"1" 0 .12 THE OREGON DAILY JOURNAL', PORTLAND, THURSDAY EVENING, AUGUST 24, 1911. Topic-roIntere I m SOCIETY 1 HETTY GREENS SON DEFENDS ASTOR J 1 i V ' Ur. nd Ura AV. E. Robertaon, tha feflaaea Nan and Mary Robcrtaon and David and i(aok Robertson ara to leave jrorUfuia iWU woww urum vvwa 1 year's trip around the world. , They will take paeans" from San Pr&nclsco on the eleventh for Haytl, going- from there to New Zealand, then to Australia, and to Europe by way of India or South Africa. " Mrs. John A. Keating entertained In formally with a box party at the Helllg yesterday afternoon for Miss Sally May Aiken, her oouatn rrom ueorana. iea followed at the Portland. ' MfM Nellie Wllllama, daughter of the -. lata Oeorge H. Wllllama, accompanied by her brother, Theodore Wllllama, la planning to early In October for Europe. wher ahe will remain a year. Cards have been reoelred for the wed , fling- of Mi fa Grace Antoinette Peaatno to lry Richards, to be celebrated at high noon In Cape May, N. J., on Sat urday, September I. MIbs Pesaano li ,' a Detroit grlL the daughter of Mr. and Jffra Antonio C Peasano. and the mar riage la to take place at their summer borne. ' Mr. Richards la a Philadelphia who was connected with the 8nanton Realty company In Portland for a eou- . pie of years some foul- years ago. Af ter November Mr. Richards and his ' bride will be at home In Fredericks burg, Vs.. 'Where he Is In charge of hla : father's railroad Interests. e Mrs. B. D, Smith with her daughter, Miss Laura Smith, left last evening for a visit at the Hotel Oearhart, and with .Mrs. N. E. Ayr, who Is occupying a cottage at the baaoh. Mrs. P. J. Man has Invited guests for farewel) reception tomorrow af ternoon in Tionor of Rev. and Mr a. Tracy Orlawold of the First Presbyterian church. T'V : e e Mr. and Mrs. John D, Peters are en tertaining as the bouse guests at Lake wood Mr. and Mrs. Gordon Garfield yadden of Ban Francisco. Mr. and Mrs. Fadden made their home in Portland four years ago and number many friends hero who will welcome their re turn. The Faddeni will travel through the sound country and In British Col- umbla before returning home. They will remain here three weeks and already a number of affairs have been planned for Mrs. Fadden. Mrs. O. F. Sanborn returned Tuesday, from the east, where ah has been for stoma time. Mr. and Mrs. Sanborn are planning to spend the winter In Chi cago. .. ... Mrs. C. A. Bcott was hostess at a charmingly original affair Saturday af ternoon whan about 10 guests responded to her Invitations to a flower party. The porch was prettily decorated with potted plants and hanging baskets and It was there that the afternoon was en- . Joyed. An old fashioned well with its bucket and long sweep was built on the lawn and the punch was served from there-'Each guest dressed to represent a different flower and many beautiful . costumes wcfm, In evidence. : Mies Anna Hedstrom wot the prise for the best representation; a black eyed Susan.' Mrs. T. S. Hansen, - Mrs. Eastman of Call fornla, Mrs. Herts and Miss Belle Tate won the prises in the games. Mrs. Bcott was assisted in receiving by her daugh ter, Miss Helena Scott They were as sisted In the serving by Mrs. Ralph Charleston, Mlas Belle Talt Miss Anna Jled0rom and Miss Kareen Hansen. Mr. and Mrs. Albert Feldenhelmer are among the many traveling In the Can adian Rockies. Mr. and Mrs. Charles Feldenhelmer with their daughter are In California, where Miss Feldenhelmer has been placed In a prlvata school, e Mft and Mrs. Frank Raley are home from their journey through Yellowstone National park. e e Miss Stella Wolfe is the guest of Miss Minnie Fleischnor at Seaside. Hugh Hume was a guest of the Flelsehners several days last week. Invitations have been received toftha wedding of Miss Elsie Conklln Burrls of Oregon City, to Edwin Burton Aldrich, on Thursday evening, September T. Mr. Aiaricn is an O. A. C. graduate and edl tor of the East Oregonlan, Pendleton. Julius Ashelm, connected wfth the Washington Trust company of Spokane, jie at the Oregon for a few days. ..... j tj l '- 1 , i 3r SHI V- -i If i ' j, l it V '' iJe9& A 1 v ? The latest photograph of Colonel John Jacob Astor and Mb fiance, Mies Madeline Force. (United Press Leasts' Wire.) New York, Aug. 24. Colonel Edward Howland Robinson Green, son of Hetty Green and millionaire In his own right, who today entered his forty-fourth year still a bachelor, but with the announced Intention of taking unto himself a. wife Just as soon as the right woman Is found, announoed that he will have no mall order bride In his. . The eolonel de clares that the thousands of young women all over the oountry.who have been proposing to him by fetter and telegram might Just as well save their postage and tolls. "I'm going to meet the woman I marry, in Uie regular-and time honored way, or else wo won't meet." asserted the colonel with an air of finality, "just because my name is Green these young ladles who have been writing me need not think I am. Colonel Green also has some decided views on the As tor-Force wedding. "It is Colonel Astor'a business, not mine. This is a free country and the young woman Colonel Astor is to marry seems pleased and happy. What' right have a lot of scandal mongers," Col onel Green became heated at this point and spoko with vigor "to Impute wrongful motives to either of them 7 It Is muoh worse for a preacher like Dr. Richmond to oritlolse than for a lay man. The Bible says 'Judge not' and I think that a demagogic clergyman like Richmond, setting out to spoil a young girl's romance, is guilty f a far greater sin than Astor ever dreamed of. It Is her Ufa and she has a right to or- der it as she pleases. Mr. and Mrs. Samuel Rosenblatt and family have . returned from Oearhart Beach. The Louis Rosenblatts will oc cupy their cottage for the remainder of the summer, Mr. and Mrs. William 8. Mao Phail. prominent musicians or Minneapolis have been spending the past week wifn Mr. and Mrs.' Frank O. Elohenlaub at Traume cottage, Seaside. Mr. Mao Fhsll and. Mr, Eichenlaub were colleagues dur ing 'their student days In Prague and Brussels several years ago. Mr. Mao Fhall was recently married to Miss Margaret Gilmars, a prominent pianist Of Minneapolis, and they are now mak ing a tour of the United States. Mrs. M. Baruh Invited a few friends in on Monday to enjoy an informal aft ernoon with Mrs. M. Berkley of Pendle ton, who is the guest of her sister, Mrs. Hal i Dickson. Sweetpeas and nastur tiums gave added eharm to the roomal Miss Frieda Baruh assisted in receiving the guests, who were Mrs. Berkley, Mrs. C. & Jackson, Mra Thomas Q. Hatley, Mrs, 8. DeStain of Pendleton, Mra. Al bert Wursweller, Mrs. Harry Johnson, Mrs. Charles Kahn and Mrs. J. Uurk-fcelrqer. Sending Son and Daughter to College T By Dorothy Dlx. HIS Is the time of the year when i always feel like going apart into some convenient wailing place and uttering loud and heart ieit lamentations, for it. is the season when thousands of poof, mis guided parents are preparing to make their annual sacrifice upon the altars or weir children's alleged education, In oountlesa homes all over the land mother Is turning off the hired airl ana cutting down the grocery bill, and paring the potatoes a Uttls thinner, aud making the ooffea at little weaker, and Planning now sne can do without a new dress and wear her last winter's flan nels, and out out every possible com fort and luxury In order that daughter may De sent off to Miss Boakem's school for young ladles. And father Is girding his huncer belt a little tighter about him, and working a little harder, and looking a little bit more weary and careworn and hump shouldered every day, and he Is wear ing his last summers suit and smok ing Stogies instead of ctsars. and eat. ing a sandwich instead of a good lunch in order that he may Bend son off to collage. SWITZERLAND HAS HER ; FIRST WOMAN MINISTER Geneva, Aug. HA woman has for the first time appeared in a Swiss pul pit. She is Vrauleln Ven Petsoid of )ierln. HOTEL STEWART SAN FRANCISCO Geary Streetabore Union Square . , Juit eppesitt Bold St. raalf , " European Plan $1.60 day no American Plan 3.00 a day up r rrl !!rl!5?ckruetMri- Furnished t cast si 1200,000. Ever eomort and ceo. vemsocs. On certifies transferring ail over rttv. Omnikus rawts trains jns steamers. hr u4 fot iieoklet with mas of San fraaciac When I contemplate these sublime saortficea, I never know which I want to do most, to kneel down and kips the feet of these misguided parents or to rise up and bat them over the heads for not having more practical sense, for 81 times out of 100 all of the suf fering and toll and deprivation that fathers and mothers undergo for the sake of the children's education is ab' solutely wasted. All that the finishing school fines for daughter la to fill her head with an exaggerated Idea of the Importance of dress and society, and to make her mad for pleasures that she can never have, and to generally unfit her for me me -sne is destined to lead. All that son brings baak from eoltege Is a college yell and purple ooat and a duu pup, ana a aeiuea conviction that he knows mors than the "old man." If all girls and boys