Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Wednesday, May 25, 2016 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Mom who wanders at night could be ill or just nosy FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: My mom lives with getting into a relationship, so I’d brush off his advances. me and my hubby. Recently I found out that she walks around at night After six years, I realized he was because she hears noises or is restless a good man who would do anything — and puts her ear on our bedroom for me, so I decided to go on a date. door, too! The date led to marriage, but now, ive I was shocked. I think this is a years later, we are divorced because I complete invasion of my privacy, and realized we were better off as friends I was embarrassed to no end. I now rather than spouses. Jeanne avoid getting intimate with my hubby, Phillips He was OK with the divorce and and he has no idea why. moving out because he knew I would Advice I have to be sensitive about what be happier, and he wanted me to be I say to Mom because she underwent happy. Now that he’s gone, I am sad surgery recently and she has lot of medical that I have lost my friend. I miss the friendship issues. How should I handle this? — No Noise we once had, and I’m heartbroken. It feels like For Ms. Nosy I have suffered a death. Can you please help Dear No Noise: The irst thing you should me? I’m not sure what to do. — Lost Out do is tell your husband why you have been West avoiding intimacy. If you don’t, he may think Dear Lost: In a sense, you HAVE suffered it has something to do with him or the way a death — the death of your marriage. Give you feel about him, and that’s neither true nor yourself time to grieve. fair. If you thought that after divorcing your Your mother’s wandering around at night husband you could go back to being friends may be nosiness, or it could be insomnia or as though the marriage never happened, you other medical issues. Her inability to sleep were unrealistic. From his perspective, he has should be mentioned to her doctor so the cause been rejected on a very basic level. In order can be determined. If you’re correct that it’s to get past it, he may need time and distance nosiness, then it should be handled irmly — from you. That’s understandable. by you and your husband — and some other In the meantime, stay busy with friends living arrangement for her should be made. and projects because that will give you less Dear Abby: I have read your column since time to brood. If you’re not exercising, start I was a little girl. Now, at 35, I need your now. Regular exercise can help to lessen advice. depression. However, if your sadness persists, For years, a friend of mine was in love with discuss it with a licensed psychotherapist so it me. I didn’t want to ruin the friendship by doesn’t become chronic. DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian May 25, 1916 The delinquency of ifteen year old Frances Hodges, formerly of this city, was charged to her mother yesterday in a Portland court by a jury. After deliberating but 30 minutes a jury in Judge Morrow’s court late yesterday found Mrs. Will Hodges guilty of contributing to the delinquency of her 15-year-old daughter, Frances, in that she permitted her to frequent public dances and all-night restaurants, associ- ating with men of doubtful character. The case is said to be the irst ever tried in Oregon in which an attempt was made to ix the respon- sibility of a parent for a child’s downfall. The decision is, in the opinion of attorneys, an important one in that it will affect the status of all parents with regard to their responsibility before the law for their children’s actions. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian May 25, 1966 A ground party late Monday brought out the bodies of four Eastern Oregon College students who perished in the crash of a light plane on a mountain ridge in the rugged Pearson Creek area about 26 miles south of Pendleton. The crash occurred sometime around noon Sunday as the four, Michael Ervin, 18, of Pilot Rock, Jerry Kreizenbeck 20, of Enterprise, the pilot, Aaron Hove, 19, of The Dalles and Don Johnson, 28, Madras, were returning from Corvallis to La Grande. They were about 15 minutes from their destination when the crash occurred. The wreckage was almost impos- sible to spot from the air as the plane hardly touched a tree. The wreckage might never have been spotted, as searchers were combing a wide area from La Grande to The Dalles, if it had not been for Harold (Bud) Nielsen of Pendleton, a pilot himself, who was picnicking in the general vicinity of the crash Sunday and thought he heard an airplane in trouble. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian May 25, 1991 A lottery —the irst required since 1982 — is scheduled at 9 a.m. June 10 to decide which students will be able to enter the two-year nursing program offered at Blue Mountain Community College. As many as 55 students may be eligible for 27 spots in the associate degree program, said Pat Loughary, dean of college and student services. The lottery is necessary, Loughary said, because more students are expected to qualify for the program than the school is allowed to accept. The circumstances and lottery were explained to students in a meeting Tuesday night. BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE THIS DAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 146th day of 2016. There are 220 days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On May 25, 1916, the Chicago Tribune published an interview with Henry Ford in which the automobile industrialist was quoted as saying, “History is more or less bunk. It’s tradition. We don’t want tradition. We want to live in the present and the only history that is worth a tinker’s dam is the history we make today.” On this date: In 1787, the Constitu- tional Convention began at the Pennsylvania State House (Independence Hall) in Philadelphia after enough delegates had shown up for a quorum. In 1810, Argentina began its revolt against Spanish rule with the forming of the Primera Junta in Buenos Aires. In 1935, Babe Ruth hit his last three career home runs — nos. 712, 713 and 714 — for the Boston Braves in a game against the Pittsburgh Pirates. (The Pirates won, 11-7.) In 1946, Transjordan (now Jordan) became a kingdom as it proclaimed its new monarch, Abdullah I. In 1959, the U.S. Supreme Court, in State Athletic Commission v. Dorsey, struck down a Louisiana law prohibiting interracial boxing matches. (The case had been brought by Joseph Dorsey Jr., a black professional boxer.) In 1961, President John F. Kennedy told Congress: “I believe that this nation should commit itself to achieving the goal, before this decade is out, of landing a man on the moon and returning him safely to the earth.” In 1968, the Gateway Arch in St. Louis was dedicated by Vice President Hubert Humphrey and Inte- rior Secretary Stewart Udall. In 1977, the irst “Star Wars” ilm (retroactively designated “Episode IV: A New Hope”) was released by Twentieth Century Fox Film Corp. Today’s Birthdays: Actress Ann Robinson is 87. Former White House news secretary Ron Nessen is 82. Author W.P. Kinsella is 81. Country singer-songwriter Tom T. Hall is 80. Actor Sir Ian McKellen is 77. Country singer Jessi Colter is 73. Actress-singer Leslie Uggams is 73. Movie director and Muppeteer Frank Oz is 72. Actress Karen Valentine is 69. Actress Jacki Weaver is 69. Rock singer Klaus Meine (The Scorpions) is 68. Actress Patti D’Arbanville is 65. Playwright Eve Ensler is 63. Actress Connie Sellecca is 61. Rock singer-musician Paul Weller is 58. Sen. Amy Klobuchar, D-Minn., is 56. Actor-comedian Mike Myers is 53. Actor Matt Borlenghi is 49. Actor Joseph Reitman is 48. Actor-comedian Jamie Kennedy is 46. Actress Octavia Spencer is 46. Actor Cillian Murphy is 40. Thought for Today: “History is something that never happened, written by someone who wasn’t there.” — Author unknown. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE