Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Wednesday, October 28, 2015 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Boyfriend takes distrust to frightening extremes FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE BEETLE BAILEY BY MORT WALKER GARFIELD BLONDIE BY JIM DAVIS BY DEAN YOUNG AND STAN DRAKE Dear Abby: I’m madly in love with Hasn’t it occurred to you that this may a man I’ve been dating for almost a be the reason two wives left him? year, but I don’t think he’s in love with Dear Abby: I am older than my me. He claims he’s been hurt twice wife by 10 years. We have been from two failed marriages. married six years, and we have six He keeps giving me mixed signals. children between us. We tried for He questions me about my male another, but my wife miscarried. friends constantly. He shows up at my I decided to have a vasectomy apartment without calling in hopes that because my wife was determined to Jeanne he will catch me with another man. Phillips have a baby without regard for my During his last drive-by, he saw me wishes or the extreme stress happening Advice in my car at midnight listening to music in our lives at the time. Begrudgingly, ZKLOHVXU¿QJWKH:HERQP\SKRQH2I I am going to have it reversed, even course, he thought I was on the way out to a though the cost of the procedure is more than boyfriend’s house because I had my gym bag we can afford right now. I believe we have and a grocery bag in the front seat with me. He other, more important issues to put the money ordered me to open my bags so he could see toward. if I had any overnight clothes inside. After he This is a hot topic, and it always leads to saw there were no clothes, he calmed down. ¿JKWV,GRQ¶WNQRZLIRXUUHODWLRQVKLSZLOOODVW I don’t know if I should keep this relation- much longer if it isn’t resolved. Advice, Abby? ship going or if I should abandon ship. Could — Anguished In Austin you please let me know how I should handle Dear Anguished: Put that vasectomy my situation? — Mixed Signals In Virginia reversal on hold. What you and your wife Dear Mixed Signals: You may be madly in need far more is to resolve the problems in love with this man, but unless you have agreed what is clearly a very troubled marriage. Do that your relationship with him is exclusive, not consider surgery until these matters have he should not be grilling you about your been put to rest because whatever is going on, friendships with your male friends. That he another baby is NOT the answer. comes over with no notice hoping to catch you Dear Abby: One person handles the money cheating is more than a little sick, and what for our family reunion every year. Only that he pulled during his midnight prowl is off the one person knows how much comes in and charts. how much is spent. We all would like copies It is important that you understand the only of the treasurer’s report, but he refuses. Is this way he will ever overcome his insecurities right for a treasurer of any organization? — and inability to trust will be with professional Puzzled Penny In North Carolina help. He is so messed up that you could enter a Dear Penny: No, it isn’t. If you think this convent and he would mount a security camera relative may be behaving dishonestly, the at the back door to make sure you weren’t rest of the family should agree that another going out on him. individual will receive the monies for the next Not only should you abandon ship, you reunion and provide an accounting when the should run like heck once you reach dry land. family is all together again. DAYS GONE BY 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Oct. 28, 1915 Instead of closing down when the prohi- bition law goes into effect on January 1, the City Brewery in Pendleton will continue operations as a bottling plant for soft drinks and oyster cocktails. Manager William Roesch was in Portland and Seattle a week ago and purchased $5,000 worth of the latest equipment and expects to have it installed within six weeks. Mr. Roesch plans to operate the works on a wholesale basis and will put salesmen out to work all of the eastern Oregon territory. He will bottle loganberry juice, the new popular soft drink, and other true fruit drinks. Besides he will bottle oyster cocktails in crown cork bottles and intends putting out a superior article. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Oct. 28, 1965 Blue Mountain Community College on ³D VLJQL¿FDQW GD\ LQ HGXFDWLRQ LQ 2UHJRQ´ Tuesday received its charter. Gov. Mark +DW¿HOG SUHVHQWHG WKH GRFXPHQW WR 2UHQ Allison, Pendleton, chairman of the BMCC district board of directors. Backdropped by 2FWREHU VXQVKLQH RQ JROGHQ ZKHDW ¿HOGV the dedication ceremony attracted hundreds of area residents and guests from all over the state. Oregon and the nation are caught XS ³LQ D JUHDW UHYROXWLRQ RI FKDQJH´ *RY +DW¿HOG VDLG ZLWK WKH UHYROXWLRQ H[WHQGLQJ LQWRHGXFDWLRQDVZHOODVRWKHU¿HOGV 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Oct. 28, 1990 A 31-year-old Hermiston insurance agent was sentenced Friday to 30 days in the FRXQW\MDLODQGSODFHGRQ¿YH\HDUVSUREDWLRQ for bilking 17 elderly people out of more than $42,000. Steven Brockett, who worked out of his home as an independent agent representing several insurance companies, SOHDGHG JXLOW\ WR VL[ FRXQWV RI ¿UVWGHJUHH theft in September. Lynn Hampton, assistant district attorney who handled the case, said Brockett’s scam involved fraudulent sale of Medicare supplement insurance. “It was a GLI¿FXOWSDSHUWUDLORISURRI´+DPSWRQVDLG Brockett swindled his victims using three PDLQ PHWKRGV ² LQÀDWLQJ SUHPLXP FRVWV and keeping the difference; falsely claiming premiums were due and cashing the checks; RUWDNLQJGLUHFWEHQH¿WFKHFNV+DPSWRQVDLG THIS DAY IN HISTORY DILBERT THE WIZARD OF ID LUANN ZITS BY SCOTT ADAMS BY BRANT PARKER AND JOHNNY HART BY GREG EVANS BY JERRY SCOTT AND JIM BORGMAN Today is the 301st day of 2015. There are 64 days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On Oct. 28, 1965, Pope Paul VI issued a Declaration on the Relation of the Church with Non-Christian Religions which, among other things, absolved Jews of collective JXLOW IRU WKH FUXFL¿[LRQ RI Jesus Christ. On this date: In 1636, the General Court of Massachusetts passed a legislative act establishing Harvard College. In 1776, the Battle of White Plains was fought during the Revolutionary War, resulting in a limited British victory. In 1886, the Statue of Liberty, a gift from the people of France, was dedicated in New York Harbor by Presi- dent Grover Cleveland. In 1914, Yugoslav nation- alist Gavrilo Princip, whose assassination of Archduke Franz Ferdinand of Austria and Sophie, Duchess of Hohenberg, sparked World War I, was sentenced in Sarajevo to 20 years’ impris- onment. (He died in 1918.) In 1936, President Franklin D. Roosevelt rededi- cated the Statue of Liberty on its 50th anniversary. In 1940, Italy invaded Greece during World War II. In 1962, Soviet leader Nikita Khrushchev informed the United States that he had ordered the dismantling of missile bases in Cuba; in return, the U.S. secretly agreed to remove nuclear missiles from U.S. installa- tions in Turkey. In 1991, what became NQRZQDV³7KH3HUIHFW6WRUP´ began forming hundreds of miles east of Nova Scotia; lost at sea during the storm were the six crew members of the Andrea Gail, a sword- ¿VKLQJERDWIURP*ORXFHVWHU Massachusetts. Today’s Birthdays: Jazz singer Cleo Laine is 88. Actress Joan Plowright is 86. Musician-songwriter Charlie Daniels is 79. Actress Jane Alexander is 76. Actor Dennis Franz is 2O\PSLF WUDFN DQG ¿HOG gold medalist Caitlyn Jenner is 66. Microsoft co-founder Bill Gates is 60. The former president of Iran, Mahmoud Ahmadinejad, is 59. Rock musician Stephen Morris (New Order) is 58. Rock singer-musician William Reid (The Jesus & Mary Chain) is 57. Actor-comedian Andy Richter is 49. Actress Julia Roberts is 48. Singer Ben Harper is 46. Country singer Brad Paisley is 43. Actor Joaquin Phoenix is 41. Singer/ rapper Frank Ocean is 28. Thought for Today: “If liberty means anything at all, it means the right to tell people ZKDWWKH\GRQRWZDQWWRKHDU´ — George Orwell (Eric Blair), English author (1903-1950). PHOEBE AND HER UNICORN BY DANA SIMPSON BIG NATE BY LINCOLN PEIRCE