r jr. i.i i run BAILY KAJV ORIDOOXIAJf. PENDLETON, OBXGON, SATTKDAY, AUGUST 6, 1910. EIGHT PAGE. ii 1 I' i HI Society events The society affair of the week was the linen shower given Monday night by the Misses Bertha Anger and Gen eviove Clark for Miss Haiel Nolen, whoso engagement to Mr. Charles Baxter of Boise, Idaho, was announc ed a few weeks ago. The scene of the ' ahower wta the Clark home on the high school hill and the rooms were prettily decorated for the occasion. In the parlor from the center of the coiling an inverted Japanese parasol waa suspended and the many beauti ful linen gifts were laid therein. When the proper time had arrived Miss No len seated herself beneath the para-' sol and by pulling a cord, precipitated j the profusion of presents in her lap. j The young ladies were then ushered ' into the dining room where a dainty supper had been prepared. The room decorations were entirely In red. Fes toens of hearts were draped from the chandelier to the corners of the table and streamers of other hearts were hung fom the walls. The favors ' were especially tasteful, each place card bearing a small photograph of the bride-to-be in one corner. Those who were guests of Misses Anger and Clark are the Misses Haiel Nolen, Iva Hill, .Sydney Sommenrille, Mary Shea, ' Edna Storie, Nona Johnson, Edna Zimmerman, Edith Johnson, Norma Alloway Edna Thompson, Irene Shea, j Gene Holten (Boise), Edna Whistler, Pauline La Fontaine. Gertrude Camp- popular In Tillamook and all four will make their homes here when they return from their outing. Miss Ida Boyd of Pendleton who has been visiting Mrs. H. P. Isaacs for the past ten days, returned to her home yesterday. Miss Boyd is the local representative of the American Wo man's league in her home town, and is most enthusiastic over her work. Pendleton women, like those of Walla Walla, are working for a club house. They expect to see it a realty within another year. Walla Walla Union, j The many friends of Mr. Dan P. Smythe will be glad to know that he continues to Improve. His condition ' is now such that his brother, Mr. A. Smythe, was able to return to his home In Arlington on Friday. He is ' still being attended by his mother, j Mrs. K. S. Smythe. Mrs. C. L. Morgan of this city, who has been visiting relatives in the East for the past few months, is now at Cambridge Springs, Pennsylvania, and expects to leave for home the last of the month. Mr. and Mrs. John R. Dickson and sons Westbrooke and Frank, are' now in Portland the guests of Mrs. Dick son's sister, Mrs. L. W. White. Later they will go to Tokeland, Wash., for an outing. Mr. Charles Baxter of Boise, whose marriage with Miss Hazel Nolen of this city will be celebrated on Sep tember 28, will arrive here tomorrow for a short visit. Mrs. B. E. Kennedy and children of Baker City, have returned home after having attended the funeral of Mrs. Kennedy's mother, Mrs, J. B. Kennedy. Miss Gertrude Jordan returned Mon day morning from a week's visit in Portland and Seavlew as the guest of Miss Mildred Magoon. Mrs. L. G. Frazler, Mrs. Clark Nel son and Miss Bertha Alexander will go to Wenaha on Monday for an outing. The Eugene Register society col umns announce the engagement of Miss Mae Starbuck to Mr. Felix Moore. Both parties were for two years members of the faculty of the Columbia College Junior of Milton and last year taught in the Eugene high school. Mrs. George E. Perlnger, daughter ! Merle and Miss Dorothy Lincoln of : Portland, are guests at Wenaha springs for a short outing. ! I The Misses Gertrude Campbell, Ed 1 na Storie, Laura M'Kee, and Grace Finnel spent several days at the Storie ranch during the week. bell, Gussie Jordan. Sawtelle and Gertrude Miss Nell Whittemore who figures In the following interesting story tak. en from the front page of the Satur- j day Portland Oregonian is well known in Pendleton, having lived in and near this city nearly all her Ufe. Tillamook, Ore., Aug. 4. Rev. D. M. Schrode was routed out of bed at 4 o'clock this morning by four Tilla mook young persons who wanted to ha married. They were dressed in khaki I suits and came all prepared to start' at once on a honeymoon trip up the Wilson river. The preacher dressed and as soon as possible made Miss Nellie Whittemore Mrs. John Aschin and Miss Jessie Mason Mrs. Albert Plank. I Fear of the hilarious send-off prom- J lsed by their friends and desire for an unconventional wedding are said to be the reasons for their course. Right after the ceremony the four left on the stage for the headwaters of the Wilson river, to be gone three or four weeks. I Mr. Aschin is deputy sheriff of Tilla. , mook county. He came to Tillamook in 1901 and has made his way by hard work. Mr. Plank Is foreman for the Alex. McNair Hardware company. He too. has ruled his own destiny and from a penniless boy is on the road to success. Both the young women are Mr. H. P. Gallagher, who has been with the Twohy Brothers construction company, left on Thursday for a ! week's visit with her parents. Major i and Mrs. Gallagher of Seattle. Re turning by way of Portland he will visit friends at Vancouver barracks. Mrs. William Slusher left Wednes day for Portland where she met her daughter, Miss Edith Slusher, who has heen the niMt nf Miss Alice Weh. rung, In that city. Together they have ' gone to Newport to spend the remain der of the warm period. Miss Myrtle May Disney, formerly a Pendleton high school student who has been teaching in the Washington state reform school at Chehalls, is to be married, Aug. 10 to Mr. Oscar Al fred Torgerson of that city. They will make their home in Chehalls. Mrs. Theodore Burmester of Salt Lake, will arrive in Pendleton Sunday to visit her daughter Miss Wilma Bur mester. Later, accompanied by Miss Burmester, she will go to Portland where she will spend several weeks with relatives. Mr. and Mrs. Will McKinney leave Sunday for Wallowa lake where they ! will spend a vacation of a couple of weeks. They will have a tent at the upper end of the lake and expect to make some excursions Into the moun- ' tains.. Mr. and Mrs. Charles L. Bonney leave tomorrow morning for Wallowa lake where they will enjoy an outing of a week or more. Mrs. LaVelle McDonald has return ed from Haines, Ore., where she was the guest of Misses Katherine and Elizabeth Duncan. The Misses McEwen and Mr. H. A. Barrett of Athena, drove down from that place last evening In the latter's touring car. Mr. and Mrs. Willard Bond, who have been in California for the past two weeks, will arrive home tomorrow evening.- - Miss Jennie Perry returned home Tuesdav mornln from an extended visit with friends in Eugene and Port land. ' Miss Viola Shea will leave tomor row for Hllgard where she will be the guest of Miss Helen Hart for two weeks. Mr. and Mrs. Joe Blakely and fam ily will leave for Meacham tomorrow where they will spend their vacation Mr. and Mrs. Joseph V. Tallman and Folsom Tallman have gone to Newport for the month of August. Mr. and Mrs. August Beam and Men and Foodies . BY BEATRICE FAIRFAX. When I say "don't spoil your sweetheart," I do not mean that you should not show her all the love and tenderness of which your heart Is ca pable. I merely advise you not to act as though you were a trained dog ready to fetch and carry at her slight est whim. It not only makes you appear a poor spirited thing, tut it makes her selfish and exacting. It makes people pity you and dis like her. Incidentally, It makes the girl her self think less of you. Don't allow your devotion to de stroy your dignity and self-respect. You must remember that If you spoil her while you are engaged, you will have to keep It up after you are married. If you don't there will be tears and reproaches and accusations of worn- out love, etc. As far as you are concerned. It will probably be a case of ceasing to run after the car after you have caught it. You will be happy and content and still very much In love, but you won't be quite so keen on the fetch ana carry business. Ho Cannot Be a Slave. The married man cannot be the slave of his wife and amount to any thing in the world. A selfsh, exacting wife Is a mill stone round a man's neck, and a handicap in every sense of the word. The fact that he has made the situa tion will not lessen the burden. You can show your sweetheart every pos sible attention without . becoming a slave to her whlmt. Don't - let her order you about as though you had no dlgnny nor will of your own. It Is a habit that will grow very quickly, and she won't be able to re sist the temptation to display her power. And power of that sort Is bad for a woman. Reject W1U Bo Wanting. She will not really love you unless she respects you, and she will not re spect you If she feels that she can order you . about like a tame poodle dog. You must have a will of your own If you hope to hold a woman's love. Any woman would tell you just what I am telling you, for all women at some time of their lives have known men whom they knew they could dic tate to. . I have seen people fairly boll with Indignation over the demands made by a spoiled girl on the man Who loved her. And always they have ended by saying, "Oh, well, If he Is such a poor spirited thing he deserves all he gets When a girl gets Into the habit of changing