Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Wednesday, November 11, 2015 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Husband upset by wife who wears heart on her sleeve FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE attention from the kids because they’d Dear Abby: I’m a mostly happily rather be with their friends and not her married wife and mother. I love the whole time. tattoos. When I was younger, I was I have tried explaining that she engaged to my soul mate. His name is should come the weekend before tattooed on my wrists in honor of the or after, but she shows up on the love we shared. Unfortunately, he was birthday anyway. Her complaints ruin killed in a car accident. their birthdays, to the point that I no Several years later, I met and longer look forward to them. Any married my husband, “Brett.” When Jeanne we ¿ght he brings up the tattoos. He Phillips advice, since another birthday is right around the corner? (Maybe she’ll read says they’re “disrespectful” of him Advice this and have a change of heart.) — and I should get rid of them. It upsets Miserable Mom In California me because I got the tattoos before Dear Miserable Mom: Your moth- I ever met Brett, so how can they be disre- spectful? Am I being unreasonable, or should er-in-law sounds like a handful. However, I my husband back off? — Illustrated Woman do believe that grandparents should be invited to milestones like graduations, where family In Colorado Dear Illustrated Woman: The tattoos is important. It’s hard to imagine Grandma would simply are in no way disrespectful to your husband. They are the same body art you had when he show up at the kids’ party after being asked to married you, and if he didn’t complain back stay away, but you can’t slam the door in her then, he shouldn’t now. When you’re ¿ghting face. When she barges in, for your own sake and Brett tells you to get rid of them, he’s tune her complaining out. Walk away if you doing it to hurt you because he knows they must. As to altering the sleeping arrangements are meaningful and he’s trying to get under to suit an uninvited guest — don’t do it. Where is your husband in all of this? She’s your skin. Insist on dealing with the subject at his mother; if you can’t make her see reason, hand and don’t take the bait. Dear Abby: I’d like to know if there’s any then he should. It’s normal for teens to want way to stop my mother-in-law from inviting to celebrate with their contemporaries — and herself to every birthday party and graduation Grandma had better get used to it before our children have. They are pre-teen and they turn tail and run whenever they see her teenagers now. She has done this for years, coming. Dear Veterans: I salute each and every and it often doesn’t end well. Because they are older, they prefer to hang out with their one of you for your service to this country. My heartfelt thanks as well to the brave and friends, do sleepovers, etc. Because she insists on staying the night, dedicated men and women who are still on it’s hard to have room for sleepovers. She active duty. You are the personi¿cation of complains if she has to sleep on the couch, and patriotism and self-sacri¿ce for your dedica- she also has a ¿t if she’s not getting enough tion to our country. — Love, Abby DAYS GONE BY BEETLE BAILEY GARFIELD BLONDIE BY MORT WALKER BY JIM DAVIS 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Nov. 11, 1915 Architect Troutman of Aberdeen is drawing plans for a three story hotel, 30 cottages, a natatorium and a dancing pavilion, to be built by W.H. McCormmach at Lehman Hot Springs, 50 miles from Pendleton, at a cost of $75,000. Interviewed here today W.H. McCormmach, owner of Lehman Springs con¿rmed the Aberdeen report as to the improvements proposed for Lehman. He says lumber for the purpose will be manufactured on the land near the springs and that work will start as soon as possible in the spring, provided that in the meantime he does not sell the resort. According to Mr. McCormmach the ¿rst step will be to build a new swimming pool, so as to have it ready for the summer’s use. The erection of the hotel and cottages will have to await upon the seasoning of the lumber. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Nov. 11, 1965 Bill Garrison was hunting elk along Looking Glass River in the Tollgate area of the Blue Mountains when a 300-pound brown bear dropped into the road ahead of him. The bear reared up on his hind legs, Garrison had no way to get around, and he shot it. He propped his gun against a tree while burying the carcass. And as he gathered brush for a ¿nal covering, a bull elk and three cows trotted past. Garrison said his gun was 30 feet away so he did the only thing he could: He sat down and cried. But he took home the bearskin to make a rug. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Nov. 11, 1990 Irrigon resident George Shearer was honored Thursday for having driven commer- cial truck 3 million miles without an accident. Shearer, a retired Consolidated Freightways truck driver, had his name imprinted on a company truck Thursday in Flagstaff, Ariz. He drove for 34 years without an accident, reaching the three million mile safe-driving mark in 1987. He also will receive $1,000 in Consolidated Freightways, Inc., stock. Shearer worked for CF Motor Freight for 39 years and retired in 1988. BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE THIS DAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 315th day of 2015. There are 50 days left in the year. This is Veterans Day in the U.S., Remem- brance Day in Canada. Today’s Highlight in History: On Nov. 11, 1918, ¿ghting in World War I came to an end with the signing of an armistice between the Allies and Germany. On this date: In 1620, 41 Pilgrims aboard the MayÀower, anchored off Massachusetts, signed a compact calling for a “body politick.” In 1778, British redcoats, Tory rangers and Seneca Indians in central New York killed more than 40 people in the Cherry Valley Massacre. In 1831, former slave Nat Turner, who’d led a violent insurrection, was executed in Jerusalem, Virginia. In 1889, Washington became the 42nd state. In 1921, the remains of an unidenti¿ed American service member were interred in a Tomb of the Unknown Soldier at Arlington National Cemetery in a ceremony presided over by President Warren G. Harding. In 1938, Irish-born cook Mary Mallon, who’d gained notoriety as the disease-carrying “Typhoid Mary” blamed for the deaths of three people, died on North Brother Island in New York’s East River at age 69 after 23 years of mandatory quarantine. In 1942, during World War II, Germany completed its occupation of France. In 1965, Rhodesia proclaimed its independence from Britain. In 1966, Gemini 12 blasted off from Cape Kennedy with astronauts James A. Lovell and Edwin “Buzz” Aldrin Jr. aboard. In 1972, the U.S. Army turned over its base at Long Binh to the South Vietnamese, symbolizing the end of direct U.S. military involvement in the Vietnam War. In 1984, Rev. Martin Luther King Sr. — father of slain civil rights leader Martin Luther King Jr. — died in Atlanta at age 84. Today’s Birthdays: Jazz singer-musician Mose Allison is 88. Actress Bibi Andersson is 80. Country singer Narvel Felts is 77. Sen. Barbara Boxer, D-Calif., is 75. Americana roots singer/song- writer Chris Smither is 71. Rock singer-musician Vince Martell (Vanilla Fudge) is 70. The president of Nicaragua, Daniel Ortega, is 70. Rock singer Jim Peterik (Ides of March, Survivor) is 65. Golfer Fuzzy Zoeller is 64. Pop sing- er-musician Paul Cowsill (The Cowsills) is 64. Rock sing- er-musician Andy Partridge (XTC) is 62. Singer Marshall Crenshaw is 62. Rock musi- cian Ian Craig Marsh (Human League; Heaven 17) is 59. Actor Stanley Tucci is 55. Actress Demi Moore is 53. Actress Calista Flockhart is 51. Actor Leonardo DiCaprio is 41. NFL quarterback Mark Sanchez is 29. Thought for Today: “I hate war as only a soldier who has lived it can, only as one who has seen its brutality, its futility, its stupidity.” — President Dwight D. Eisen- hower (1890-1969). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE