THE OREGON SUNDAY - JOURNAL PORTLAND, ' SUNDAY MORNING. SEPTEMBER 10, 1916. wwy'''nyi ,, juj, ,. i .,j ijm ispwijj inwJiPJ.wiJ i .-joj i v ' UV": arJJ,-1"W?- 'ij'' """;"-"""""T,'j 1 I UfH I SI II 111 II ISST Till Some Glimpses at Autumn Fashions for Matron and Maid Suitable School Gar ments for the Little Miss By Mme. Copyright, 1810. F YOU ere a. middle-aged lady-person I and recall the ugly habilrnerits of your early youth, you will be willing to admit that the good old days may have been good, but they weren't much ..of anything else. Perhaps they are good only because they are old, which Is no special credit to them. Certainly, It was then that old Ogre Ugly Clothes was yery much on deck, and Pennon Thrift tomahawked many a sapling de sire to be beautiful. You dare not tie your bonnet strings because the ribbon rnuet be used again, and you wore un dies that were starched shamelessly and tore your tender hide. All in all. what was the use of being a, child of nature when one was blanketed In hideous and uncomfortable wrappings? itwas thyen the Custom, when the country was younger and the good thing of the world less easily pro cured, to cut up mother's oki gown liito innumerable new ones for the daughters. For trimming, the rag bag v.as looted that source of unlovely treasures, some worn and faded, tliat were to be pieced together into a Kun d&y rone or a frock for school. What was good enough for the adult was ei ta.nly good enough for the child In j those times when chilren who not poiled, "as they are now.",, and wheth er the poor little beggar looked liKe a human white baby or a squaw s prog eny apparently mattered not. Renwiants w ere In great favor. V-ag-tuxs and bob-tails of materials were carefully utilized. And the result, almost with out exception, was something brilliant ly and perl'cctlonutely Agly and un rliildllke. This was more cruel llian the dear mothers xf that day knew, for it is in rly childhood that the development ol the art understanding and the dress sense begins. Children are remarkabH' sensitive to color effects, and the lieautillil appeals to them inure strongly than many adults realize or understand All Is changed. Chlbln it's weir Is comfortable and appropriate. Some of the best "dress brains'' .f the world ie devoting their efforts toward the designing of suitable attire for the small fry and, the flappers. I.anvln and Jenny are the sartorial god-mothers of on t h. and what they have produced lis made many a child-heart beat, with .:lde and happiness. And th eyes of . tl.e world suffer less from beholding rgllness its expressed In Inappropriate ttupplngs of the babes of humanity, for vhicli fact we should be deeply appre t .alive. Present styles, with loose fitting lines" and deep hems, mean that frocks can be worn out no matter how busy a grower the little snplltiK may tie. The kimona sleeve is still considered good style for children's frocks, particularly as it is the heart's Joy of the laun dress. Furthermore, it never becomes too small. While fashions, in a way, follow the general fashions designed for the mother-person, there Is only a long-distance relationslvlp. For everyday wear only the plainest dresses are "voguay." Simplicity rm Tllfled and then made minus any fuss Is the rule. Infancy should be the pe riod of emancipation from dl-css bur dens, and infancy itself is so attractive that it cannot lie improved by orna mentation or decorative effect. Rich trimmings, such ns Irish lace-atid other heavily-woven laces, are utterly Inap proprlatlve, and women of fastidious Ideas never use them and so overdress their children. For dressy occasions lace is permissible, bgt only the sheer est and the finest and the least osten U.tlouh will do. Tho child who bears a load of gold chains, lockets, bracelets, ribbons, sashes and other sartorial rub bish is an object of human pity, with- 11 her natural charms vulgarly amsked and distorted. Since the beginning of the school year is here fall fashions for children are well established. ' The waist line loiters where It wlllf In anticipation of the coming Napo leonic modes, of which we, have heard rumor, there Is the lifted waist line, which works out very nicely on frocks Of taffetas, satins and other light weight fabrics. On princess frocks, With long, shaped front and back panel, there Is the shirred girdle effect at the tucrmal waist line, if the btidgy form of the seven-year-old may possess an equator, which Is doubtful. Again, we see the long Moyen line, which years ago was railed the GabrleiU, but this atyle Is used more general for wash frocks. Bright colored buttons, particularly bright red, appear on serge-5-dresses. There Is a great deal of talk about the ie of red this coming winter on coats and suits of the big: folks, especially as tallot exploits dashing bits of currant red on some of their early autumn models. Another quite riew idea Is to havfe all tho children's clothes button In front, so that the dear cherub may drees herself comfortably- and easily, without the assistance of maid or older member of the family. Mme. Fashion la very kind to us of late; she Is con sidering many factors besides looks. Clothes were never moro comfortable, sensible or beautiful. A study of the history of fashions Is convincing that the world moves ever towffrd better i things. Cashmere will take the place of serge to a certain extont, though the ever present and ever-serviceable will still be In evidence. Serge is a bit warm for the schoolroom, even In the coldest "weather, and women are learning to elect heavy outergarmonts for the youngsters rather than Indoor wear that Is warm. Blue cashmere, shading from Copenhagen to marine blue, are a!l good. Also they take embroidery nicely In silk or wool, and a bit of her ring bone, chain-stitch or cross-stitch in florett design is an attractive means of Imparting a touch of charm and daintiness to a diminutive robe. Because Of war talk and the activ ities of the National Guard, .there has been designed a smart little school suit of army cloth. This is sufltable for girls of 10 to 16 years. The-sklrt Is plain, with & double plait la front and rather (wide plaits at sides and back. The Jacket Is a small edition of the uniform of the American aoldler. with double . breast pockets, double hip pickets, high , collar, medium width belt and brass : buttons, if you please. There is a de ';: tachable blouse of old gold colored pussy willow.' Fr late autumn traveling, scurrying i ever, mountain paths and hiking : through the north woods, this suit may .-, ft auplleaUd In khaki and worn with Qui Vive. by J. Keelej) boyish shirts of madras or flannel. Also high -array , puttees can be em ployed to protect the stockings and a .cunning army hat of felt completes the outfit. An excellent model, suitable for tnhojA, follows the .military lines, and is made of blue serge, with flaps of red broadcloth, very chic and dashing, and yet not enough to be too notlceaUly military. Hetween season's thfre are many In teresting trivialities ot dress, bobbing up now and then to keep the sartorial temperature. from becoming subnormal For instance, a few summer veils have bands of narrow fur about the edges. The fur in only a suggestion, but it always attracts attention and tiiat is one of the alms of modern at tire. Turbans made from old cachemlre shawls are unusual. Many Chinese fabrics are being used. One reason for the Chinese Influence is the difficulty of traveling over the bounding Atlantic. So buyers are nos iiiK through China for old pieces and especially for fine Chinese embroidery. Tl.ey say that Shanghai has more com mercial visitors than wero ever collet-ted before at one time In its history. There Is a positive madness for bead necklaces, bead trimmings and beaded handbags. Dyed rabbit is one of the furs prom ised us for the coming winter. It does not wear well, but It dyes beautifully ami often partakes of the same color a. Ihn costume. Jersey mnotiers are being worn at the late summer resorta of France". c Fur and embroidery are combined to form beautiful trimmings for frocks and coats. Bands of oriental embrold- ery are placed above or below a nar row band of fur, or if Uie fur is broad, the embroidery is narrow. Also, on evening mantles gold or silver lace is combined with fur. Some new evening gowns take on the classic Greek lines, which will Inspire chortles of joy to the soul of the state ly woman, to whom youthful fripperies e.re a sartorial agony. Suits and coats of velours de laine have fur collars all of six Inches high, lined with gay colors and are most ex ceedingly attractive. F.rmine has noi been popular for a number of years. It is not a good in vestment because it spoils readily, and repeated cleanings mean that the pelt turns yellow. But this promises to be n. strong season for ermine Just the same It Is particularly charming com bined with other furs, particularly moleskin and seal. It makes up into stunning pelerines, which are going to oust t lie scarfs and stoles of previous seasons. Dyed rabbit Is bidding for popularity in Paris, and appears mostly . n irocKS. its ngnc we Kni manes "pand, deveiop and weld our mental a fterv it eauie aim caicuchi h uitnuiiK for fabrics that are themselves without substance or durability. If you happen to meet your best friend and she is wearing a hat that looks ns if It were made of carpet, show not your surprise, else she will surmise that, you are not a fashion fan. This carpet fabric Is in reality a va riety of Turkish toweling. It comes in beautiful colorings, some of which are a bit vivid, but it is smarty and good style. It combines nicely with velvet, and makes up into scarf3 and bags as well as helmets for ladles' heads'. A new shape, covered with this material, Is a sort of half cousin to a Jockey cap, nr.d Its trimming consists of small mer cury wings with points upturned to heaven. There Is the usual talk about the return of ostrich, but It seems uncer tain. Women rather fear the hat that is heavily trimmed, since the simple chapeaux have proved so convenient and becoming. If ostrich is used at all this coming winter It will be In the flat fringe from the beautiful phan tusles. Certainly the old time plume, in Its original state, can have no hope of playing a return engagement. It la too bulky. The high crowned droped hat made of velvet is being exploited In Paris. A rew shape looks almost like a bal loon. Tlie mop cap. suitable for the very youthful contenance, is graceful and becoming. Milliners complain that the sports hat has been the ruination of the mil linery business. Women find these soft little headpieces so convenient that they forget to go stalking after dressier effects. The wheel of fashion brings back many a forgotten Joy. For instance, our old friend Cluny and our old pal Irish lace are both returning this year. Both will be used on lingerie, which Is being trimmed with lavlshness as be fits the apparel of a season of exces sive decorations. Flounclngs for dancing gowns are sprinkled with silver sequins. Flor ette designs in white beading are good. There is also a demand for real filet ar.d llmerlck.- Woolen yarn trimmings In scrolls, knots, loose chain stitch and conven tional ramage are used on one piece frocks of serge, the skirts of which have decidedly straight up and down lines. KEEPING COMPLEXION Take rienty of Fxerrlse. Considering the Immense amount of money spent by women every year for rouge and other cosmetics designed to supply artificially the fresh complex ion which nature no longer provides. It Is plain that nature's favors in that direction, are worth fighting for es pecially as fighting along common sense lines will win the battle. It Is a painful fact that the tendency of advancing age is to rob the face of its fresh, natural color. There are ex ceptions, but the rule is to grow whit er, or, alas! yellower and more faded. When the color persists in moderation It Is a great beauty; but even then na ture is often very unkind, for If there be color there is too much color, and the face usually becomes a hard brick red, with often red and angry veins. Very few of us, however, with 'ad vancing years, need fear too much color, for there Is always a remedy. It Is the dally increasing pallor or even discoloration of the skin we must fight against. Too many sick beds are an object les son to us. or. If we need a more vivid, picture, watch the daintiest and most beautiful lady with approaching mI-de-mer on board ship. Take away the pink flush, the red lip, the bright eye. ife 'hM :i k iv ynT iJk jri fy & Jill i ' Htmmwf i t'lf - ' TSnJf ' Jr- . II : V- o x7- , , t a tf ill t' rT nil A 'f uf - - V A' Keep Young By Penelope Kncpp itrnln not wrltlen that T we may WW' forever retain the bweet scented manuscript of youth. J Omar Khayyam. 'Tis not written that we may for ever retain what old Omar pleases to term the "sweet-scented manuscript of youth," but It Is written tiiat by fostering youthful thoughts and am bitions that we may draw unto our selves qualities and attributes which make for youth and youthful achieve ments. Youth, metaphorically speaking, is but the playground, the preparatory gymnasium, as it were, where we spin our tops arid ride our rocking horses the rjerior! triven us in which to ex- moral and physical fibers mus- cles for the fray of life. Youth is one big holiday filled to the brim witli tts own effervescing exuberance. Its handshake Is a bat tery. Its laughter music. Its song a rippling crescendo, its tears melting pearls upon the wine of Innocence. But youth cannot go on sporting and Laughing forever. Youth must put away Its playthings and come to the parting of the ways. Youth must merge into matuiity and with the merging comes wider and greater pos sibilities and the bigger things which make for either success or failure. Youth Is always fascinating, always desirable, but it does not always1 spell beauty. Some of the most beautiful women in the world have passed the meridian of life before attaining true beauty, grace and charm. Many cases of this kind may be mentioned, fore most among them that of Mme. de L'Enclos, the noted French beauty, who It Is said never grew old. At the age of 70 years Mme. de L'Enclos re tained the contour of both face end figure and was courted by men less than half her own age, this being the result of always keeping her mind fresh and her thoughts youthful. Mme. Bernhardt furnishes another example of keeping young despite ad vancing years. Up to the time of her tragedy In being obliged to part with one of her limbs, the great French ac tress could have passed for a compar atively young woman, so alert was she in mind, so active in body. Mme. Bernhardt not only preaches the re ligion of youth and youthful thinking, but she lives it; and. despite her in firmity, she still abides in the mental realm of youth. The only way to retain youth and to develop latent beauty is to combat gravity, especially should be live men tally above the thought of gravity. The tendency of the tiuman organ ism is downward. To sag. to droop and shrivel, to drag and settle, is the ever-present Inclination. When left to its own devices the body settles. the muscles shrink and grow flabby, the bones become set and the tissues waste away, thereby ruining the nat ural beauty of both face and figure. With advancing years the downward propensity Increases, and If not com bated vigorously all semblance of poise and contour Is destroyed. Because of this physical heaviness and downward trend of gravity it is much easier to bow the knee and cross ourselves at the feet of the grin ning gods of destruction than to rise up In power against them. However lr we permit inem to rule we are doomed to deformed bodies and sag gtng, wrinkled faces, to say nothing of fossilized minds and weakened will power. The secret of beauty lies In our ability to muffle the hoofs of gravity, and always it is wise to speed the day, lest long-delayed the flame of desire burn low and we be overcome by the monster. It Is only by the most rigid discip line that we may retain the natural beauty of either face or figure. In this fact lies food for deep reflection, for once beauty is distorted and the muscles begin to sag It is next to Im possible to restore the original con tour. and no classic feature consoles-you for their loss. That is why nine men out of every ten admire freshness and healthful ness. The thing to do is to ward off the encroaching pallor by natural means. Watch for it. It begins, independently of actual ill health, anywhere between SO and 50. Thirty-five is a trying time for a woman who values her looks, for na ture has begun to lay hands on the beauty of youth. Disguise it how we MU3LYRA TSTeCTNTT I X&J i J'iU , L3&5Hf 1 WSJ I TAXING YOUR NERVES eSwhsl ' W&WJT j A Bad ITactice. j (feggOg f L?'" ' ; Many young girls when they first start to work find out after a few months' time that they are living on their nerves; their expression is that they are "all keyed up." This feeling is brought on bv close confinement and an inability to adapt onesself to I new conditions Immediately. j Before long some of these girls find , themselves in the bad habit of taking drugs; aspirin stands high in the list.1 A small amount taken at long inter-i vals might not work serious harm,! but soon they look upon aspirin as i I their best friend. Surely this habit i leads to the taking of aspirin in great; doses, or after a while they look j around for something stronger. When; aspirin fails to do its work some look to morphia or to other harmful drugs.' There Is no more need to live on one's nerves while wonklng than there! is in keeping house or doing other work. If you find that your work is telling on your nerves take a vaca tion. If you are unable to afford a vacation increase the amount of sleep you are getting, though you have to limit your social doings to week-ends. You owe yourself more than you do society and friends. Be sure to get your quota of fresh air. If you live too far away to walk to business In the morning or you find the heat too oppressive, then take your walk re turning from work in the evening or after your dinner. Another important point to bear in mind is to take a light but nourishing meal at noon. This means eat those things that tone up your nerves and muscles, and omit the cold drinks and sweets, which may please your appe tite but irritate the nerves when taken In large quantities. The sensible girl spends her money on a good bowl of soup and a refreshing salad, which is as sustaining as it is refreshing. Fancy cakes and iced drinks are refreshing but not nourishing, for they excite the nerves. They are a poor substitute for nourishing food so nec essary to the upkeep of the body. Read healthy out-of-door books. Think healthy thoughts of country, of flowers and fields, though you only see them orve in a great while. These natural ways of quieting nerves and body are so much more natural than artificial stimulants that' In a short time you will abhor the Latter. Denver's Flower Girls. The Flower Girls' association of Denver, composed of 150 daughters of the city's most exclusive families, wishes other cities would copy its all-the-year-around practice of bringing smiles and flowers Into the homes of the sick poor, into hospitals and insti tutions. The flowers are donated by florists, home gardeners and others interested 1't the association. Every Thanksgiv ing season the Flower Girls distribute "sunshine baskets" containing a happy surprise for each day in the week of Thanksgiving. will to our friends, let us to ourselves be honest and realize we can no longer lay claim to the freshness and charm of youth. Now, complextion Is entirely a ques tion of circulation and surface treat ment. "Keep the blood pure," is a platitude. Io woman in her senses, at any time of her life, fails to recognize that In digestion and its kindred troubles must mar the most perfect beauty. 1 Keep yourself in a habit qf daily exercise and health. Run in one place. Jump lightly In one place, do the sim plest physical exercise, rub furniture, make beds, romp with your children, play games and keep your blood, if not in a boll, at least circulating briskly. Sweet Drinks and Thirst Very sweet drinks only increase your thirst, and sipping at a liquid. Instead of gulping down large quan tities of It, assuages thirst bast. Women Who Go in for Sports Miss Mabel Furry of Seattle who, out of 218 classmates in the de partment of Physical Education at the Harvard Summer School, won the distinction of being the Sandow of the school. Miss Furry is five feet seven inches tall, weighs i80 pounds, and is all muscle and energy. "Come out west and you will find loads of girls as strong as I am," she declared. Miss Muriel Vanderbilt of New York will have none of the side sad dle. It is astride for her when she rides horseback, and in regulation cowboy regalia, too. Auto skating was an innovation of the passing season on the sands at Long Beach, Long Island. The fair skater shown above had perfect control over her machine by means of the handle. Miss Lyra Brown Nickerson of Providence, R. I., who is to become the bride of Henry G. Clark of Providence, October 4, is an accomplished aviatrix. tennis player and swimmer. She recently presented the Rhode Island National Guard with a fully equipped aeroplane. Miss Cynthia Wesson of Cotuit, Mass., won the women's double Columbia round in the Mational Archery tournament in Jersey City not long ago. She won the championship in this same event at Chicago last year. Understand Your Children By Mary Barnsfather. THE most difficult problems many mothers have to confront is to know 4helr children. It was no less a man than Tythagoras who taught man "Know thyself." This im perative lias been supplemented by modern educators with the one "Mother, know thy child." The sooner this imperative is recognized the bet ter is the condition for both mother and child. There are many important principles to be recognized in the lower animal kingdom; one of the best of these is the principle of self help. As soon as a bird or baby is able to move about his mother tries him out. mak ing him fly or walk about and hunt for his food. The tragedy that has happened to Froebel's teaching of Interesting chil dren, is often carried to a point of foolist coddling. So many children are paiwpered and amused these days that they have no Idea and desire to help themselves. m John Dewey was one of the first of our great American psychologists to teach that helping the child means more than to amuse him he must be taught to help himself. He teaches that a child's environment is small compared to the possibilities that are dormant within, the bud waiting im patiently to hurst into flower. Too much emphasis has been laid on the child's environment, and as a result he has been pampered to a point where he has been crippled physically or mentally. Likewise Mme. Montessorl has taught that a young mother hold ing a tiny life in her grasp has tre mendous opportunity to develop that life. Sh invented certain materials to aid the child to' help itself, and certainly the results in child develop ment gained by her method in many cases are wonderful. Ellen Key is another of the, great women scholars who believes It is a mother's duty to teach the young child to be self-reliant. As she says, "To bring up a child is carrying one's soul duty to help her Infant during, the formative period to help Itself. By so doing children learn to make the most of themselves; they are happier, and are of real service in the home and outside. Children who Wve not been pamp ered by too many comforts and too much care learn to do for themselves under the most trying conditions. The other day four little tots were found in the rear of a large tenement in the Ghetto of Chicago. While the mothers -wrr-s ON" were away working during the heat of the day. the children found themselves uncomfortable. They dtd not dare go to tiie lake without getting permission, so they all filled tin basins with water, and after utidresslng sat in thej- water for more than a half hour, look ing after themselves as their mothers might have done had they been at home. This Incident should be a lesson to mothers to teach children to bathe themselves, dress themselves and even look after their own comforts at times. Speaking on this point Mrs. Mirlan Finn Scott, a well known educator, says: "Even In our own times, though parents are usually affection ate enough and Joyously furnish the infant with an abundance of elaborate toys, most of them ignore the souls and minds of their children without being conscious that they are doing so. For It Is Just today that we have really begun to discover that the per iod lying between birth and 6 or 7 years of age Is the valuable area In all the territory of a human life. Here Is a new human continent, hitherto neglected, still unchartered, but recog nized as an El Dorado of future hap piness." There 1s a big difference between the right use of a child's budding faculties and forcing a child. The simplest way to begin is to use the ordinary activities of a child's life, such as bathing, dressing , eating, playing and going to bed. This rou tine work is never looked upon as a source of education, but rather a bug bear to be gotten rid of by doing it for the child instead of teaching the little one to help itself. If a child wears the right sort of clothing he can be taught to dress and undress at the age of 2. At flret he may need your assist ance, but hy teaching him how to handle a shirt, to put on his clothes tnil button them he wilt unrni ornul re the most difficult processes connect ed with the dressing and undressing. If you find this work Is irlfsome at times you can relieve the monotony cf buttoning shoes and putting on a dress or rompers by transforming the work into a pleasant game. When once a child acquires the art of dress ing" and undressing himself he will be proud of his work, anjl If he Is of fered assistance he will look upon it as a bit of interference. There's many a woman with her eyes-lifted toward the stars who might better dlret them toward tha holes In her stockings. f In Business ITIE are so accustomed to wxmen feJ in the professions that a sue " cessfui woman lawyer or physi cian docs not awaken any real aston lsiimont. l hero are a number or pro- iesstons th.it are considered mens work, and architecture is In this Hum licr. When a woman architect makes pnod he is ftill ringed in the number of the unusual; it means that sht has unusual ability, perseverance and ex cclleiit business judgment. These words best characterlzo Miss Fay Kcllop of New York city, who Is recognized as one of New York s foremost architects. In short, rhe I ono of the best women archltc ts In the country. When she Is asked how she iiaK made good she says: "Pining my professional career I suppose 1 have been asked 100 times how I nap pened to choose architecture as a pro fesbion. 1 reply that I did not choose tt, but it chose me. You may look surprised, nut it Is a ract. I was thrust into tills work, for my desire was- to be a doctor. It was by acci- aent mat l met a man in tho urchl- tectural department of the government of Washington. He so fired me with enthnsiasm that I was determlrd to be an architect right then and ;here. "I had not gone far in my work be fore I discovered that this profession calls for many definite qualities In this numtier are to be mentioned study, office work, experience and knowledge. The last may be divided Into any num ber of special fiualltles, such as trac ing, water color work, specification writing, designing, supervision of the office, superintendence of the