her mind forty times about a thing, ordering a man to do this and do that, to go here and go there, it is high time the man pulled himself to gether and made protest. Hold her because she loves and re spects you, not because she can order you about. Chester Beam are absent upon a visit to Seattle and Victoria, B. C. Mr. and Mrs. Jospnh Vev announce the engagement of their daughter Miss Rosle Vey, to Mr. Joseph A. Morese. The wedding Is. to occur, Monday morning. August 15. at 7: SO o'clock, In St. Mary's church. Col. J. H. Raley returned last eve ning from Portland, where he has been for several days. Mr. and Mrs. J. F. McNausrht of Hermlston, were visitors in Pendleton on Thursday. Miss Mary Shea left Thursday night for a month'B vacation at Seaside and Portland. Mrs. Chas. H. Carter is the guest of friends In Seattle and other coast towns. Miss Gertrude Camnhell will V am ong the Sunday visitors at Wenaha springs. Mr. Clarence Bishop has returned from an outing at the seashore. Miss Irene Shea will spend Sunday with friends at Wenaha. Mr. Roy Sklles is spending his va cation at Long Beach. Miss Cora Towne Is absent upon a vacation In Portland. Baby Morphine Fiends. are made by all soothing syrups and baby medicines that contain opium and narcotics. McGee's Baby Elixir contains no Injurious or narcotic drugs of any kind. A sure and safe cure for disordered stomachs, bow. els and fretfulness splendid for teething infants. A. C. Koeppen & Bros. KLAMATH COUNTY nAS INCREASED POPULATION Salem, Or. The annual report of the school superintendent of Klamatn county, placed on file in the state su. perlntendent's office yesterday, dls closes an enrollment In the Klamath county schools of 1386 during the past year and a school population of 94 over 1909. The number of teach ers employed during the yast year was 69, an Increase of 8. Last year there were 67 eighth grade graduates as against .74 for the previous year. The total receipts for school pur poses last year were $86,096 29 as against $40,005.18 for the previous year and an expenditure of $57,612.91 in 1910 as against $37,644.46 In 1909 There were three school houses built during 1910 as against one In 1909. The average monthly salary of male teachers Increased from $68.40 in 1909 to $90 In 1910 and the average monthly salary of female teachers from $56 to $65. Save money by reading todays ad a The "Home Grouch" BY WIXXIFItED BLACK. A Cleveland woman brought suit for divorce against her husband the other day because he played solitaire so much that he not only had no time for work, but he had no time to pay her the least attention. "I've seen him spend whole days playing solitaire," said the Cleveland woman In court, "and he would snap at me like a dog If I tried to speak one word to him." I hope she got her divorce. Of all demons that are hard to bear It seems to me the dumb demon is the worst. I'd rather a man would take an ax and break every window In the house, set fire to the garage and kick the cat out into the alley than to see him' come home with what his office associates would call "a grouch." I know a woman whose husband has a "home grouch" or at least he did have. On the street, at the office, In the restaurants, down at the club, who so gay, so debonair, so good-humored, so easy-tempered as the man with the "home grouch?" But the Instant that man set feet on the steps of his own home his face settled Into a positive ly forbidding scowl, and he would spend a whole evening sulking because he dtdn't like something there was for dinner. His wife used to cry about it at first. Then she stopped crying and began to laugh; She never had a "home grouch," so she had a lot of friends and the husband soon grew tired of sulking In the corner when he heard his wife laughing and singing out on the porch with a crowd of friendly neighbors. The "home grouch" has changed his tune. And everybody Is much hap pier. Of course, no sensible woman ex pects a tired man to come home grin ning from ear to ear, and thinking up funny stories for her especial bene fit. Men have their moods as well as women, and a good wife will love her husband out of the blues without saying a word to him about it. But the "home grouch, the man who is too cowardly to vent his temper on another man downtown, and comes home and vents it on his helpless family, must go. Let's try the remedy of a good laugh and some honest and wholesale letting alone for this variety of man. ASTOXISHING. The late Goldwin Smith, from his Toronto library, sent forth many an encouraging word to struggling young men. 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