Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, November 22, 2016 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Sharing bed with infant can lead to sleep-related death FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER GARFIELD BY JIM DAVIS Dear Abby: While, as you replied call. This is a belief system for me, to “Sleepy in California” (Sept. 17), something ingrained in me. If she some parents do “co-sleep” with their were a stranger, I would absolutely children for the first few months, what not be around her. Knowing what I do you were referring to is actually “bed now, I am crushed. sharing.” Bed sharing was shown in She’s my daughter, and we have studies several years ago to be the always had our differences. But I feel greatest risk factor for sleep-related so strongly about what she’s doing deaths in young infants less than 4 and has done that I no longer want Jeanne months of age. Phillips to be in the same room with her. She The American Academy of has a son I adore with all my heart, Advice Pediatrics and the March of Dimes and I provide child care for him. I feel have both recommended (for years!) broken right now and could really use against bed sharing in these young infants. guidance. — Broken In Illinois Instead they recommend that young infants Dear Broken: I can only imagine how sleep in cribs near their parents. They should you must have felt to have learned about of course be on their backs and should not be the abortion during a “heated discussion.” sleeping with blankets or toys. However, there is a common misconception These deaths, mostly from suffocation or that women who decide to terminate a preg- overheating, are sad and mostly preventable. nancy do so lightly. They don’t! If you don’t The acceptance of bed sharing due to cultural know your daughter’s reason for having hers, influences is difficult to overcome. Please it might benefit both of you to talk calmly help by taking the time to educate your about it. You don’t have to approve of her readers on the dangers of bed sharing with choice, but you should hear what she has to infants. — C. Smith, M.D., FAAP say. Dear Dr. Smith: I appreciate your writing Because you feel broken, this is some- to me. Your point is an important one, and thing you should discuss with your religious that I omitted it was an oversight. I hope adviser and take your cue from him or her. To parents of infants will take your wise counsel cut off relations with your daughter — and to heart. by extension your grandson — would benefit Dear Abby: My daughter is 29, and we no one. recently had a respectful, although heated, Dear Abby: Are you supposed to take a discussion about politics, agendas and the gift to an engagement party? The couple has candidates. It turned out that we disagree on been living together. They just got engaged major issues, and we both can give chapter and are planning a wedding in two years. — and verse about why we believe the way we Ana Marie In Texas do. Dear Ana Marie: A gift would be a nice Something came to light, though. She’s gesture. It doesn’t have to be lavish — a not the person I thought she was. She lovely frame for their engagement picture informed me that she had had an abortion. would be thoughtful, because a wedding is My feelings on this issue aren’t a judgment now in the picture. DAYS GONE BY 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Nov. 21-22, 1916 Pendleton’s two banks continue to reflect an unprecedented prosperity in Pendleton and Umatilla county. Their statements, prepared at the close of business Nov. 17 in response to a request from the state, show that the aggregate deposits of the two banks amount to more than $5,600,000, the greatest in the history of the city. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Nov. 21-22, 1966 A prisoner walked away from the Umatilla County Jail Saturday night. Donald Joseph Moore, 34, Baton Rouge, La., had been working as the jail’s cook since he was arrested Nov. 1. He was being held on a charge of knowingly uttering and publishing a forged bank check. Sheriff Roy Johnson said Moore left the jail kitchen and escaped from the third floor while the jailer was administering medicine to a prisoner in another part of the jail. The kitchen is separate from the barred parts of the jail. Moore is the second prisoner to have walked away from the county jail. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Nov. 21-22, 1991 After two frustrating years of hunting for a site for a city sewer lagoon and effluent-water irrigation system, the Heppner City Council ran into a brick wall in the form of DEQ demands it couldn’t meet. But that brick wall now has a hole in it, council members learned at a special meeting this week. City Adminis- trator Gary Marks said the state Department of Environmental Quality has changed its tune and will now permit a system that will allow some dumping of effluent water into Willow Creek to continue. THIS DAY IN HISTORY BLONDIE DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 327th day of 2016. There are 39 days left in the year. Today’s Highlights in History: On Nov. 22, 1963, John F. Kennedy, the 35th Pres- ident of the United States, was shot to death during a motorcade in Dallas; Texas Gov. John B. Connally, riding in the same car as Kennedy, was seriously wounded; suspected gunman Lee Harvey Oswald was arrested. The same day, authors Aldous Huxley and C.S. Lewis also died. On this date: In 1515, Mary of Guise, the second wife of King James V and the mother of Mary, Queen of Scots, was born in Lorraine, France. In 1718, English pirate Edward Teach — better known as “Blackbeard” — was killed during a battle off present-day North Carolina. In 1890, French presi- dent Charles de Gaulle was born in Lille, France. In 1914, the First Battle of Ypres during World War I ended with an Allied victory against Germany. In 1928, “Bolero” by Maurice Ravel had its premiere at the Paris Opera. In 1935, a flying boat, the China Clipper, took off from Alameda, California, carrying more than 100,000 pieces of mail on the first trans-Pacific airmail flight. In 1944, the MGM movie musical “Meet Me in St. Louis,” starring Judy Garland, had its world premiere in St. Louis. In 1955, comic Shemp Howard of “Three Stooges” fame died in Hollywood at age 60. In 1965, the musical “Man of La Mancha” opened on Broadway. Sing- er-songwriter Bob Dylan married Sara Lownds (the marriage lasted 12 years). In 1975, Juan Carlos was proclaimed King of Spain. In 1989, Rene Mouawad was killed by a bomb after serving 17 days as president of Lebanon. In 1990, British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher, having failed to win re-elec- tion of the Conservative Party leadership on the first ballot, announced she would resign. Today’s Birthdays: Actor Michael Callan is 81. Actor Allen Garfield is 77. Animator and movie director Terry Gilliam is 76. Actor Tom Conti is 75. Singer Jesse Colin Young is 75. Astronaut Guion Bluford is 74. International Tennis Hall of Famer Billie Jean King is 73. Rock musician-actor Steve Van Zandt (a.k.a. Little Steven) is 66. Rock musician Tina Weymouth (The Heads; Talking Heads; The Tom Tom Club) is 66. Retired MLB All-Star Greg Luzinski is 66. Actress Lin Tucci is 65. Actor Richard Kind is 60. Actress Jamie Lee Curtis is 58. Alt-country singer Jason Ringenberg (Jason & the Scorchers) is 58. Actress Mariel Hemingway is 55. Actor-turned-producer Brian Robbins is 53. Actor Stephen Geoffreys is 52. Actor Mark Ruffalo is 49. Country musi- cian Chris Fryar (Zac Brown Band) is 46. Actress Scarlett Johansson is 32. Thought for Today: “Experience is not what happens to a man; it is what a man does with what happens to him.” — Aldous Huxley (1894-1963). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE