TOE SUNDAY OKEGOXIAX. PORTI,ATfD, MAT 19,1919. Whyyoa PhouldritBe IT TOTJ vr find yourself la tears or In a Qt because Charlie. Ned or who ever your husband la. has asked oma Won a for several iiaftt In one evening, or yoa cave aaan him lit off la one corner having a pleasant chat and a hearty laugh with aome other woman. Jut stop and think; remember that Charlie waa not your only suitor and you accepted hie proposal 6cai besides haflni other sterling qualities. be waa well liked by the men and girls both. Too certainly do not nim to keep up with hla men acquaintance and forget every gin rriena n. and liked because he wanted you for his wife. Ynu -a t that this la only one of many ways In which men arouee a pans; of Jealousy wblch they hav no right to awaken. Tour husband sometimes tells vnti K - k- to vArk occasional 1 y of evenings: yoa are willing to forgive this seeming neglect as Ion as It Is only occasional. But when a man works more than one evening In the week you think ha must be watched. So yoa proceed to watch him and play the part of a careful and cautious detective. You saw him slip a letter Into his pv ket and not open It until you had left tha room. Tou know It mum ba a letter from that flirtatious Helen or Louis ha onca admired, so you proceed to search through his pockets, and. though It sometimes takes a lonr search, yoa catch him at last. Tha letter Is torn, but, after much hard work, you succeed In putting enough pieces together and find a business letter. Beat Ceur far asaaad's Felly. But. should your husband go as far as to Indulge In some fooiian but harm leas fllrtatloa with a girl he formerly knew sr has Just met, you can newer bring- him to his senses by letting him feel that yoa distrust him and that he Is bo longer worthy of your love. If yon are sura that he has gone too far tha bast way to core him of this folly Is to make this gtrl or woman your friend and let them both feel thst If she Is worthy of your husband's friend ship she shall baft yours. Every sensible woman knows ths safest way of holding a man's love Is by convincing him that, while he has many friends among women, you are his real comrade and that your lovs and happiness coma before everything lea. If yoa are so unfortunate as to fall In love and ba married to a Jealous man. understand his weakness, but do not encourage him In It- There Is no need of trying him out by engaging In as many flirtations as you can. But In a quiet and womanly way let Mm feel. If be cannot understand by firm words, that you promised to be his wife, wits all that this can mean, but nothing was ever said about your friends before yoa were married. Tell him If yoa must that every maa la attracted to a popular girl, and It Is hard for a popular girl to become a aua or a wall flower Just because she Is married. Let htm know a little Jealousy Is flattery, but If this feeling Is la excess It la foolish and often danger COS. Tree Lev a Mesjepoll. One writer says truly: "True lore Is a monopolist. As In a sunglass all tha solar rays are concentrated Into on burning foeus, aa arc the lover a mo tlons on his beloved. Not only does he care for her alone of all women, but he voluntarily offers her a monopoly of hi thoughts and feelings. In return for this, however, he expects and exacts cf her a like monopoly of her affec tions and favors, snd this leads to tha net overtone. Jealousy. TMs Is the salt and pepper of lova A little of It Is piquant, too much spoils t-e soup. The moral mission of Jeal ousy Is by mesne of watchfulness and the Inspiring of fear, to Insure fldeMty and chastity, and thus he:p to develop the romantic features of love." It was because of this feeling of ownership of one or more wlvee that man developed the deelre to protect s-me wotr.an and developed a feeling of love. It Is an Instinct found In many of the higher memmala. along with savaere man. Iarwln. who made a rareful study of tre feellnce and pas sions bf animals, eays: -The skeletons BLACKBEARD thst they bad better repent of their wickedness, on of the pirate spoke aa follows; -Tea, I do heartily repent: I repent that I have not don mora mischief, and that we did not cut th throats of those that took us: and I'm extremely sorry yoa ain't all handed, a wU aa W.' So do L" says another. "And V says a third. -These speeches concluded th apeechmaktng. except one abort address from renals Macarty. - "Some friend of mine have said that I would dt with my shoes on, but they ar liar.' said he. as b kicked off his shoes." Captain England was on of th pirates who reformed but whose refor mation didn't "take." As a young maa he was th mat of sloop out of Jamaica and was cap tared by Captain Winter, a plrat. Just before their settlement at New Provi dence. England was said to b a good natured man who always treated bis prisoners well. Also, he wss not avari. clous, and was content with moderate plunder. But he was weak and was generally overruled by his crew, and thus was led Into doing many vile actions that he would hav preferred Dot to do. For example, while the captain was liratlng near Sierra Leon, on th African coast, he captured th Cado f xn. Captain Skinner, master. . Now. Ciptala Skinner user! to be la command of a ship on which some of Captain P.nittand's pirates serve.!, and one of the Utter, a cruel boatswain, was de l::Med to see bis plil master la this h-ir ' He stored at Captain Skinner, snd epoke with a savase leer. )h. Captain Skinner! la It you? The only nn I wished to see: I am verv much in your debt, and now I shll pay you all in your own cola." The poor captain trembled In every Joint, but not for lonr: for the wicked .tra-.e tied him to the wtmllass and re!:d him with glass bottles: thm they whipped him about, the deck till they 1 err tired anJ then they said that be--auM r has been such a good master be should have sa eay dn'.a, and so eh"t him through the bead. Charles Vane waa th plrat who st stags are often found In various parts of ths world with their horns In extricably locked together, showing how miserably ths victor and van quished have vanished. Mai sperm whales are very Jealous, and In their battles they often lock their Jaws to gether and turn on their sides and twist about so that their lower Jaws often become distorted." Animal Jealousy differs from human Je:ousy because It depends on the Im mediate presence of the rival, while Jealousy with man and women Is large ly a matter of Imagination snd Is awakened In the absence of the husband or lover. Jealeasy !ot Fart af Lev. This passion, though not an Integral part of love, precedes It. and there are only a few primitive tribes where men are eo Indifferent to their wives that too much attention to some other maa does not awaken a pang of Jealousy. Sir John Lubbock once came upon an Indian trine where the men fight for the possession of women Just like stags, and this Ire is awakened by pangs of real Jealousy. In Madagascar the name for polygamy Is fampovafesans, and this means "causing enmity." In modern Persia, where men have a number of wives, they often have a hard Urn keeping harmony among the different wives. If there are a number of women Inhabiting the one house they have their own apartments, their own servants, and they refuse to touch the ft .- -j,- .j gowns or to at out of the same dish with a rival. Starting among th lowest tribes such as the Fueglacs there Is much Jealousy to be found. Strangely, the men show much mora feeling of this kind than the women, and this because they look upon thelr'women as property to do with as they Ilka They are so Jealous of their women that they will not allow anyone. If they can help It, to enter their huts, not even young boys. Among some Australian tribes ths wo men are not allowed to talk to a maa excepting their husbands. They are not allowed to exchange a word with a grown-up brother. However unettrao tlvs a woman of the Veddahe of Cey. Ion Is. the men ar exceedingly Jealous of her. It Is sal.! that when In a fit of temper they will kill a rival for pay ing too much attention to on of their women. A writer who has spent" soma time AND OTHER PIRATE CHIEFS CONTINUED FROM PACE 4 soaped from Nassau harbor when Cap tain Woode Roger sailed In. As he sailed out be biased sway at the Brit ish warships la a most gallant manner, and w ar led to believe that he waa a most courageous pirate. But one day. after be had been pirating consid erably, he came la sight of a big French mxn of war, about ten times a b:g as Vane's little brlgantlne. Vane was for making olf In a great hurry, but Joha Rockham, another officer, waa In favor of tackling the big man-of-war. Vane said It waa too rash an undertaking, and. being captain, his word was law. So the brlgantlne sailed away, and soon was out of sight of the man-of-war. The next day the captain's behavior waa obllccd to stand th teat of a vote, lie was recalled, a resolution was passed branding him as a coward, de posing him from command, and turning him odt of the company In disgrace. Bo Van and his supporters ware put on board a small sloop, while Rockham assumed command of th brlgantln. A few months later, after he had pi rated more or less la his small sloop, te vessel was overtaken by a tornado off the coast of Honduras, and the luckless pirates were cast upon a small uninhabited Island For several weeks Uiey lived there, subsisting an fish and turtles, until one day a ship put la for water. It was commanded by a buc caneer named Ho. ford, wh was aa acquaintance of Vane. This seemed a great plc of luck for Van, and h at one asked his old friend to giv him a Utt off th Island. Uo'.frd refused Vherles. I shan't trnst yoa aboard my ship, unless I carry yo a prisoner, for I shall hav you caballing with my men. knock m on the head and run off with my ship a-plratlng." Van protested on his word of honor, but Captain HolforJ was too well ac quainted with him to bellv him. "Tou can easl'.y And a way to get off If you v a mind to," said Holford "I am going down th bay." says he. "and shall return hither in about a month, and If I And you en the Island when I come back. I'll carry yoa to Jamaica and hantr you." "Which way can I get off?" answers vn- . . . "Ar there not fishermen s dories up on the beach? Can t you tak on of them?" replies Holford -What:" says Vans, "would yoa hav m steal a dory?" -I ya mak It a matter of con studying the Indians on the eastern slds of tha Rocky Mountains says that these men. when they find their wives deeply Interested In a rival, make short work of their flirtation. This Is dona by cutting off ail the hair from their heads, and occasionally their noses. If they do not chance to have a knife at 'A '7- ) Jealousy Has Caused More Crime and Suf fering in the World, Beginning With Eden, Than Any Vice. hand they do not hesitate to snap It off at one bite. Among the New Caledonians and New Zealanders It Is considered a crime to be punished bv death to mention an other man's wife. With the Malays of Sumatra the husband Is Jealous of his wife as long as he has any affection for her. She knows that when he Is no longer Jealous all feeling of love that he once had for her Is gone. Boaman. who spent some time study ing the people of Bent Mxab. says that a man who stops In tha street and speaks to a woman of quality can be fined 40 and can be banished for two years. In Persia. Turkey and In many other oriental countries It Is considered a terrible breach of eltquette for a guest or friend ven to Inquire after the wife of another, let alone to ask to see her. This request would awaken a feeling of awful Jealousy. Le Bon. who made a study of the so- science." said Holford, "to steal a dory, when you have been a common pirate and robber, stealing ships and cargoes and plundering all mankind that fell In your wayT Stay here. If you are so squeamish." And so left him. After Captain Holford's departure another ship put In at th Island for water, and Van got a berth on this vessel. mfortunately, this ship met Captain Holford's ship on day. and the captain cam aboard to dine. As he passed along to tha cabin he chanced to cast his eye down the hold, and there saw Charles Vane at work, lie Immediately spoke to the captain, saying. "Do yoa know who you hav got aboard hrr "Why," says th othr oaptxln. "I hav shipped a man who was east away on an Island In a trading a'oop. He seems to be a brisk hand." "I tell you," says Captain Holford, "It Is Van, th notorious pirata" "If It be htm." replies th othr. T won't keep him." "Why. taen," says Holford. Til send and tak Mm aboard and surrender him at Jamaica" So Captain Holford took his old friend Vane to Jamaica, wher h was convicted and hanged. It Is to be pre sumed that Captain Holford at last was satisfied he had don hi duty. Th plrat In thos days were well rgnlxed and had an established cod of bualnas ethlca For example. Cap tain Bartholomew Roberta, a famous pirate, had th following set of articles which each of his plrat crew was obliged to accept under oath. Why he thought an oath would make th agree ment more binding, we don't know; but It I evident he thought greater se curity would be Insured by an oath. "It Is to every one's Interest to ob serve these articles. If they ar minded to keep op so abominable a combina tion." h salJ. Article L Every man has a vot in affairs of moment: has equal title to tho fresh provision or strong liquors at any time selxed. and may use them at pleasure, unless scarcity make It necessary, for the good of all, to vot a retrenchment. Art. II. hlvery man to b called fair ly In turn, by list, on board of prizes, because lover and above their proper share) thev were on these occasions al lowed a shift of clothes- But If they defrauded the company to the value of a dollar. In plate. Jewels or money, ma roorlng was their punishment. This waa a barbarous custom of put- v-rf''' clal life among th orlentarraees. says that Jealousy la a powerful agent In tha social life of civilised nations. This Is shown, by th fact that In Moham medan countries a woman Is not al lowed to receive male visitors, or to go unveiled. It being unlawful for th Moslem to sea tha faces of any other women than those whom h is for bidden to marry and his own wives and female slaves.- A man who penetrates Into ths harem of any other man may easily lose his life. In Japan It Is often the custom for women to have their eyebrows shaved off, because thick and beautiful eyebrows are con sidered a mark of beauty and often at tract other men than their husbands. It is for ths same reason that their teeth are stained black. Th blacken ing of their teeth makes them less at- ting th offender oa snore on some desolate or uninhabited cap or island with a gun. a few shot, a bottl of water and a bottl of powder, to sub sist with or starve. If th robbery was only between en another, they contented themselves with slitting th ears and nose of him that was guilty and setting him on shore, not In an uninhabited place, but somewhere where he was sure to encounter hard ships Art. in. No person to gam at cards or die for money. Art, IV. Th lights and candles to be put out at o'clock at night. If any of th crew after that hour still remained inclined for drinking, they wer to do It on tha open deck. Captain Roberts believed this would check their debauchee. He was a sober man himself, but found at length that all hla endeavors to put an end to their debsuchery proved Ineffectual. Art V. To keep their piece, pistols and cutlasses clean and fit for service. Art. VI. No boy or woman to be al lowed among them. If any man car ried a woman to sea disguised he was to suffer death. It seamed that Captain Roberts re garded a woman as a dangerous In strument of division and quarrel. Art. VII. To desert th ship or their quarter In battle was punished with death or marooning. Art. V1IL No striking on another on board, but every man's quarrels to be ended on shore, at sword and pistol. Art, IX. No man to talk of breaking up their way of living till each has snared $5000. If, In order to do this, any man should lose a limb or become a cripple In their service, h was to hav $800 out of th publlo stock, and for lessor hurts proportionately. Art. X. Th captain and quartermas ter to receive two shares of a prlxe; th master, boatswain and gunner, one share and a half, and other officers, one and a quarter. Art. XL Th musician- to have rest on th Sabbath day. but th other six days and nights move without special favor. Th foregoing list of articles, copied from Johnson's "History of Pyrates," are Interesting, as Indicating th dis cipline necessary on a pirate ship. When we. who wer out exploring pirate Islands, arrived In Nassau, it waa with the knowledge that w wr treading upon historic pirate territory. The events immediately following our arrival were most piratical In nature, for a mutiny broke out In our ship, one of th crew got drunk and accidentally walked the plank, and there were many other happenings of a most exciting nature. Wa certainly were in th pi rate atmosphere, as shall be described In th succeeding story. J S"4 ft I tractlve to all men, even to their hus bands. This feeling of Jealousy led to the custom of having th women burned on the funeral pyres with their JUVENILE ORDER OF KNIGHTHOOD th helpless child and h was being carried out Into th river at a rapid rat when Homing, dashing from th bank, swam to him with th agility of a fish. But young Fred, after con tinued effort, found that he was not strong enough to tow the unfortunate ashore. Instead of abandoning the crlppl until other help could reach him he went to the bottom, grasped th lad by the legs and after difficult maneu vering, with his own head under water, managed to lift the boy on his should ers, so that the tatter's head might be lifted above tb surface. This dif ficult position he maintained nntli his scout commissioner reached th seen and completed the rescue. Six other Maryland scouts have late ly entered the same category of heroes by performing similar acts of courage. They are: Earl Cummins, of Baltimore, who plucklly saved the life of a swim mer who had gone under three