Thursday, May 26, 2016 PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK East Oregonian Page 7A DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Mom objects when kids are made to pay for roughhousing FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: We visit my in-laws their grandmother that there would two or three times a year. During our be restitution — I assume the same was true of their cousins — you were most recent visit, my kids (ages 12 wrong to interfere. That you would and 14) were roughhousing with their do this in the presence of your kids cousins and accidentally slammed was a mistake. a door, which resulted in a broken I agree with your mother-in-law frame. Their grandpa had asked them that one of the problems in our society to stop, which they apparently didn’t today is the lack of accountability do. Jeanne Now, three months later, my Phillips or consequences when people do something wrong. I applaud her for in-laws are visiting us, and my Advice sticking to her guns, and you owe her mother-in-law is having the kids pay an apology. for the frame. When I spoke up and Dear Abby: I am going to my girlfriend’s let her know I thought this was inappropriate, she became very upset and said, “Kids these mother’s 60th birthday party. I just found out days don’t have any consequences,” and this that her younger sister is pregnant — unbe- is what she and the kids had agreed should knownst to her parents — and she plans to happen. I emphasized in front of the kids how surprise them the next day on their mom’s important it is to listen, to be accountable for actual birthdate. The little sister has asked your actions and to see what they could’ve that we not drink at the dinner because she doesn’t want to feel left out. This caused done to make it up to her. I’m just not comfortable with her still an argument between me and my girlfriend holding onto this and expecting them to because I think her request is silly and kind pay for the frame. It seems to me that a of selish. Is there a rule of etiquette about this? Isn’t conversation about respect and listening is plenty appropriate but, after that, shouldn’t it weird that someone would ask that you not my mother-in-law have gracefully let it go? drink a couple of beers or a glass of wine at a These kids, by the way, get excellent school birthday dinner? If I’m on a diet, I don’t ask reports, play instruments and sports, and are people to eat only salad or to order less around me. I think she should make a “headache/not considered by most people to be great kids. Was I wrong to express my opinion that feeling well” excuse rather than try to limit/ having the kids pay her is inappropriate? If it control the fun of others. — Social Drinker Dear Social Drinker: No rule of etiquette wasn’t, then maybe we shouldn’t visit at her home, since it’s illed with breakable valu- covers this. I agree that you shouldn’t have ables. I am very frustrated by my controlling to abstain at the celebration if you prefer to indulge. However, the decision should be mother-in-law. — Upset In Morro Bay Dear Upset: Your “great kids” ignored voluntary and not imposed upon you. Your their grandfather when he asked them to quit girlfriend may prefer not to have alcohol that roughhousing, and the result was signiicant night to support her sister, but that doesn’t property damage. If they had agreed with mean you must. DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian May 26, 1916 James Ralph, secretary-manager of the Hermiston Light & Power Co., was shot and instantly killed last night about 10 o’clock by Joe Roth, president of the company, who immediately afterwards committed suicide. The double tragedy has shocked the Hermiston community. Business jealousy is ascribed as the cause of the terrible deed. That it was premeditated is indicated by the fact that within the past two weeks Roth had signed over all of his property to his wife. Ralph was shot just at the door of his garage. He had been out driving in his new car and Roth had concealed himself in the garage to await his return. The two men came here about four years ago to take charge of the light plant from Dayton, Wash., where they had lived for years and where they had been associated with each other almost from childhood. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian May 26, 1966 The Oregon State Game Commission has surveyed two dam sites for construction in south Morrow County. Orville Cutsforth, chairman of the Morrow County Park Commission, said the surveys were made last week and that speciications of necessary dams would be returned next week. The two locations thought best for the recreation dams were two miles below the headwaters of Ditch Creek and at Parker’s Mill on Rock Creek. Both are “natural” locations for dam construc- tion and would inundate approximately 30 to 40 acres, Cutsforth said. The lakes created would be for recreational use and would be similar to Bull Prairie Lake. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian May 26, 1991 A large retail distributor is reportedly looking at Hermiston as a new site for a busi- ness, but the potential store is still a mystery to city oficials. A Tigard development irm, Zimel and Associates, has been working for nearly two years to site a retailer on a plot of land near McDonald’s at Highway 395 and Cornell Place. A potential retailer has been found for the site. Mark Zimel of Zimel and Associates told city planners last year the site was considered for a shopping center, but he has said recently there will be only one store at the site. There is speculation among area busi- ness leaders that the tenant will be Wal-Mart, Bi-Mart, or K-Mart. THIS DAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 147th day of 2016. There are 219 days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On May 26, 1521, Martin Luther was banned by the Edict of Worms because of his religious beliefs and writings. On this date: In 1868, the impeachment trial of President Andrew Johnson ended with his acquittal on the remaining charges. In 1913, Actors’ Equity Association was organized by a group of actors at the Pabst Grand Circle Hotel in New York. In 1938, the House Un-American Activities Committee was established by Congress. In 1940, Operation Dynamo, the evacuation of some 338,000 Allied troops from Dunkirk, France, began during World War II. In 1941, the American Flag House, where Betsy Ross once lived, was donated to the city of Philadelphia. In 1954, explosions rocked the aircraft carrier USS Bennington off Rhode Island, killing 103 sailors. (The initial blast was blamed on leaking catapult luid ignited by the lames of a jet.) In 1960, U.N. Ambassador Henry Cabot Lodge accused the Soviets during a meeting of the Security Council of hiding a microphone inside a wood carving of the Great Seal of the United States that had been presented to the U.S. Embassy in Moscow. In 1969, the Apollo 10 astronauts returned to Earth after a successful eight-day dress rehearsal for the irst manned moon landing. In 1971, Don McLean recorded his song “Amer- ican Pie” at The Record Plant in New York City (it was released the following November by United Artists Records). Today’s Birthdays: Actor Alec McCowen is 91. Sports- caster Brent Musberger is 77. Rock musician Garry Peterson (Guess Who) is 71. Singer Stevie Nicks is 68. Actress Pam Grier is 67. Actor Philip Michael Thomas is 67. Country singer Hank Williams Jr. is 67. British Labour Party leader Jeremy Corbyn is 67. Actress Margaret Colin is 59. Country singer-song- writer Dave Robbins is 57. Actor Doug Hutchison is 56. Actress Genie Francis is 54. Comedian Bobcat Goldthwait is 54. Sing- er-actor Lenny Kravitz is 52. Actress Helena Bonham Carter is 50. Distance runner Zola Budd is 50. Rock musi- cian Phillip Rhodes is 48. Singer Joey Kibble (Take 6) is 45. Actor-producer-writer Matt Stone is 45. Thought for Today: “I am never afraid of what I know.” — Anna Sewell, English author (1820-1878). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE