3Thr August 24, 2011 ^orttani» (Dbsrrurr Healing from Grief Don’t suffer in silence, author says People often grieve in silence. It is common for people to feel isolated and alone when they mourn. But there is healing in support. Denise Hall Brown saw a need to promote the power of relationships and resources to aid in the healing process, start­ ing with the publication of her first book, 2Grieve 2Gether: A Journal from the Heart Helping Survivors and Supporters Navi­ gate the Healing Process. W hen Brown was 29, her mother was killed by a drunk driver. She lost her 5-month-old learned that grief is not some­ thing you ever get over, rather you get through. She experienced firsthand the wide range of em o­ tions brought on by the rawness of grief. She has learned to be gentle with herself through each ordeal. The premise behind 2Grieve 2Gether is that grief is a process that should not be handled alone. The book is unique in addressing both survivors (those who are dealing with the death of a loved one) and supporters (those who are trying to help them). Brown attends Hood College Denise Hall Brown in Frederick, Md., where she son tragically 10 years later. earned a certificate in thanatol- Since then, she's buried her hus­ ogy, the study of death and be­ band and an aunt who was like a reavement. She is working to­ mother-figure to her. ward her master's degree in that From each hardship, Brown field. ■an A tattoo artist at work with a customer. Rare Tattoo Infections Found (AP) — At least two men may have com e dow n with a rare bacterial skin infection that is hard to treat with antibiotics after getting tattoos at a store in Seattle, health authorities said last week. One 44-year-old man was confirm ed to have a case of M ycobacterium haem ophilum after getting a tattoo on his arm in A ugust 2009, the C en­ ters for D isease C ontrol and Prevention said. The infection, which showed up as a bumpy red rash and a pus infection on the skin's sur­ face, resisted treatm ent with several antibiotics but eventu­ ally d isap p eared after nine months. A second su sp ected case was reported in a 35-year-old man who got a tattoo at the same place two months later, but tests were inconclusive. The CDC said it considered it a "suspected" instance of in­ fection. The source of the bacteria remains a mystery. Authorities said the tattoo parlor was in com ­ pliance with safety regulations but told the owner to use steril­ ized water for rinsing skin and diluting ink instead of tap water. Page 7 Toast to Your Health For Your Health by D r . J ames For many Americans, having a N. M artin J r . couple of drinks to unwind at the end of the day or to connect so­ cially with friends is a fun and occasional indulgence. But for a Thirteen percent of women in the growing number of women who U.S. consume more than seven al­ drink, these occasions have gone coholic drinks each week. More than from few-and-far-between to rou­ one-quarter of women aged 18-25 tine. binge drink, meaning they consume Drinking too much alcohol can more than three drinks per occa­ cause a slew of negative physical, sion. Binge drinking causes a sud­ social, and mental consequences den peak in the blood alcohol, which in women such as decreased fertil­ can lead to unsafe behavior and a ity, menstrual disorders, heart and higher risk of reproductive and or­ liver problems, injuries, seizures, gan damage. malnutrition, and an increased risk Many of us don’t realize that we of breast, liver, rectal, and head drink too much. Understanding and neck cancers. Loss of income, what a reasonable level of consump­ child neglect or abuse, altered tion is may be enough to encourage judgment, driving under the influ­ some people to cut back. However, ence, and depression may also others may find that it is hard to curb occur. their drinking or may not stop drink­ So how much is too much? Mod­ ing even though it threatens their erate drinking is defined as no health, safety, or relationships. more than one drink per day for These are signs of alcohol depen­ women and no more than two per dence. day for men. It’s recommended Women are often more reluctant that women drink less because, than men to admit that they need pound for pound, they have less help or have an addiction, fearing water in their bodies to help dilute repercussions at work or with the alcohol and its toxic by-products police, social isolation, or the loss of than men, making them more vul­ their children. But the sooner the nerable to alcohol-related health problem is addressed, the better. problems at lower levels of alcohol If you think you may have a drink­ intake. ing problem, talk to your doctor. He Serving size also matters. 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