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W e co m e from by M arian W right E delman b asically nothing, b ecau se o u r p a r­ T h ese are the w ords o f ents w ere in the sam e situ ­ an 18-year-old w ho recently atio n s that w e are,” he said. graduated from high school H is fath er had dropped in a high-poverty neighbor­ o u t o f s c h o o l in te n th h o o d in the n a tio n ’s c a p i­ g ra d e , a n d w h e n M ik e tal: “W here I live, w hich is s ta r te d h ig h s c h o o l h e W ard 7, ev ery o n e is the s a m e . . . If seem ed to be h eading dow n a sim i­ y ou follow th e crow d, y o u ’re going lar track: “N inety p ercen t o f the to en d up dead o r in ja il because school did th e sam e thing I did — th a t’s w here m o st o f th em are. B ut if skipped class, left school, and no y o u ’re a lead er and you m ak e your one seem ed to try to find ou t w hat ow n decisions, then you can set the p ro b lem w as.” H is grade point y o u r path fo r life.” average freshm an y e ar w as a 2.5, M ike R u ff had to m ake up his and at th e tim e his m ain am bition m ind a w hile b ack that he w as going w as to keep u p a D average so he to step up and becom e one o f the could graduate. leaders. T h a t’s w hat he told p artici­ B ut then he m et w ith M r. M ungin, p a n ts at th e re c e n t s y m p o siu m one o f the adults h e ’d m et through “ B lack M ale Teens: M oving to Suc­ an enrichm ent program he ’ d enrolled cess in the H igh School Y ears,” in during m iddle school, w ho asked sp onsored by the E ducational T est­ M ike how his plans for life after high ing Service and the C h ild re n ’s D e­ school w ere com ing. fense Fund. M ik e to ld M r. M u n g in h e ’d M ike ex plained how he cam e to started thinking about a career in e m b ra c e stan d in g o u t fro m th e h o spitality m anagem ent, and M r. crow d by d efying low exp ectatio n s M ungin asked to see his grades: — and how he reached a key turning “ So he lo oked at m y transcript, ju st point w hen a m en to r told him he fo r that ninth grade y e a r . . . saw m y c o u ld n ’t succeed. grades, D, D, B, D, D, A, and looked b ack up at m e w ith the straightest face and said, ‘Y ou c a n ’t do it.’ So that kind o f hurt m e, fo r a grow n m an tellin g m e that I can't do som ething. So then I ju s t g o t up, w alked out, and [caught] th e bus h o m e.” W ith som e uncarin g and u n in ­ terested adults, th a t’s ex actly w here the story w o u ld end. M ik e w ould have left disco u rag ed fro m h av in g a d ream at all. B u t that w a sn ’t M ik e ’s story: “B y the tim e I arriv ed hom e, there is M r. M u n g in alread y there. I w as w o n d erin g , w hy is this m an at m y ho u se after h e told m e that I c a n ’t do so m eth in g ?” h e said. M ik e h ad b een lucky en o u g h to find a true m en to r on a m ission. As M r. M u n g in talk ed to M ik e and his m o th er th at day h e w as able to show M ik e that o f course he b eliev ed he co u ld succeed, b u t he also knew the path M ike w as on so far w a sn ’t going to get him there. M ike took the m essage to heart. O th er m entors stepped in along the w ay to support him . B y eleventh grade M ike had b rought his G PA up to a 3.0, and by tw elfth grade, a 3.75. N ow M ike is attending T uskegee U niversity, a h istorically B lack un i­ v ersity in A la b am a fo u n d ed by B ooker T. W ashington and the alm a m ater o f the brilliant scientist G eorge W ash in g to n C arv er and m any other scholars and leaders, w here he plans to double m ajo r in hospitality m an ­ ag em en t and psychology. M ike know s that in his g rad u at­ ing class h e is one o f the lucky ones: “W e started o ff in this tw elfth grade w ith at least 300 students . . . but only 130 tw elfth graders graduated, h e said.” M r. M ungin help ed M ike realize h e n eeded to change, and every one o f the o th er young b lack m ale lead ­ ers on the panel — all college stu ­ dents and recen t college graduates — agreed o n the im portance o f the m entors in their lives. B ut w hat happens to the stu­ d e n ts w h o n e v e r k n o w a M r. M u ngin? W h at w ill h appen to the oth er students in M ik e ’s high school class w ho d id n ’t graduate at all or w ere co n ten t to get out w ith m ostly D s? Far too m any young black boys are only hearing the first part o f the m essage — “Y ou can ’t do it.” W e need supports in place to show them that they can choose a different path — and even if no one else they know has done it, they can decide to be the ones to step up and lead the way. Marian Wright Edelman is presi­ dent o f the Children's Defense Fund.