office, full pize details, knowledge of kinds of materials and their respective costs. "riumbing and heating, whlcu ugaln Is divided Into four kinds, hot wtter, steam, furnace and fireplaces, and their proper equipment; electric light, gus, ventilation and '"Construction of the building. Construction covers foundations, whether stone, concrete, cement or brick. Then the superstruc ture, whether brick, stone or rrarble there are any number to choose from, both lor fitness and cost "Stucco, how it shall be made and applied; shingles, their different kinds, quality and cost; clapboards, widths and style. Then the structuA Itsc-Jf. if brick or etone, Is comparatively easy. In a wooden structuro It Is somewhat more difficult to know the proper size, whether to call fo beams that are 4 by 10 or 2 by 10. ln that we are governed by the wldtn of the room or the space to be covered, by the building department' ruies and regulations. How to assemble ail this material an! construct a building that will hold together and stand inrpec tion, and meet the approval of the In spectors ln question, is an Important problem. "After you have learned all this the important ouestlon Is how can I make good? With all this knowledge ln your hand, It Is by hard experience you learn to exchange It for good position. 'A Job ln an office' at $5 aj week is one of the first steps in malt ing good, according to Miss Keliogg's view of things, for that is what she earned at her first position. As she loves to tell: T landed a Job at $5 a week. anU I was glad to have It. 1 stayed with the man a year, and the knowledge I absorbed ln that office, the kindness and help the man gave me, I shall always remember. My Frenchman is a friend today.' ' MONEY AND MATRIMONY Often a Fatal Mistake. Too many mothers fall to realize that their responsibility in regarding their daughters Is far greater than that of their sons because ofthe fact that girls are, or should be, constantly with their mothers and are, therefore. Influ enced altogether by them. It is a .yery sad thought that too many mothers have imbibed mercenary ideas thinking that daughters must marry for 'wealth instead of affection. The mother who Influences her daugh ter into thinking that money is more to be desired in a husband than high character, intellectual ability, energy, ; honesty and ambition makes a very i serious mlslaKe One cannot actually condemn daugh ters who would disagree with parents who have such necessary notlves ln their plans for securing for them hus bands, and if they act from pure motives of affection and willfully dis obey their parents, they should not be too severely criticised The obligation all persons must as sume who take each other "for better, tor worse, ana wno are to live to gether "till death doth them part" certainly should .entitle them to make the selection that promises to make them happiest. We have Instances ln this count rv where mothers were very anxious foal . - l aen t mat l met a man in tho urchl-l jl enthnsiasm that I was determlrd tol Simplicity in Dress Is : : Best Taste By Lillian Russell. (CopKltfht. IP 11. hy l.llliin ButMll.) V L'NTII, that bright, sunshtnj - afternoon when some ancient " philosopher began to consider the' lilies of the field King Solomon wm regarded uh the sartorial model of the : world. Solomon was resplendent In purple and fine linen, Interspersed with a Tew assorted brilliant ribbons and enough rubles and emeralds to add ' weight to his already overburdened shoulders for old he not have S00 wives? Suddenly It was discovered that for . simon-pure loveliness Solomon couldn't compare with the Illy, which arrayed . Itself In cool green and the whlta Of purity, and the discovery n o passed on down through the centuries to u. If Solomon couldn't improve on nis personal appearance with tne aia oi a heavy pair of oriental portieres what ehanre has a poor alrl. without ma aid of the wisdom which was divinely ' given to the late lamented King of v Israel? And It Is Just'ss'true today as It v was then. The oyertiressea, nuui-.. .,: heavy -woman Is an abomination thesu , days, mainly because the world Is at taining some degree of sense wlin us r increasing years and has discovered , that to he bnuitlful in the real sense- of the word one must be simple. u"here Is no doubt that elaborate 'ineisy does st tract attention to a worn- an. It does. Ami li somriimes i- ..." tracts attention that turns Itself Into... Jeers and gibes. And If there Is One : ; thine in the world a woman cant afford to be It Is an object of ridicule , ? No matter whether one Is plain Or attractive, simple clothes will enhance. her charms. - V Kvery one of us has laughed in de- rislon (generally secretly, but more ; often out loud. I am sorry to say) at . the poor, scrawny creature who drapes w herself with all the fancy clothes her ,s own or her husband's purse will al low. As a rule she merely attracts - . attention to her own unlovellness and ,( to her own angles. The same holds good of stout women, and when they run to frills and furbelows they are, :; funnier than anybody else. The scrawny pernor! may be pitiful, but the fat one always Is a Joke. ., ln addition to that fancy wearing npparel la in bad taste. In the average woman's life there are mighty few occasions where an elaborate toilette Is proper. None of these occasions occurs when t she goes downtown to work, and the v girl who dresses up for her dally toll certainly can't keep her mind on her Job. Business men, n rule, do not car ., for frilly women. They know for a . certainty that a woman who is too dressed up to move can't work prop- -; erly. ad so they don t want one or . that' kind around. Then. Imbued with the Ides of utili tarianism, they carry the same ideas ; Into their homes. They realize that , a wife who has anything more to do -than loll Abound can't d" It dressed up like a French doll. She has to dig--' card the purple and fine linen to scrub the floors or to bake a few biscuits for her famished lord and master. Of course. If she has nothing to do -but loll around she can go In for -clingy, lacy negligees, but In any other case It simply Isn't being done, that's - all. Consider the other girl the on who dresses simply hut ln good taste ' and who always looks fresh and coot -and sweet. She can go through tha most trying sort of days and emerge ' looking like she had Just Jumped OU of a bandbox. - It Is easier to keep clean when you are dressed simply. It Is easier to look better and feel better and act better. Simple gowns wll show off your good figure or your attractive proflla to so much better advantage than das- . zling gowns which call vociferous at tention to themselves. Your trim ankle won't be any trimmer by in- ' casement ln a gorgeous shoe in fact, It probably will look bulkier and not nearly so entrancing. And since it's a poor rule that won't work both ways once in a while, a simple gown Is the boon of the unat- . tractive miss. It doesn't attract un due attention to Its wearer's lack of ' charms and It does stamp her at a person of good taste and refinement, which, after all. Is more Important than personal beauty. Clothes may not make the man (or woman), as an old proverb has It, but they make all of her but hands and face during th hours when she Is to be seen abroad. They'll either make you or break you, and you'll find that the simpler they are the better they ; make you look. No matter how pretty the girl, if stie Is fussily dressed she always suffers In comparison beside the girl who wears simple, appropriate clothes. daughters to make marriages for Iro- aginary positions and great wealth. Many of these marriages proved most disastrous and these unfortunate girls found, too late, that they had neither , money nor position, and that there was nothing before them but a life of un happiness and discomfort. If mothers would impress upon their sons and daughters the gravity Of re sponsibility in selecting a companion for life and teach them from their youth that there were many things that were of greater Importance and more to be desired than gold, they would act far more wisely. The possession of money alone doss not bring happiness. On the contrary. it sometimes brings great sorrow to i many persons who made desperate ef forts to obtain It. It Is very convenient to have money, but It is not always necessary to one's happiness If there be a proper appre ciation of intelligence and true nobil ity of character and conscientious sense of moral responsibility. It is claimed that a few people know ( each other when they enter Into the j bonds of matrimony, and the probabil ities are that this Is quite true. It v sometimes takes a great while to real- , 4 ize this fact and to know what to do , to remedy the mistakes which ws make. If unions are based upon no higher 1 motives than the attaining of riches, -little can be expected for the future happiness of the parties to such l , union, as adversity Is almost aura . to come at some time In the lives f most people, and when fortune has -taken wings they have nothing to fall back upon but disappointment and dla:., content, they are to be pitied, ,. Ties a-hould be based upon somstning , . more enduring than pleading fortune.' t tv-V V ; r "