times after, having been drawn In a suck hole; Scouts B. Dushana, H. Ensor and Bosley Ensor, of Mount Washington, who saved a swimmer by a concerted act of daring, and Gordon Gommer, of Baltimore, who rescued a skater who had fallen through the loe. Scout Gom mer swam to-the latter victim through freezing water and bravely held him up while other boys, elapsing hands, formed a life-chain which reached th young rsouer befor h became x-. hausted. Still other lads who hav lately been admitted to the Boy Scouts" hall of fame are: Charles Scruggs, Cuero, Te.x, who saved a fellow-scout from tha Guadalupe River: Walter William Waller, of Brooklyn, who with great heroism rescued a drowning boy and a dog from th water; Willie Hoyt, East Bridgewater, Mass, who, support ed only by som small twigs and de spite bis heavy rubber boots, delivered a companion from a watery grave, and Virgil Chambers, Barboursvllle, W. Va., who performed a. similar courageous water rescue. Drag see Hint TJader Twice. On of thee plucky scout medalists, desplt th fact that he Is only IS, came to th rescue of a grown man at Clayton. N. J. This was Charles Starr, of Woodbury, In th same state. H hung on despite th fact that th drowning man dragged him under twice. Then there is a UtU soout up in Buf- J Jcalow 1 0ImaMfon j JcWMAI, if1 husbands. In days gone by the men of India were so Jealous of their wives that they made it an unwritten law that when they died th women must lay themselves on the pile and be burned with them. They could not bear the idea of having some rival en- CONTINUED FROM PAGE 4 falo. J. Alden Daniels, oals- 14. who baa won a cross of honor for proving himself an Ideal scout In the face of danger and great suffering. After he and a companion had saved William Simmons from death in the Niagara River about a half mile north of Fort Erie, Daniels was badly hurt at the time Dixie IV. the world's champion motor boat, ran ashore near Riverside Park, in Buffalo. His right leg was so badly crushed that ths surgeons were compelled to amputate It below the knee. - In th hospital after tha operation he was as brave and as cheerful as ever, and asked his mother to tell his Boy Scout friends not to send him any flow ers, because he did not wish them to spend tha money. Ha was gritty at all times throughout this awful ordeal and repeatedly said that Boy Scouts should smile even in suffering. Fear Brave Gopher Sceats. During th recent state camp at Br, Paul of the Boy Scouts of Minnesota the Governor of that commonwealth pinned upon the breasts of four young heroes crosses awarued by th National Court of Honor. One of these was a youngster of only 18. Glenn Dudley, of St. Cloud, Minn, who bravely saved the life of a swim mer who had been seised with cramps. After swimming to the victim's aid Scout Dudley brought him to shore, with great personal risk to himself. Another young scout of St. - Cloud decorated by the Governor at the same time was Walt hex Jerrard. 18 years old, who gives this modest account of his deed: "One afternoon I was swimming In the Mississippi River. We had a boom In the river making a 46-degree angle with the shore line. Th far end of th boom was about IS feet out, Th water was over your head. We had a small pole nailed to the top of the boom and from there to the shore, thereby hold ing the log in place. "I was on the side of the pole away from the boys when I heard th boys on shore yell. Looking around I saw Har ry Peterson struggling In th water. I started at once and In diving over the small pole I received a long scratch un der my left arm. I reached Harry and with one arm under his arms - and around his chest I got him Into shallow water, where he was taken by th other boys. "I think the boy lost confidence In himself finding he was in water over o ibb Joy their friendship and affection. For the same reason until recent times ths women In Polynesia and in Melanesia were strangled or burled alive as soon as they were left widows. If a woman objected to this harsh - - . . 1 M..M..t ..nwAfthV of any good man's affection. For the same reason, on the slave coast of Africa, when a woman Is left a widow, she Ib shut up In a room six months at least and Is not expected to look at any man, not even a relative. These examples and many ethers that may be given prove beyond a doubt that among primitive and ori ental peoples this feeling Is muoh mors common to men than It Is to women. The strange part of this Is that prim itive women seldom have any feeling of Jealousy, According to Mr. Reads, wh has spent years In equatorial South Afri ca, th women are th strongest be lievers in polygamy. "The more th merrier," they say. If a man marries and his wife thinks that he oannot af ford another wife she pesters him to take another, and if he declines to do so she taunts him and oalla him a stingy fellow. Livingstone told hla story about the women of the Makalolo: "Hearing that a man In England Is supposed to be satisfied with one wife, one of these women said: 1 could not live in such a country, where the men axe not wealthy enough to own more than one wife.' " Hodoe Wemea Want Company. Among the Modocs, of California, when the women are told that a man , should ba satisfied with on wife, ' they answer: "Our way is better, for we should be lonely If we had to be In a house alone." But still there are tribes where a second wife or rival is only accepted after some strict dis cipline on the part of the husband. The natives of Guiana often experi ence some stormy scenes when they decide to bring a second or third wife Into their homes. There have been cases where the first wife has been so aroused by a feeling of Jealousy and remorse that Bhe has committed sui cide. A missionary a .few years ago waa visiting among the FIJI Islanders, and he noticed that one woman was minus a noss. When he asked what had caused this accident he was told "It Is due to a plurality of wlvee, for Jealousy causes hatred, and then th stronger tries to cut off or to bit off th nose of th on she hates." Th men of ancient Oreec and Rom were also exceedingly Jealous of their wives. Th women- had their own apartments and never mingled with any men exoept their husbands and im mediate relatives. The Greeks were so jealous of women, especially if they had any claim to good looks, that they would not even allow them to attend any of the publlo spectacles whloh wer the chief means of Athenian culture. It would have been considered ex tremely unwomanly to have asked to attend any large banquet; this privi lege was only given to the hetaerae, who were generally the most emanci pated and brilliant women in those days. The wife was not even permit ted to eat with her husband. If any of his men friends were present sh was expeoted to retire to her rooms or some other part of the house. his head. But he himself oould not give, an excuse. He was going down for the third time when 1 reached him." This testimony waa verified te the National Court of Honor by witnesses of the rescue. The third of these especially honored knights of the Gopher state. George Morris, upon seeing two children 4 and 6 years old fall from an overturned boat. Jumped overboard, Bwam to their rescue and kept them both afloat at once until assistance came from shore. Faille- Cliff. The remaining member of this plucky quartet is Edward Grout, mem ber of the Sioux patrol, Daytons Bluff, Minn. Grout lately led bis troop on a hike to Battle Creek, a few miles from , Daytons Bluff. Here the boys hit upon the Idea of damming the creek, and a party of them began to pile stones while Grout and Floyd Rogers, another scout, went around by a path to a point above the proposed dam. At that point Is a Jagged cliff, and Grout began te chisel out the soft sandstone Just under the path that led down th cliff and let it ran down to the boys below. Rogers came along the path above Grout's head and stepped on the spot that waa undermined, and Grout, seeing th sand cave In, Jerked hla head back out of danger Just in time to see Rogers pitch headlong through the air and straight for the edge of th ollff oa which he was sitting. He screamed, and ths falling bar stretched his hand toward him. Grout made a grab at the Imperiled boy's arm and caught him by the wrist with his left hand. At the same time he took hold of a small eak imbedded in the rock and braced himself Just In tim to prevent his being Jerked over the ollff by the shock. And there, with Rogers' body over the ollff and his companions below gazing in terror at his dangling legs, the pair hung. But the strain was too much for th oak and it began slowly to pull out by the roots. Grout felt it give, and now followed an awful moment of suspense. But presently the young hero braced his feet against a small projection In the rock and pulled Rogers upon the cliff Just as the tree gave way. Then, after a short rest, they gradually made their way down the path. If there be better stuff than is in these youngsters, verily. It will be hard to find! (Copyright, 1912, by John Elfreth Watklns.) m 108.0