Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Tuesday, November 8, 2016 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Let grandma decide how much baby-sitting she wants to do FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: Is it wrong to drop off feeling needed keeps them young. a 1- and a 5-year-old at a senior assist- The way to gauge any negative impact ed-living center for their great-grand- on your mother’s health would be if it mother to baby-sit in her room? My causes a flare-up of her condition — niece does this weekly, claiming she’s at which point her doctor should be giving my mother “quality time” with notified so he/she can put a stop to it. her great-grandchildren. Dear Abby: Are parents of the My mother is in the assisted-living bride required to foot the cost of the center due to issues my dad is wedding (averaging over $25,000 Jeanne encountering. She’s very independent Phillips in the U.S. nowadays) anymore? and, of course, wants to help any of I understand they were years ago, Advice her family whenever she can. But when it was a part of her dowry, but Mom has an autoimmune disease that in modern times I have heard of such flares up with stress or when she gets tired. a thing only in your column — unless the I’m concerned about her health and feel my family is rich and Daddy pays for everything. niece is taking advantage of her. Of course, I can’t imagine asking my parents to pay my sister sides with her daughter. They have for my wedding. My fiancé and I are aiming told me to butt out. for — dress included — $1,000 or less. Are I don’t want to confront the management parents actually expected to spend thousands of the facility because I want Mom to feel as on their daughter’s wedding? It’s their independent as possible there. I don’t want daughter and son-in-law who want it. — Just them to not allow her to do something she Asking In British Columbia really wants to do. I have safety concerns, Dear Just Asking: No. A wedding is a though, and feel this is not right. What do you GIFT, and while it would be generous for the think? — Torn In Texas parents to pitch in, there is no requirement Dear Torn: I’m not sure what your safety that they do so. concerns are, but if you think the assist- Thought For The Day: ed-living center could be legally liable, you The question now that really vexes should address them to the manager. Is where we’re gonna place our “X”es. As to the baby-sitting being too stressful Voting, folks, should not upset ya — or tiring for your mother, leave it up to her to Be glad we’re livin’ where they let ya. — decide if it’s too much. Some seniors find that XO, Abby DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Nov. 7-8, 1916 The Washington school was last night thoroughly fumigated as a precautionary measure against the spread of contagious diseases. Two cases of scarlet fever were reported yesterday in one room of the school but physicians have no fear of an epidemic. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Nov. 7-8, 1966 A Union Pacific Railroad brakeman lost part of his right hand and received chest and head injuries after he was caught between a railroad car and an unloading dock at a rock crushing pit seven miles west of Pendleton Monday. Listed in critical condition at Pendleton Community Hospital is Archer A. Antles, 56, of La Grande, who was switching cars at the Barnhart siding. Antles was braking a car when he became trapped between the car and the loading dock. He was struck by the car. The battered and bleeding brakeman had to crawl to summon help and was taken to the hospital by ambulance, arriving shortly after 5:50 p.m. He was immediately taken to surgery. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Nov. 7-8, 1991 Pending approval from the state Depart- ment of Environmental Quality, a medical waste destruction firm is ready to set up shop in Boardman. Commissioners at the Port of Morrow approved a 30-year lease for Therm-Tec Destruction Services of Oregon during a special meeting Wednesday. The Sherwood-based company will pay $4,000 a year to conduct business at the port, plus 10 cents for every box of medical waste inciner- ated at the plant. The plant will be located on four acres of land in the northeast corner of the Port of Morrow’s industrial-zoned property. THIS DAY IN HISTORY BLONDIE DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 313th day of 2016. There are 53 days left in the year. This is Election Day. Today’s Highlights in History: On Nov. 8, 1966, Edward W. Brooke, R-Mass., became the first black candi- date to be elected to the U.S. Senate by popular vote. Republican Ronald Reagan was elected governor of California, defeating Democratic incumbent Pat Brown. President Lyndon B. Johnson signed a measure allowing the merger of the American Football League and the National Football League. On this date: In 1793, the Louvre began admitting the public, even though the French museum had been officially open since August. In 1864, President Abraham Lincoln won re-election as he defeated Democratic challenger George B. McClellan. In 1889, Montana became the 41st state. In 1923, Adolf Hitler launched his first attempt at seizing power in Germany with a failed coup in Munich that came to be known as the “Beer-Hall Putsch.” In 1932, New York Democratic Gov. Franklin D. Roosevelt defeated incumbent Republican Herbert Hoover for the presidency. In 1942, Operation Torch, resulting in an Allied victory, began during World War II as U.S. and British forces landed in French North Africa. In 1950, during the Korean War, the first jet-plane battle took place as U.S. Air Force Lt. Russell J. Brown shot down a North Korean MiG-15. In 1960, Massachusetts Sen. John F. Kennedy defeated Vice President Richard M. Nixon for the presidency. In 1974, a federal judge in Cleveland dismissed charges against eight Ohio National Guardsmen accused of violating the civil rights of students who were killed or wounded in the 1970 Kent State shoot- ings. In 1986, former Soviet official Vyacheslav M. Molotov, whose name became attached to the incendiary bottle bomb known as a “Molotov cock- tail,” died at age 96. In 1988, Vice President George H.W. Bush won the presidential election, defeating the Democratic nominee, Massachusetts Gov. Michael Dukakis. In 1994, midterm elec- tions resulted in Republi- cans winning a majority in the Senate while at the same time gaining control of the House for the first time in 40 years. Today’s Birthdays: Actor Norman Lloyd is 102. Actress Stephane Audran is 84. Actor Alain Delon is 81. Singer-ac- tress Bonnie Bramlett is 72. Singer Bonnie Raitt is 67. TV personality Mary Hart is 66. Former Playboy Enterprises chairman and chief executive Christie Hefner is 64. Actress Alfre Woodard is 64. Sing- er-songwriter Rickie Lee Jones is 62. Author Kazuo Ishiguro is 62. Rock musi- cian Porl Thompson (The Cure) is 59. Singer-actor Leif Garrett is 55. Chef and TV personality Gordon Ramsay is 50. Actress Courtney Thorne-Smith is 49. Actress Parker Posey is 48. Rock musician Jimmy Chaney is 47. Actress Roxana Zal is 47. Singer Diana King is 46. Actor Gonzalo Menendez is 45. Rock musician Scott Devendorf (The National) is 44. Actress Gretchen Mol is 43. ABC News anchor David Muir is 43. Actor Matthew Rhys is 42. Actress Tara Reid is 41. Country singer Bucky Covington is 39. Actress Dania Ramirez is 37. Actress Azura Skye is 35. Actor Chris Rankin is 33. TV personality Jack Osbourne is 31. Thought for Today: “Remember one thing about democracy. We can have anything we want and at the same time, we always end up with exactly what we deserve.” — Edward Albee, American playwright (1928- 2016). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE