Page 8C East Oregonian COFFEE BREAK Saturday, October 10, 2015 DEAR ABBY Clothing-optional lifestyle causes nudist’s wife grief Dear Abby: My husband enjoys kind of pressure on other people. sitting around (among other activities) Also, some of the items for sale are naked. We live in a subdivision with unhealthy or not things we’d use, so 700 homes. I have asked him repeat- it seems wrong to ask others to buy edly to stop, join a nudist group or go them. home to his mother — whatever! He Instead of selling, where they only says he’s sorry, blah blah blah. But it get a small portion of the funds, I’d doesn’t stop happening. rather donate directly to the school. The deputies have already visited However, I’m not sure how to do that Jeanne to tell him to stop playing his ukulele Phillips without making our family stand out in while driving, and I’m afraid he’ll get this very small community. Advice caught without a stitch on one day When a new fundraiser is and all hell will break loose. I realize announced, should I ask the teacher how ludicrous this letter may sound, but I’m or PTA member how much our share is and being truthful. Am I crazy to expect him to then write a check? I’m afraid I’d be inviting stay clothed in semi-public? — Teresa In The gossip about being too stuck up or wealthy South to participate (we are neither). And how do Dear Teresa: I’m sorry you didn’t de¿ne I explain to my 7-year-old why I don’t think “semi-public.” It’s one thing for a person to she should be selling things, without seeming “let it all hang out” in the privacy of his (or her) critical of her friends who are? — Just Want home or fenced backyard. It’s quite another To Donate In Iowa for that individual to fully expose himself in Dear Just: This is a concern you should public view. If this is what has been happening, discuss with the person who is in charge of the it appears you have married an exhibitionist fundraiser. If you prefer to donate the money who could be arrested for indecent exposure you would be expected to raise, rather than if a neighbor chooses to complain. If this is have your child solicit door-to-door, your what’s happening, you’re not crazy; you are a wishes should be respected because the result concerned wife. will be the same for her school. Frankly, I Dear Abby: My daughter’s elementary think you have a point. school has many fundraisers each year where Dear Abby: My mother and I disagree the children are asked to sell things like takeout about what to do if a child is invited to a pizza coupons and cheap wrapping paper to birthday party but is unable to attend. Mom raise money for schoolwide events. I’m happy says you should still buy a present for the to support the school, but do not want her to honoree. I think that’s a nice thing to do, but participate in the selling. not necessary. What do you think? — Unsure She’s too little to go door-to-door or make In California phone calls on her own, so I end up doing it for Dear Unsure: I agree with you. Buying her. I am very uncomfortable when individuals a gift for the birthday child would be a very ask me to buy things. I don’t want to put that thoughtful gesture, but it is not required. DAYS GONE BY 100 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Oct. 10-11, 1915 An interesting incident of the horse and mule show here Saturday was the appearance of Rex, driving horse owned by the late Judge Thomas G. Hailey and now by his nephew, Berkeley Hailey, which 18 years or more ago won ¿rst prize in the single driving class, and which Saturday took ¿rst prize in that class once again. The animal is now 20 years or more old but is a showy driver and was unanimously the choice of the judges. The horse has been cared for these years by George Meeker who takes great pride in his charge and feels grati¿ed that the animal took the ¿rst prize on Saturday. 50 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Oct. 10-11, 1965 Another sawmill waste burner will begin to slip into disuse soon. “Ninety percent of what we used to burn” at Blue Mountain Fir Prod- ucts, Rieth, owner-operator Harold Bartsch said, will go into a new chipping machine. The product will be sold to local feedlots for use as bedding. Bartsch expects installation of the chipper to be completed in about a month. He said use of the sawmill waste as bedding for livestock is fairly new in this area, although it is common in western Oregon. One reason use of the material is growing here is because less straw is available, Bartsch said. 25 Years Ago From the East Oregonian Oct. 10-11, 1990 The community’s response to recycling bins placed Aug. 1 in the Safeway parking lot has been “spectacular,” generating three tons of glass, 11 tons of newspaper and 10 tons of cardboard. The success of the program, however, has left Boy Scout Troop 777 the unfortunate victim of progress. Scoutmaster Harold Nelson said he and the Scouts hold no animosity toward Pendleton Sanitary Service, which contracts with Sanitary Disposal of Hermiston for the recycling bins at Safeway. “The public’s demand required them to do it,” Nelson said. The Boy Scouts are considering other fundraising activities, which may include helping with a new paper recycling program planned through the Community Action Program East Central Oregon. Troop 777, Nelson said, relied on newspaper recycling for about $1,000 a year. THIS DAY IN HISTORY Today is the 283rd day of 2015. There are 82 days left in the year. Today’s Highlight in History: On October 10, 1935, the George Gershwin opera “Porgy and Bess,” featuring an all-black cast, opened on Broadway, where it ran for 124 performances. On this date: In A.D. 19, Roman general Germanicus Julius Caesar, 33, died in Antioch under mysterious circum- stances, possibly from poisoning. In 1845, the U.S. Naval Academy was established in Annapolis, Maryland. In 1913, the Panama Canal was effectively completed as President Woodrow Wilson sent a signal from the White House by telegraph, setting off explosives that destroyed a section of the Gamboa dike. In 1938, Nazi Germany completed its annexation of Czechoslovakia’s Sudeten- land. In 1943, Chiang Kai-shek took the oath of of¿ce as president of China. In 1955, the ¿lm version of the Rodgers & Hammer- stein musical “Oklahoma!” premiered before an invi- tation-only audience at the Rivoli Theatre in New York. In 1964, the ¿rst Summer Olympics to be held in Asia were opened in Tokyo by Japanese Emperor Hirohito. Entertainer Eddie Cantor, 72, died in Beverly Hills, California. In 1967, the Outer Space Treaty, prohibiting the placing of weapons of mass destruction on the moon or elsewhere in space, entered into force. In 1968, the sexy science-¿ction spoof “Barbarella,” starring Jane Fonda, was released by Para- mount Pictures. Today’s Birthdays: Former Illinois Sen. Adlai Stevenson III is 85. Actor Peter Coyote is 74. Enter- tainer Ben Vereen is 69. Singer John Prine is 69. Actor Charles Dance is 69. Rock singer-musician Cyril Neville (The Neville Brothers) is 67. Actress Jessica Harper is 66. Author Nora Roberts (aka “J.D. Robb”) is 65. Singer-musi- cian Midge Ure is 62. Rock singer David Lee Roth is 61. Actor J. Eddie Peck is 57. Country singer Tanya Tucker is 57. Actress Julia Sweeney is 56. Actor Bradley Whit- ford is 56. Musician Martin Kemp is 54. Actress Jodi Benson (Film: “The Little Mermaid”) is 54. Rock musi- cian Jim Glennie (James) is 52. Actress Rebecca Pidgeon is 50. Rock musician Mike Malinin (Goo Goo Dolls) is 48. Retired NFL quarterback Brett Favre is 46. Actor Manu Bennett is 46. Actress Joelle Carter is 46. Actress Wendi McLendon-Covey is 46. Actor/TV host Mario Lopez is 42. Race driver Dale Earnhardt Jr. is 41. Actress Jodi Lyn O’Keefe is 37. Singer Mya is 36. Actor Dan Stevens is 33. Singer Cherie is 31. Actress Rose McIver is 27. Actress Aimee Teegarden is 26. Thought for Today: “We’re born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we’re not alone.” — Orson Welles (1915-1985).