Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Friday, November 13, 2015 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Obsessive mom can’t bear her toddler sleeping out of sight FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: When my husband who would certainly alert you should and I bought our house, having chil- anyone attempt to enter your home dren wasn’t yet on our minds. The after you and your husband are asleep. master bedroom is at one end of the Dear Abby: I have a daughter who house; the other two bedrooms are at is now 40 years old. Until she was 17, the opposite end. I didn’t know she existed. She lives Two years into our marriage we in another state, but we talk often. I got a surprise blessing — a baby girl. consider us close. She’s now 3 and still sleeping in our Abby, I have been diagnosed with Jeanne room in her own toddler bed. She has Phillips cancer and may not have much time great sleeping habits, and I don’t think left. I’m only 56. I was 16 when I was Advice it would affect her to sleep in another involved with her mother, homeless at room. the time and very naive. My problem I am the problem. I can’t bear to have is, although I have wracked my brain over the her at the other end of the house. All I can years I cannot remember actually having sex think about are horror stories of babies and with her mother. small children being snatched from their beds Nevertheless, I love this person very much (from the window) while the parents sleep. and it would break my heart (and hers) if she What if something happens and I don’t wake wasn’t mine. Should I tell her in case she up? This may seem ridiculous to some, but might want to track down who her father is, it’s a real fear for me. Can you offer some if it’s not me? I don’t know how I’d approach advice? — Paranoid Mommy In South her for a DNA test. — Urgent Dad In The Carolina Usa Dear Mommy: Baby monitors (and Dear Urgent: I’m so sorry to hear your cameras) were invented to allay the fears of prognosis. A gentle way to discuss this would parents who sleep apart from their little ones. be to explain that you have been diagnosed If that isn’t reassurance enough, consider with cancer and may not have long to live. changing all the sleeping arrangements until Tell her you love her, that in your heart she your daughter is a bit older. Put her in one of will always be your daughter, but that you are the bedrooms at the other end of the house, not 100 percent sure it is biologically true. and you and your husband take the one next Explain that you are saying it not to hurt or to hers. Have the baby monitor next to your reject her, but only so that if she is not your bed so you can hear her if she stirs during the child she may be able to locate the person night. who is, and she won’t be fatherless when you You might also consider getting a dog, are gone. DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Nov. 13, 1915 Temporary provision for the newly orga- nized boys’ club was made this morning by the board of managers of the Commercial association when it was decided to permit the boys to use the billiard room of the Commer- cial association until the present library room in the city hall is vacated. At the same time it was decided to sub-rent the Commercial gymnasium to the Pendleton Athletic Club. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Nov. 13, 1965 Nita Kay Bigsby, 16, sustained slight injuries when her car went out of control Saturday morning on N.W. 6th Street, jumped a curb, and came to rest against the rear of a house. Brakes on the car apparently IDLOHG VDLG &LW\ 3ROLFH 2I¿FHU *HRUJH Hammons, on the fairly steep hill on N.W. 6th. The car was severely damaged, with the gas tank ripped off, and the left side of the vehicle crushed. Damage to the house of -DPHV(OOLVRQ1:WKZDVFRQ¿QHGWR a small area of board siding near the rear door of the dwelling. Pendleton Fire Department dispatched a truck to the accident scene to wash down the street and yard of the Ellison residence, where gasoline from the broken tank had spilled. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Nov. 13, 1990 Irvin and Alma Tucker of Athena made 86 quilts during the past year as part of the holiday tradition. “You don’t have to go Christmas shopping that way,” he said. “Lots of good friends and relatives keep us busy,” she observed. Irvin Tucker, 82, also said cutting the pieces keeps arthritis out of his hands. His wife, 78, likes to keep busy by joining squares and rectangles together DWWKHVHZLQJPDFKLQH)RUDERXW¿YH\HDUV the couple has made two kinds of quilts. One XVHVGLVFDUGHGGHQLPEDFNHGE\ÀDQQHODQG the other features polyester blend pieces and a cotton percale sheet. Irvin Tucker’s daughter, Beverly Mathwich of Athena, said it takes 80 quilts to supply each family member. Some are mailed as far as Mississippi. “We’ve got a lot of in-laws,” Irving Tucker said. “And out-laws,” his wife added, laughing. THIS DAY IN HISTORY BLONDIE DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 317th day of 2015. There are 48 days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On Nov. 13, 1985, some 23,000 residents of Armero, Colombia, died when a volcanic mudslide buried the city. On this date: In 1789, Benjamin Franklin wrote in a letter to a friend, Jean-Baptiste Leroy: “In this world nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes.” In 1849, voters in Cali- IRUQLD UDWL¿HG WKH VWDWH¶V original constitution. In 1909, 259 men and ER\V ZHUH NLOOHG ZKHQ ¿UH erupted inside a coal mine in Cherry, Illinois. In 1927, the Holland Tunnel opened to the public, providing access between lower Manhattan and New Jersey beneath the Hudson River. In 1937, the NBC Symphony Orchestra, formed exclusively for radio broadcasting, made its debut. In 1940, the Walt Disney ¿OP ³)DQWDVLD´ IHDWXULQJ animated segments set to classical music, had its world premiere in New York. In 1942, President Franklin D. Roosevelt signed a measure lowering the minimum draft age from 21 to 18. In 1956, the U.S. Supreme Court struck down laws calling for racial segre- gation on public city and state buses. In 1969, speaking in Des Moines, Iowa, Vice President Spiro T. Agnew accused network television news departments of bias and distortion, and urged viewers to lodge complaints. In 1974, Karen Silkwood, a 28-year-old technician and union activist at the Kerr- 0F*HH&LPDUURQSOXWRQLXP plant near Crescent, Okla- homa, died in a car crash while on her way to meet a reporter. In 1982, the Vietnam Veterans Memorial, designed by Maya Lin, was dedicated on the National Mall in Washington, D.C. In 1995, seven people, LQFOXGLQJ ¿YH $PHULFDQV were killed when a bomb exploded at a military training facility in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia. Today’s Birthdays: Actress Madeleine Sherwood is 93. Journalist-author Peter Arnett is 81. Producer-di- UHFWRU *DUU\ 0DUVKDOO LV Actor Jimmy Hawkins is 74. Country singer-songwriter Ray Wylie Hubbard is 69. Actor Joe Mantegna is 68. Actress Sheila Frazier is 67. Actress Frances Conroy is 62. Musician Andrew Ranken (The Pogues) is 62. Actress Tracy Scoggins is 62. Actor Chris Noth is 61. Actress-co- PHGLDQ :KRRSL *ROGEHUJ is 60. Actor Rex Linn is 59. $FWUHVV &DUROLQH *RRGDOO LV 56. Actor Neil Flynn is 55. Former NFL quarterback and College Football Hall of Famer Vinny Testaverde is 52. Rock musician Walter Kibby (Fishbone) is 51. Comedian Jimmy Kimmel is 48. Actor Steve Zahn is $FWRU *HUDUG %XWOHU LV 46. Writer-activist Ayaan Hirsi Ali is 46. Actor Jordan Bridges is 42. NBA All-Star Metta World Peace (formerly Ron Artest) is 36. Thought for Today: “I have always imagined that Paradise will be a kind of library.” — Jorge Luis Borges, Argentine author (1899-1986). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE