Page 6B East Oregonian PEANUTS COFFEE BREAK Wednesday, July 22, 2015 DEAR ABBY BY CHARLES M . SCHULZ Wife learns man was seeking more than exercise at the gym FOR BETTER OR WORSE BY LYNN JOHNSTON B.C. BY JOHNNY HART PICKLES BY BRIAN CRANE Dear Abby: I have been with ZDQWWRSXWXSZLWKWKHSDLQ,FDQ¶W my husband for 10 years. We were GHFLGHWKDWIRU\RXEXWVRPHVHVVLRQV married six months ago. Before the ZLWK D SV\FKRORJLVW PD\ KHOS \RX wedding, we had some breakups. PDNHDZHOOWKRXJKWRXWGHFLVLRQ During one of them, he dated another Dear Abby: I’m a girl in my ZRPDQ EULHÀ\ 7KH HQFRXQWHU OHG WR HDUO\ WHHQV 5HFHQWO\ , DWWHQGHG D KHUEHFRPLQJSUHJQDQWDQGVKHJDYH family gathering at my grandparents’ birth to a boy who is now a year old. home. While I was upstairs alone, my ,OHDUQHGDERXWKHUDQGKHUSUHJQDQF\ Jeanne \HDUROG FRXVLQ ³-DUHG´ DVNHG WR ¿YH PRQWKV EHIRUH RXU ZHGGLQJ EXW Phillips see my boobs. 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