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East Oregonian
PEANUTS
COFFEE BREAK
Wednesday, January 6, 2016
DEAR ABBY
BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ
Woman still angry at family
for ignoring childhood trauma
FOR BETTER OR WORSE
BY LYNN JOHNSTON
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BY JOHNNY HART
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BY BRIAN CRANE
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100 Years Ago
From the East Oregonian
Jan. 6, 1916
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istrations of Mayors Fee and Murphy was last
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city attorney under Murphy, for the reason that
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50 Years Ago
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Jan. 6, 1966
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missionary to the Indians at Tutuilla, lives on the
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THIS DAY IN HISTORY
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Jan. 6, 1991
The Umatilla County Commissioners on
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Juniper Canyon area near Hermiston, pending
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contended the roads have already been essen-
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maintained three of the four roads for more
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address, outlined a goal of
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freedom from want; freedom
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editor (1868-1944)
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