were certified geniuses; u were was even a certainty that not being geniuses they were made for knowledge and were bending every nerve and energy to make the most of the opportunities given them, there wuuiu oe some jusurication in parents' working themselves to death U order to send their children to expensive onoois. As a plajn matter pf fact, however, the great majority of boys and girls have small Interest In education for education's sake, and the err eat ma jority of them when sent off to college pena met . time in amusing them selves Instead of Improving their minds. This being the ease, it seems' to me that it is time for parents to quit sac rificing themselves to the fetich of their children'! educations. The Juggernaut car of the college has rolled over enough prostrate forms of poor fath ers and mothers and crushed them Into the grave. The present admirable publlo school system of any of our cities furnishes Just as much education as the aver age boy and girl has a mind to take. After that the . parents shoulud hall from Missouri and before they deprive inemseives and their other children of the comforts of life to give further ed ucatlonal advantages to a boy or girl, he or she should be required to give unmistakable proof of unusual fitness for some particular calling that would require special training, There ara two things upon which parents stand In need of enlightenment. One Is that all education does not come put up in school packages, and branded witn the name of a famous university on it. xne most important part of. our education la not what we get from books, but what life and work and our fellow men teach us. The successful business men of this age have not been trained in colleges but have got their education in store and shop and counting room. Nor need poor parents feel that because they cannot sena tnetr children off to ool leges they are depriving them of the opportunity or developing the r minds In this day of cheap books and free libraries anybody can gat all the cul ture they can assimilate, and some of tno most learned people In the world are self educated. The second point that parents should bear In mind Is the necessity of really trying to find put whether their off. spring are geese or swans before they offer themselves up as sacrifices be fore them. If yJu are utterly sure urn i aaugnter or son nas every one of the earmarks of genius, there la some excuse for going hungry to send her or him to Paris to study music or art, but if her voice Is only fit for the village choir and his art only rises as high as sign painting, doesn't the pathos of all your sacrifices and all the deprivations you have endured to give them advantagea beaome bathos and instead or being a hero, don t you feel that you have been a bloomlng-ldiotT its time ror parents to look at this matter sensibly and to realise that If a boy or girl wanta the higher educa tion he or she will get it, and any way that the college course that is bought at the prloe of the father's and mother's additional toll and lack of pleasure ana comrori eostg 10O muoh, Why Suspenders Are Disappearing. Suspenders seem no longer to be a necessity In man's apparel. This Is not aue to the vogue of the belt, but to a new way of cutting the trousers. Rom. one has invented a new cut that shapes them ta the hips and gives a close' ft at the waist line, thus holding the gar ment In place without tdntttonal sun. Dart, . k t Telephone Politeness By Peggy Van Braam. The telephone bell purred noisily and. lifting the receiver from the hook. heard a shrill voice calls 'Well, my goodness, you took long enough to an swer that phone. Is that Katler "No," I .answered quietly, "It's not Katie. What number did you wantT" "What number is thatT" my unseen companion demanded, and when I gave it. wiinout apoiogy or tnanns, tna snriu voice said: "Well, that's wrong. Get off the wire. Central! Hello, Central, you gave me the wrong number, If too g-iris I hung up without listening to, the re mainder Of the speech, yet as I turned away I could not help wondering If that woman had ever heard of the cam palgn now being waged all over the country for telephone politeness, or, if she had, if she felt that she was one of those for whom no rebuke was needed for her words sent so sharply ovethe humming wires. Wo most of us dp feel that way and are prone to give our ir ritation free rein in talking, to unseen auditors. Why? Is it simply because we know we cannot be identified that we feel at liberty to say what we please? la it because there is no foroe of personality back of the voice that issues so mys teriously from the receiver to make ua want to be courteous? Or Is it simply that we, in the rush of modern days and the haste of whioh the telephone Is really a part, have forgotten how to be courteous and begrudge an eitra word or two necessitated by a "thank you" or "if you please?" It's odd, Isn't It, how the telephones do bring out the wrong side of feminine dispositions? For I admit it, with re gret, the rude person on the wire Is more often a woman than a man. Don't you think so? Even with due respect to your sex For len'tTlt always a woman who "visits with a friend" on a party wire. and talks the longer the more often she hears the impatient click of someone else sighing to use the phone? Isn't It usually -the woman who snaps back, "I don't believe It," If central saya the wire Is busy? And Isn't it usually the woman who refuses belligerently to give her name In response to a quiet request for it In an office or place where names ara required by the rules? And len t H but there, why go on? If it Is the women, then so much the better;' for It offers us a chance to do away with It For If we have formed the habit of discourtesy, we oan also without much more difficulty form the habit of courtesy. . st st K To Wash Silk Stockings. It ts something of a puzzle how to wash silk stockings successfully, but the following method has been used with, satisfactory results: Make soapsuds of lukewarm water and a good grade of soap. Do not use hot water as it destroys the life of the silk. Rinse In clear, cold water -until free from all soap, then pull the stockings lengthwise and press with warm Iron, never a hot ona They will be as glossy aa when new, H St t Fringe Promises to Be Fall Fad. Yards and yards of fringe are being used by the French dressmakers, and it la said that this old-fashioned trim ming will play an Important part In autumn fashions. One frock, recently Imported from Paris, has narrow fringe around and round the skirt in spiral effect, and the coat is elaborate ly trimmed with the same fringe. Fringe is used also on sash ends, and ven on the bottom of narrow tailored skirts, and some of the new hats have fringe In rows around the crown. ST; PAUL GIRL MARIS TIKI DIPLOMA J ' (Sperinl to The ftmrsaLt St. Paul, Minn., Aug. 34. The mar riage of Miss Josephine Kalman, daugh' ter of Mr, and Mra Arnold Kalman ol this city, to Richard Edward Blacque Bey, chancellor of the Turkish embassy In Berlin, took place this afternoon, in the St. Paul cathedral, in the presence of nearly 1000 guests, ;, among them many persons of. prominence from va rious parts of the. United States and Europe. Mies Ceollla Kalman was her sister's maid or honor and among the brides maids was Lady Kathleen Beresford, daughter of Admiral Lord Charles Beresford, Following .the ceremony at the cathedral the wedding party and guests attended a large reception at the horns of the bride's parents. The bridegroom, who was born in the Tjnlted States, while hla father was serving as Turkish minister In Washing-ton, .belongs to a distinguished Otto man noble family end is regarded as one or tne ooming men of the sultan's diplo matic servloe. The bride to today flrat met the hey two years ago when vislU ing Berlin as the guest of Secretary and Mra Soholle of the Amerloan em bassy. She was presented at the kais er's court and created considerable of sensation among the .military and aristocratic set on account of her Gib son -grirl style. VATICAN STARTS WAR ON HOBBLES-LOW NECKS (United Prass Iaums Wtra.i Rome, Aug. J4. An energetio crusade has been started by the Vatican against the wearing of tight skirts and ex as. gerated decolletes, which have become the vogue In Italian society. it is complained that so outrageous are some of the garments worn by wo men worshippers at mass that the faithful are distracted from their de votions thereby. Throughout Italy the clergy are preaching against what they term Indecent foibles. MBS CLEVELAND TO T'S WED WES ON (Hotted Prass Leased Wtre.l New York. Aug. Si, Society here to day Is greatly interested in the report that Miss Ksther Cleveland, eldest daughter of the late president, Is soon to marry Randolph D. West, son of ' President West of Princeton univer sity. It Is stated that the wedding will take place In October and that the young coupie win live in iew i-Jneiana. Mrs. Cleveland so far has refused to confirm or deny the report, but its cor rectness is not doubted. ENGLISH JURIST RULES WHIST IS GAMBLING (United Prass Usa4 Wlre,t London, Aug. li. 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