Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Wednesday, November 23, 2016 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ The way to make friends is to be a good one yourself FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER GARFIELD BY JIM DAVIS Dear Abby: I am a 9-year-old traits I admired in others, such as girl in third grade. I have problems kindness and honesty. making friends. Girls my age and Dear Abby: What should I do older don’t like me much. Boys my about my mother-in-law, who has age and older seem to be fine. been bumming money from churches It’s important I get help in making for more than 20 years from Ohio to girl friends. I have three hopeless Florida, even taking trips across the brothers I really don’t like. My mom country taking money along the way? said I should tell you what I do like I have contacted every church in Jeanne — math, science, dolls and TV. I have Phillips our area. But they still give her money, crazy hair. which she blows mostly at casinos Advice Did you have this problem when and on her non-working boyfriend. you were my age? I think people think I will no longer have anything to do I’m weird. — Young Reader In Kokomo, with them, which of course is hard on my Ind. wife. Please advise. — Ohio Reader Dear Young Reader: Your mother is a Dear Reader: If you have contacted the smart woman. She knows how important clergy in your area about your mother-in- common interests can be in forming rela- law’s scam and they still give her money, you tionships. Because you like math, science, have done everything you can. Because you dolls and TV, gravitate toward girls who like no longer want anything to do with her and them, too. If you do, you may find that some her deadbeat boyfriend, tell your wife she of them are receptive. Remember — all you should see them without you. You have my really need is one friend you can confide in. permission. As to the rest of your question, at your Dear Readers: Tomorrow is Thanks- age I wasn’t part of the popular crowd. I was giving, and no Thanksgiving would be shy and terrible at sports, so I spent many complete without my sharing the traditional hours alone in my room reading books. They prayer penned by my dear mother: kept me company and widened my horizons Oh, Heavenly Father, beyond my immediate neighborhood. People We thank Thee for food and remember the at my grammar school probably thought I hungry. was weird, too, but many people who become We thank Thee for health and remember successful as adults start out that way. the sick. You and I have something else in common. We thank Thee for friends and remember I was self-conscious about my hair, too. It the friendless. was curly and hard to handle because I hadn’t We thank Thee for freedom and remember yet learned to style it. But as I grew older, I the enslaved. learned to manage it — as I’m sure you will. May these remembrances stir us to service, And when I reached my mid-teens I found That Thy gifts to us may be used for it easier to make female friends. A valuable others. Amen. Have a safe and happy celebration, lesson I learned was to BE a friend when someone needs one, and to practice character everyone! — Love, Abby DAYS GONE BY 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Nov. 23, 1916 Mr. and Mrs. A.H. Rugg, pioneer resi- dents of Umatilla county, yesterday enjoyed an occasion that is given but few married couples to enjoy, the sixtieth anniversary of their wedding day. Thirty-five or forty friends surprised them during the evening by calling at their home at 1905 East Court street unan- nounced and spending several hours with them. Mr. and Mrs. Rugg were married in Wisconsin, Nov. 21, 1856. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Nov. 23, 1966 A 78-year-old Portland hunter, Matt Bert- hein, lost since noon Monday in the moun- tains southwest of Pilot Rock, was found this morning alive and well. Searchers had concentrated their efforts in the area between Meadow Creek and Gibson’s cabin. Sheriff’s Deputy Bill McPherson and State Policeman Ron Bridges lead the search party. Searchers were in the woods until 2 a.m. today and resumed their hunt at daybreak. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Nov. 23, 1991 A drive to help Gerald Backen of Stanfield raise enough money for a heart transplant has reached nearly $3,000. The fund drive began a month ago to help the former Lamb-Weston truck driver afford a transplant through the Oregon Health & Science University in Portland. Backen’s insurance will cover only half the $100,000-plus needed for the surgery and related expenses. His church and other friends are helping the family raise the rest of the money. THIS DAY IN HISTORY BLONDIE DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 328th day of 2016. There are 38 days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On Nov. 23, 1936, Life, the photojournalism maga- zine created by Henry R. Luce, was first published. On this date: In 1765, Frederick County, Maryland, became the first colonial American entity to repudiate the British Stamp Act. In 1804, the 14th pres- ident of the United States, Franklin Pierce, was born in Hillsboro, New Hampshire. In 1889, the first jukebox made its debut in San Fran- cisco, at the Palais Royale Saloon. (The coin-operated device consisted of four listening tubes attached to an Edison phonograph.) In 1903, Enrico Caruso made his American debut at the Metropolitan Opera House in New York, appearing in “Rigoletto.” In 1910, American-born physician Hawley Harvey Crippen was hanged at Pentonville Prison in London for murdering his wife, Cora. (Crippen’s mistress, Ethel Le Neve, was acquitted in a separate trial of being an accessory.) In 1914, the seven-month U.S. military occupation of Veracruz, Mexico, ended. In 1945, most U.S. wartime rationing of foods, including meat and butter, was set to expire by day’s end. In 1959, the musical “Fiorello!” starring Tom Bosley as legendary New York Mayor Fiorello LaGuardia, opened on Broadway. In 1963, President Lyndon B. Johnson proclaimed Nov. 25 a day of national mourning following the assassina- tion of President John F. Kennedy. In 1971, the People’s Republic of China was seated in the U.N. Security Council. In 1980, some 2,600 people were killed by a series of earthquakes that devastated southern Italy. In 1996, a comman- deered Ethiopian Airlines Boeing 767 crashed into the water off the Comoros Islands, killing 125 of the 175 people on board, including all three hijackers. Today’s Birthdays: Former Labor Secretary William E. Brock is 86. Actress Elmarie Wendel is 88. Actor Franco Nero is 75. Actress Susan Anspach is 74. Screenwriter Joe Eszterhas is 72. Actor-comedy writer Bruce Vilanch is 69. Sen. Chuck Schumer, D-N.Y., is 66. Singer Bruce Hornsby is 62. Former Sen. Mary Landrieu, D-La., is 61. Actor Maxwell Caulfield is 57. Actor John Henton is 56. TV personality Robin Roberts (“Good Morning America”) is 56. Rock singer-musician Ken Block (Sister Hazel) is 50. Rock musician Charlie Grover is 50. Actress Salli Richardson-Whitfield is 49. Actor Oded Fehr is 46. Rapper-actor Kurupt (Tha Dogg Pound) is 44. Actor Page Kennedy is 40. Actress- singer Miley Cyrus is 24. Thought for Today: “I’m a realist and so I think regretting is a useless occu- pation. You help no one with it. But you can’t live without illusions even if you must fight for them, such as ‘love conquers all.’ It isn’t true, but I would like it to be.” — Marlene Dietrich, German- born actress (1901-1992). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE