visit our siblings suggest otherwise. inroads in reducing late preterm births, and I I haven’t asked my husband’s parents am quite certain that getting the word out to about this, but I did ask mine. My mother said your millions of readers could have a positive that because we’re “on a good path,” they impact and take us even further. Every baby don’t need to see us as often or put as much should have the healthiest start possible, and effort into us. I was shocked. How do we deal in the absence of pregnancy complications, with knowing that we’re less favored because that means waiting until 39 weeks. — David we have our act together? — The Good Kids H. Levine, M.D., Columbus, Ga. Dear Good Kids: You are not the only Dear Dr. Levine: Thank you for this people with this problem. The same thing information. I heard from many readers, tends to happen in families in which there including neonatologists, labor/delivery is a child with special needs. The parents nurses, and other professionals certified in expend their energy where they think it is maternal and newborn care. They all cited the needed most, which often results in hurt and current position of the American Congress resentment on the part of the stronger siblings. of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) Perhaps if you view what your mother told advocating for full-term delivery. you less as a punishment for your success and All stated that the final few weeks are more as a validation, it will be less hurtful and important for brain, lung and liver develop- you will understand the logic. And if you feel ment, vision and hearing, blood sugar regu- you need more time with your parents, go lation, and attaining a healthy birth weight so visit THEM. the baby can stay warm, suck and swallow, Dear Abby: “Emotional Dad in Cali- and remain awake long enough to be fed. fornia” (July 23), whose wife was planning Expectant moms should do as much research to deliver their child early, was correct. No as they can in order to give their babies the baby should be electively delivered before 39 best chance for the healthiest life. DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 30, 1916 Did Santa Claus get away with all the chil- dren’s mittens in Pendleton or is Jack Frost responsible for the fact there are no childish hand warmers to be had in the city? Whatever the cause may be, there is a shortage in the mitten supply and with the coasting season on in full blast the situation constitutes a problem second only to the nation-wide car shortage. Unless supplies can be shipped in or grand- mothers come to the rescue with their knitting needles some little hands will go chilly. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 30, 1966 Three East End youths were in the Umatilla County Jail today charged with trying to stock up early on beer, wine and cigars in time for New Year’s Eve without bothering to pay for the goodies. Umatilla County Deputy Sheriff Paul Jones was notified Thursday that someone had broken into the Lone Star Cafe and Tavern in Athena and taken 32 cases of beer, wine, cigars and candy. Working all day, Jones with the help of Bud Miller, Athena police chief, and Charles Hearn, Weston police chief, found the stolen items in a cache on Weston Mountain and arrested three suspects. Charged with burglary are Howard Stine, 18, Weston, and Larry Elliott, 22, Milton-Freewater. Each is being held on $2,000 bail. A third person, a 17-year-old, was turned over to juvenile authorities. Jones said that Milton-Freewater police also assisted. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Dec. 30, 1991 Tom Darnell, a Umatilla County exten- sion agent, is helping start an innovative way of controlling an onion-attacking fungus known as white rot. Darnell, of Milton-Free- water, is applying a chemical to unplanted onion fields that is identical to the natural odor found in onions and garlic, called diallyl disulphide, or DADS. Researchers are attempting to trick the white rot fungus into a premature death long before crops are planted. “Our idea is to trick the fungus into germinating and starving to death before onions are planted,” said Fred Crowe, a plant pathologist with Oregon State University’s Agricultural Experiment Station. THIS DAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 365th day of 2016. There is one day left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On Dec. 30, 1916, Grigory Rasputin, the so-called “Mad Monk” who wielded consid- erable influence with Czar Nicholas II, was killed by a group of Russian noblemen in St. Petersburg. On this date: In 1853, the United States and Mexico signed a treaty under which the U.S. agreed to buy some 45,000 square miles of land from Mexico for $10 million in a deal known as the Gadsden Purchase. In 1865, author Rudyard Kipling was born in Bombay, India. In 1905, the Franz Lehar operetta “The Merry Widow” premiered in Vienna. In 1922, Vladimir I. Lenin proclaimed the estab- lishment of the Union of Soviet Socialist Republics, which lasted nearly seven decades before dissolving in Dec. 1991. In 1936, the United Auto Workers union staged its first “sit-down” strike at the General Motors Fisher Body Plant No. 1 in Flint, Mich- igan. (The strike lasted until Feb. 11, 1937.) In 1940, California’s first freeway, the Arroyo Seco Parkway connecting Los Angeles and Pasadena, was officially opened. In 1954, Olympic gold medal runner Malvin G. Whitfield became the first black recipient of the James E. Sullivan Award for amateur athletes. In 1994, a gunman walked into a pair of suburban Boston abortion clinics and opened fire, killing two employees. (John C. Salvi III was later convicted of murder; he died in prison, an apparent suicide.) In 1999, former Beatle George Harrison fought off a knife-wielding intruder who’d broken into his mansion west of London and stabbed him in the chest. Today’s Birthdays: Actor Joseph Bologna is 82. Actor Russ Tamblyn is 82. Baseball Hall-of-Famer Sandy Koufax is 81. Folk singer Noel Paul Stookey is 79. TV director James Burrows is 76. Actor Fred Ward is 74. Singer-mu- sician Michael Nesmith is 74. Actress Concetta Tomei is 71. Singer Patti Smith is 70. Rock singer-musician Jeff Lynne is 69. TV personality Meredith Vieira is 63. Actress Sheryl Lee Ralph is 61. Actress Patricia Kalember is 60. Country singer Suzy Bogguss is 60. “Today” show co-host Matt Lauer is 59. Actress-co- median Tracey Ullman is 57. Rock musician Rob Hotchkiss is 56. Radio-TV commentator Sean Hannity is 55. Golfer Tiger Woods is 41. TV personality-boxer Laila Ali is 39. Singer-actor Tyrese Gibson is 38. NBA player LeBron James is 32. Thought for Today: “Addresses are given to us to conceal our whereabouts.” — H.H. Munro (“Saki”), British author (1870-1916). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE