Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Thursday, January 21, 2016 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Couple’s future grows murkier after man has seconG thoughts FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: My boyfriend, will hurt your feelings. “Jimmy,” and I have been together for For your own sake, have an honest two years. After about four months, conversation with him about this. It out of necessity we moved in together may be painful, but it will be better and it was great. than living in limbo the way you are. Not long afterward I got a job two As the saying goes, “When a door hours away. Since I moved, we get to closes, another one opens.” see each other only every two or three Dear Abby: Last Friday was weeks. The separation has been tough, Grandparents’ Day at my kids’ Jeanne but when we’re together, everything is Phillips preschool. My parents attended and perfect and all is right with the world. I were well-behaved for the most part, Advice feel we were fated to be together. but then my mother made a faux pas. Before the move, Jimmy and I She asked one of the directors when often talked about marriage, and although I her baby was due. Well, Abby, the woman am not crazy about it, I knew it meant a lot to isn’t pregnant. him, so I proposed (ring and all). He initially When I picked up my kids, I had no idea said yes, then sort of asked me to take back what had happened. The director was having my proposal. Since then, he has been avoiding a conversation with one of the teachers when all discussions about our future, and I don’t I walked in, so as usual I smiled and waved know what to do. as I walked by. I did sense something was off I’m willing to quit my job and go back when she didn’t respond, but I ¿gured she to be with him, but I’m scared he’s going to was preoccupied. When we met my parents get cold feet. Obviously, I’m hopelessly in for dinner, my mother told me what happened. I am morti¿ed. I managed to make it out of love with him, but now I’m feeling lost and the preschool this morning without crossing confused. — Hours Apart In The South Dear Hours Apart: Please allow me paths with the director, but I’ll be seeing this to offer some clarity. Do not quit your job woman for the next couple of years. What, because if you do, you may ¿nd yourself not if anything, do I say to her? — HorrL¿eG In only without a job but also without a place to Michigan Dear Horri¿eG: You did nothing wrong, stay. When someone (man or woman) asks so stop avoiding the woman and behave as that a proposal be rescinded, it usually you usually do. IF you notice that she treats means the person feels he or she may have you differently, all you should say is: “I heard jumped the gun by saying yes. Jimmy is what happened with my mother, and I’d like avoiding all discussion about your future to apologize for her behavior. As you can see, because he doesn’t want one, and he’s she sometimes puts her foot in her mouth, but afraid to say it directly because he knows it we love her anyway.” DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 21, 1916 Bert Johnson, who Monday stabbed Ray Hicks twice during an altercation, yesterday afternoon gave himself up to the of¿cers. Johnson declared to the of¿cers that he used the knife in self defense after he had been beaten up by Hicks’ ¿sts. He did not go into explanations regarding the cause of the dispute, probably through a desire to protect the lady over whom it is said to have arisen. He stated that he met Hicks on Main street during the noon hour and that, after a few words, the latter told him he intended to have it out with him. Accordingly he said they decided to go to some place where they would escape arrest. He said he did not know that he had stabbed Hicks until the latter told him of it, and that he drew his knife to keep Hicks away from him. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 21, 1966 Former Hermiston Police Chief William A. Silvey testi¿ed here Wednesday that he was ¿red Nov. 1, 16, because of defam- atory statements made by Mrs. Gerald C. McCoy, Hermiston. The testimony came as trial opened in Umatilla County Circuit Court of a ,000 suit Silvey ¿led against Mrs. McCoy. He has ¿led a similar suit against Marjorie Bartlett, publisher of the Hermiston Herald. Silvey charges that Mrs. McCoy said Silvey “had been living with another man’s wife for two weeks.” She denied using those words and claims in addition that she had the right to report what she considered poor conduct by the chief. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Jan. 21, 1991 Winter again has driven hundreds of Rocky Mountain elk off public lands and onto private property at lower elevations in the McKay Creek drainage. For the elk, the migration means the difference between foraging for food in deep and crusted snow or on a more plentiful food source elsewhere. But the presence of the herd on private lands is at the core of a debate that has slowly grown in complexity and urgency over the past decade. Ranchers, fee-hunting operators, wheat growers, the Indian community and wildlife biologists all are local players in the debate. Each group has its own explicit opinion concerning the presence of elk, while the elk itself is an innocent bystander. BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE THIS DAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 21st day of 2016. There are days left in the year. ToGay’s Highlight in History: On Jan. 21, 1976, British Airways and Air France inau- gurated scheduled passenger service on the supersonic Concorde jet. On this Gate: In 1793, during the French Revolution, King Louis XVI, condemned for treason, was executed on the guillotine. In 1861, Jefferson Davis of Mississippi and four other Southerners whose states had seceded from the Union resigned from the U.S. Senate. In 1908, New York City’s Board of Aldermen passed an ordinance prohibiting women from smoking in public establishments (the measure was vetoed by Mayor George B. McClellan Jr., but not before one woman, Katie Mulcahey, was jailed overnight for refusing to pay a ¿ne). In 1915, the ¿rst Kiwanis Club, dedicated to commu- nity service, was founded in Detroit. In 1924, Russian revolu- tionary Vladimir Lenin died at age 53. In 1954, the ¿rst atomic submarine, the USS Nautilus, was launched at Groton, Connecticut (however, the Nautilus did not make its ¿rst nuclear-powered run until nearly a year later). In 1977, President Jimmy Carter pardoned almost all Vietnam War draft evaders. In 1994, a jury in Manassas, Virginia, found Lorena Bobbitt not guilty by reason of temporary insanity of maliciously wounding her husband John, whom she’d accused of sexually assaulting her. In 2010, a bitterly divided U.S. Supreme Court, in Citizens United v. Federal Election Commission, vastly increased the power of big business and labor unions to inÀuence government decisions by freeing them to spend their millions directly to sway elections for presi- dent and Congress. ToGay’s BirthGays: Actress Ann Wedgeworth is 2. World Golf Hall of Famer Jack Nicklaus is 76. Opera singer-conductor Placido Domingo is 75. Singer Mac Davis is 7. Actress Jill Eiken- berry is 6. Country musician Jim Ibbotson is 6. Sing- er-songwriter Billy Ocean is 66. Former U.S. Ambassador to China Gary Locke is 66. Former U.S. Attorney General Eric Holder is 65. Microsoft co-founder Paul Allen is 63. Actor-director Robby Benson is 60. Actress Geena Davis is 60. Basketball Hall of Famer Hakeem Olajuwon is 53. Rapper Levirt (B-Rock and the Bizz) is 6. Rock musician Mark Trojanowski (Sister Hazel) is 6. Rock singer-songwriter Cat Power is . Rock DJ Chris Kilmore (Incubus) is 3. Singer Emma Bunton (Spice Girls) is 0. Thought for ToGay: “I honestly think it is better to be a failure at something you love than to be a success at something you hate.” — George Burns, American comedian (1896-1996). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE