Thursday, November 19, 2015 PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK East Oregonian Page 7A DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Feelings hurt in high school linger long after graduation FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE Dear Abby: I loved the letter from but have no desire to relive those days. “Ready for the Reunion” (July 31), People need to realize that sometimes who wondered why some people in we move on and don’t need to revisit her high school graduating class didn’t the past. — Carol In Georgia respond to the notice of the reunion. Dear Abby: My high school expe- Some of us would like to completely rience was traumatic to the point that forget high school and everything it put me in therapy. People who look associated with it. forward to these things look back on I missed my 10th, 20th, 30th and their high school days with fondness. Jeanne 40th year reunions. I did consider going Phillips I’m guessing that’s because they to the last one, but then I started reading weren’t picked on for being fat, not Advice my former classmates’ posts on the coming from a rich family or being a reunion website. It seems everyone is minority. retired, wealthy, has numerous grandchildren, I would rather walk barefoot across broken at least one retirement home in an exotic locale glass than spend another minute with my high and spends their time relaxing and jetting school class. I ignore the invitations because around (or so they say). I’m still working, not my mother taught me if I can’t say anything wealthy, not particularly successful and have nice, I should say nothing at all. — Ray In moved from my home state to the backwoods Scottsdale, Ariz. of middle America. Basically, I have a boring Dear Abby: Successful turnouts often life, so I have nothing to brag about. I didn’t go. occur as a result of personal outreach from the I’m still in contact with the important people committee. A personalized note, phone call or in my life from high school and just don’t need other kind of targeted communication (“Dear the aggravation of attending a reunion. — Susie, we’d love to see you again. Please Staying Home come.”) will make a difference to an alum. — Dear Staying: Thank you for your input. Former Reunion Planner In Washington I received a large number of responses to Dear Abby: Of the 280 missing students, that letter, many of which were emotionally for a quarter of them to be deceased would charged: be par for the course. “Ready” should create Dear Abby: My class just had its 45th a Facebook Groups page for her high school reunion. I live 20 miles away, but have never graduating class. Ours is very popular — 35 attended one and I never will. percent of our former classmates are already My best friend and I were bullied, insulted part of it. — Peter In Naples, Fla. and excluded by our high school peers. After Dear Abby: It is possible that many of 45 years, we are still close friends. Neither of the graduates never received the invitation. us has any desire to see any of those people Email contact information, phone numbers ever again. and addresses change often. I didn’t receive High school was a miserable experience for anything about my 10-year reunion, but a few us, and we couldn’t wait to graduate and go off of my friends said they did. I can’t respond to college. Why would we want to socialize to an invitation I didn’t receive. — Rod In with them now? We forgave them long ago, Omaha DAYS GONE BY 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Nov. 19, 1915 Having scored a big hit at the anti-saloon league convention in Portland, Parsons Motanic, prominent local Indian, and Rev. J.M. Cornelison, missionary at Tutuilla, arrived home this mooring from Portland. They sang songs in Indian before the conven- tion and were an attraction more popular than the famous Hammer quartet. Motanic also made several temperance talks before the convention in his native language, Rev. Cornelison interpreting, and was roundly cheered. Motanic, when he made his speech took the platform clad in a blanket and war bonnet. “I wear these clothes,” he said, “to show you I am on the warpath. I come to scalp the Portland saloons.” He then told of his life, of his transformation from a riotous-living young Indian to a quiet Indian farmer, temper- ance and church worker. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Nov. 19, 1965 A ceremony next week in Memorial Hospital, Santa Rosa, Calif., will dedicate a nursery in the children’s wing to a woman doctor who was born and raised in Pendleton. She is Dr. Pearl V. Konttas, pediatrician, who recently retired from private practice in Santa Rosa after 39 years there. Dr. Konttas said her mother was responsible for her early interest in medicine. “My father, Jacob Konttas, studied medicine in Finland, where both our parents were born. He was asked to become associated with a doctor in Canada, ZKHUH WKH\ ¿UVW OLYHG DIWHU OHDYLQJ )LQODQG But he felt he didn’t have enough training, so he moved to Oregon and took up farming.” Her father died when the doctor was very small. There were no sons in the family, so the mother encouraged her youngest daughter to become a doctor. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Nov. 19, 1990 Donna Caldwell says she began to get suspicious when her husband, parents and boss showed up at the annual awards dinner at the recent convention of the Oregon Associa- tion for Alternatives in Education in Newport. But she was still surprised when she was named Alternative Education Administrator of the Year. Now in her fourth year as director of the Alternative Education Program in Umatilla County, Caldwell supervises alterna- tive schools in Pendleton and Hermiston. She supervises two classroom teachers and 3½ aides. The two schools serve about 80 students at any given time. About 150 junior and senior high age students attend the two schools over the course of a school year. “It’s nice to be recognized by your peers,” Caldwell said. THIS DAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 323rd day of 2015. There are 42 days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On Nov. 19, 1915, labor activist Joe Hill was executed E\ ¿ULQJ VTXDG LQ 8WDK IRU the murders of Salt Lake City grocer John Morrison and his son, Arling. On this date: In 1794, the United States and Britain signed Jay’s Treaty, which resolved some issues left over from the Revolutionary War. In 1831, the 20th pres- ident of the United States, -DPHV*DU¿HOGZDVERUQLQ Orange Township, Ohio. In 1863, President Abraham Lincoln dedicated a national cemetery at the site RIWKH&LYLO:DUEDWWOH¿HOGRI Gettysburg in Pennsylvania. In 1919, the Senate rejected the Treaty of Versailles by a vote of 55 in favor, 39 against, short of the two-thirds majority needed IRUUDWL¿FDWLRQ In 1924, movie producer Thomas H. Ince died after celebrating his 42nd birthday aboard the yacht of newspaper publisher William Randolph Hearst. (The exact circumstances of Ince’s death remain a mystery.) In 1969, Apollo 12 astronauts Charles Conrad and Alan Bean made the second manned landing on the moon. In 1990, the pop duo Milli Vanilli were stripped of their Grammy Award because other singers had lent their voices to the “Girl You Know It’s True” album. Today’s Birthdays: Actor Alan Young is 96. Talk show host Larry King is 82. Former General Electric chief executive Jack Welch is 80. Talk show host Dick Cavett is 79. Broadcasting and sports mogul Ted Turner is 77. Singer Pete Moore (Smokey Robinson and the Miracles) is 76. Former Sen. Tom Harkin, D-Iowa, is 76. Actor Dan Haggerty is 74. Fashion designer Calvin Klein is 73. Sports- caster Ahmad Rashad is 66. Actor Robert Beltran is 62. Actress Kathleen Quinlan is 61. Broadcast journalist Ann Curry is 59. Rock musician Matt Sorum (Guns N’ Roses, Velvet Revolver) is 55. Actress Meg Ryan is 54. Actress-director Jodie Foster is 53. PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE